The receiving method is as follows: 1. Warm reception: Parents will warmly receive Mao's wife's first visit. Parents can chat with Mao's daughter-in-law and look at her face and behavior, so as to judge her character and conduct. At the same time, they can also ask her what she likes to eat and cook her favorite meals.

2. The importance of politeness: In Shanghai, the "hairy-footed son-in-law" is a nickname for a young man. He is very sure about his relationship and intends to visit his parents. Politeness is very important for a hairy daughter-in-law Parents can judge whether their children know how to respect and understand the family through their children's understanding and implementation of family etiquette and rules.