Liao Yimei said: It is not uncommon for people to encounter love and heat resistance in this life. Like means mastering. It's easy to meet someone who is seduced by the other person. Think about it. Along the way, we liked many people and touched many people. The love of stone fire at that moment is easy to germinate, but only a handful of people can go on for a long time.
Some people are attracted by their appearance, and eventually they are separated because their life is not suitable. All people who pursue love will look forward to the fit in life, not because they are suitable, but because they know each other and know each other.
Everyone envies those beautiful women and talented people whose souls match, but not everyone can meet them. Some people are likely to wait a long time or be alone. These people are undoubtedly lucky to meet their soul mates. From the moment they met, they already knew the person who was destined to be convenient. Soul mates do not exist naturally, but need to be produced under certain conditions. The book Li Yinhe says love talks about three elements of soul mate. Let's have a look.
1 has a rich spiritual world. Take care of your inner beauty, and the story is one in a million. At present, it is easy to get an interesting soul, but it is difficult to have a person with a story. Many people are attracted by appearance for the first time, but in the end, the more they get to know each other, the more they will find that they have nothing in their hearts and don't want to keep in touch with her.
In real life, most people are like this. They live like children every day, living in a very simple and initial world. All they think about all day is eating, sleeping and playing. There is nothing wrong with pursuing perfection. They find a job where they can make a living and then idle away their time. Many people have no life at all, as if they were walking dead, which is not satisfactory. Even if such a person meets the right lover, it is hard to be attracted to her.
In Heart Residence, Zhan Xiang is an infatuated man. He loved Gu Qingyu for ten years, tried his best to please Gu Qingyu, and paid a lot of energy for her, but he still didn't get Gu Qingyu's heart. Obviously, they are not from the same world at all. Gu Qingyu loves elegant concerts, and Zhan Xiang is keen on playing cards every day and collecting rent all day. He is not your ideal type at all.
In feelings, being kind to a person is not respected. You have to be a world person with each other to win her heart. Li Yinhe said: If you want to find a soul mate, you must first have a colorful spiritual life. Compared with external polishing, it is also very important to manage your own heart. Only people with rich spiritual essence can meet the other half of the soul.
The ability to love is very likely. Many people think that the ability to love is really too simple. Because each of us has the instinct to love others, as long as we meet someone we like, it will be very easy to arouse. But in fact, many people simply don't know how to love each other, how to run a long-term and relatively stable relationship, and just pay and please blindly to win each other's love, and finally they can only be poor.
In real life, there are too many girls who have no ability to love at all. Once they fall in love, they will put themselves in a very humble state to look up to each other and blindly please each other, but such people have made this relationship unbalanced from the beginning and can't get equal love.
Many of us also misinterpret the power of love. The ability to feel love is to be kind to a person, to pay by hook or by crook, to be kind to him by crook, and to meet each other's demands. Actually, it is not. The premise of the ability to love is to love yourself, not how to love and treat him well.
Li Yinhe said: How can we have the ability to love? The correct answer is: one must love oneself first. If he doesn't even like himself, he can't be infatuated with another person, nor can he have the ability to love. Lovers love themselves first. You need to have the ability to please yourself first, take care of yourself, and then attract people with the same frequency, instead of winning the respect of others by humble flattery and injustice.
Luck is also a great source of love. She mentioned her meeting with Wang Xiaobo in the book. After meeting, both of them felt very lucky because they didn't miss the opportunity. Before meeting Wang Xiaobo, she had a failed relationship. If that relationship had passed, she wouldn't have met him. Wang Xiaobo also liked others, but none of them succeeded. After they meet, they are very emotional, and there will be a feeling of seeing each other for a long time. True love must be intertwined with fate, and meeting early and meeting late will not just happen.
When Xu Zhimo met Lin, he already had a wife. He and Lin Ben are the same person, but they are helpless and can't be together. For Xu Zhimo, Lin is nothing more than his soul mate. Two talented people are attracted to each other, but because of the wrong timing, they just pass by. Some people meet too early, don't know how to cherish each other, and finally can only be separated. It's no use meeting too late After all, everyone is just looking at each other in the fog, and they can't stay with each other forever.
To get a soul mate, the ability to love and luck can be combined. Soul mates can be met but not sought, and no one can control his life. Who we will meet in this life and who will grow old together are already doomed. But we can't wait passively, but we should take care of ourselves first, make ourselves better from the inside out, and then attract people with the same frequency, so that we can firmly grasp and not miss him when he arrives.