? While my son was doing his homework, I sat beside reading. I'll tell him anything I can't do, but I'm still smart, and I suddenly realize it with a little wave. Deliberately exaggerated, "Oh, I know, I know, so that's it, simple." Hehe, this guy, I smiled.
? Every day is so dull, I suddenly feel as if it has been like this for a long time, and I gradually like this ordinary day.
? It turns out that life can be so simple and so dull. It turns out that such a dull day is called life, sureness and warmth.
? Perhaps, life itself is a process of removing the rough and selecting the fine, deleting the complicated and simplifying, but when I was young, I thought it was very complicated and lived a complicated life. When talking about writing articles, Su Shi said: "When writing, the weather is magnificent, the colors are gorgeous, the age is mature, and it is unremarkable." Probably this life, like composition, has gradually returned from glory to dullness.
When I was young, I worked hard and enthusiastically to grab it, as if I didn't have time to catch up. There is no tomorrow after today. My back is swollen because I stayed up late for the exam. In order to catch up with the manuscript, I kept writing about my finger cramp. Go all out to do everything well, even if you are sick, you will go to class, as if the earth would not turn without you. Now, I gradually return to dullness, calmly deal with it, calm down, rest when I am tired, and sleep when I am sleepy. If you can't finish today, there will be tomorrow; I can't pass the exam this year, and I will still have it next year. The earth keeps moving away from everyone and will no longer be as busy as a top. I understand that life is a process, not a pursuit of a result. Life is to live day by day, slow down, live slowly and enjoy slowly.
One day when I came back from my hometown, it was still early, so I slowed down and enjoyed the scenery on the roadside. Far away, I saw a garden, a miscellaneous peanut tree, colorful and beautiful. I couldn't help but find a place to stop and get off, and the family went into the garden. There was a hole deep in the garden, which surprised us. The son was even more excited and shouted, "Mom, look, this running water, this lawn, is this the legendary paradise?" It's really a bit, meandering water flows, winding paths lead to a secluded place, winding paths lead to a secluded place, pavilions and waterside pavilions, weeping willows and pines burst, with green manure on the top and green grass on the bottom. There are some strange stones lying on the lawn, some bamboos standing by the river, bees and butterflies playing with flowers and birds pecking at fruits.
It was so beautiful that we didn't miss the garden because we walked slowly. I have walked through this place before, but I hurried by and couldn't find it. Suddenly looking up, a big red sun hung low on the treetops on the other side. Facing the afterglow of the sunset, I was moved for a moment. Beautiful scenery has always been there, but there are too many obstacles in our hearts, driven by something. We in running all the way move forward and never stop to think. When we slow down and enjoy some beautiful scenery along the way, inner peace will also polish our eyes, broaden our horizons and broaden our minds.
In fact, the blows, difficulties and setbacks we have suffered should be slowed down, and we should look farther and think wider. Once upon a time, when I encountered something painful, my heart would break and the sky would fall, and I felt that the world was unfair and my life was shallow. At that time, I was still young and didn't know the taste of sadness. I was in trouble for a while and it was difficult to get rid of sadness. However, I don't think many people live a more bitter and painful life, just exaggerating their own pain, and I can't see Mount Tai, but I can't feel the happiness and happiness around me. Calm down and think about it. What is plain sailing in life? There are always some twists and turns and some grievances.
If you like someone, you will always see that person in your heart. It's really like seeing Sanqiu every day. Love is so hot and friendship is so strong. Sometimes my heart is scarred and patched, but I still can't let it go. It's too hard to let go of a relationship. The same is true of friendship. Friends of girlfriends always have to meet before they can rest assured. If you don't see me for a few days, you should contact me by SMS, lest this friendship go far. However, it is slowly discovered that some things are actually related to fate. When fate comes, you should cherish it. Fate follows fate, which is beyond your control.
Life becomes dull when people are alive, and many people disperse when they walk. Friendship, just lightly. After a long time, gently say hello, "Are you okay?" When you get an answer, you can rest assured. Sometimes you can't get a reply when you send a message, and you won't chase and ask why you don't reply. A person has a life, and there is always a reason not to return.
? Sometimes I will live very tired, not because of the indifference of human feelings, but because I am too sensitive, too concerned about other people's judgments and likes and dislikes, and have no inner observation. It should be noted that there is no fish when the water is clear, and there is no disciple when people observe it. Excessive pursuit of perfection is also a morbid state, both for people and for themselves.
? That day, my sister who watched the apple orchard together as a child called and talked for a long time, but it was all about children's school and home. Time is too long, it will never be enough. My sister told me that the corn, edamame and peanuts grown in my own field can be cooked and eaten, so let me bring some back. She also said that there was a cicada in the refrigerator for me, a greedy cat. When I was a child, my playmates who grew up in a village all married to other places and gradually lost contact. I just said hello when I met them at home, but my sister of the same age has been thinking about me for so many years. She always remembers that I like to eat boiled corn. When I was a child, I looked at the garden and sat on an apple tree with a book in one hand and corn in the other. I am carefree. I remember she laughed at the way I chewed corn like a puppy chewed a bone. An ordinary phone call is all about trivial matters of ordinary days, but it feels very warm.
I think life can be really simple. Simple meals made of corn, soybeans and whole grains can fill our stomachs without any delicacies. Thoreau wrote in his famous Walden: "The simpler life is, the simpler the laws of the universe will be. Loneliness will not be loneliness, poverty will not be poverty, and weakness will not be weakness. " Simplicity can last for a long time, the road leads to simplicity, still water runs deep, and simplicity is good.
I like simple life and ordinary days more and more, and I don't like prosperity and noise. Wear simple clothes, be vegetarian and live a simple life every day. Thanks to this hard work, I generally don't need to go out to socialize. Occasionally, there is a dinner party. If you want to put it off, you can't go out without going out to eat. In my opinion, it is a waste of feelings and time for couples to deal with it at the wine table, and it is simply unpredictable. Simply stir-fry a shredded potato and roll a pancake at home. I don't want to attend the reunion. Times have changed. Many people have changed. All walks of life are not easy to talk about. Three or two people you know might as well simply eat a jiaozi, or drink noodles, take a walk and talk about life. Talk less and less, some troubles can be avoided, and emotions will be contagious. It is better to convey some warmth with a bright smile.
Gradually like some simple objects and breed some nostalgia. An old sweater I used to like to wear, and an old book I read with yellowed pages and worn spine. Those old letters, those envelopes and stamps. The pen commonly used in writing manuscripts is written in pure blue ink.
? I like to put those classic old songs in my room and read or write with them. Even reading is simple, and those difficult and thick literary papers are no longer touched. They only read those simple essays, and sometimes they can see the sun setting with a cookbook. Writing is no longer a pile of gorgeous rhetoric, no longer pursuing steep flexion, no longer writing deep tragic pain, no longer processing trivial materials, but writing body and mind with simple and simple words. From the vegetables and carrots in the kitchen and the porridge and rice on the dining table, I wrote down the joys and sorrows of earthly life, the joys and sorrows of little people, and my familiar teaching life. Listen to my inner voice, and the real me writes my heart by hand.
Be a fireworks woman in the secular world, eat simple meals, wear simple clothes, read favorite books, write shallow words and make intimate friends. Life is the same as the sky is high and the clouds are light, but it is also down-to-earth, warm and happy.
Life, so simple, so dull. I don't want the high sky anymore. I just want this land, live an ordinary life and be myself.
Taifeng, a high school Chinese teacher, founded Taifeng's workshop. I like reading, writing, reading, teaching, writing and book addiction.