Although there are indeed many couples who are alienated because of the age gap, they finally broke up. However, it is not a couple who did not support each other to the end.
For example, the physicist and his wife, commander Xu and his wife were criticized when they were together, but after experiencing setbacks and hardships together, the feelings between husband and wife became deeper. It can be seen that the "a pear blossom over a begonia" that has forgotten the love of the New Year is not without good results.
Today we are going to introduce two protagonists who forget the age gap and fall in love. One of them is the son of a famous old man in Ji Xianlin, and the other is just a nanny who takes care of him. The difficulty between these two people is not only 40 years old, but also the difference in status. How they met and fell in love, and how they overcame many difficulties to get together, let's take a look today.
First, childhood without fatherly love
Speaking of Ji Xianlin, people's admiration may be irrepressible. As a translator, writer, essayist and Buddhist, this knowledgeable old gentleman has created immortal glory in the literary world, which can be said to be inexhaustible.
However, today's hero is not Ji Xianlin himself, but his only son Ji Cheng. From the name, we can see that Ji Cheng, who was born in a literary family, got a lot of hope from his father. What is unknown, however, is that the relationship between Ji Cheng and his father has not been very harmonious. Even in daily life, he is usually called Mr. Ji, not his father.
The lack of fatherly love is the reason for the weak affection between father and son.
As an important figure in the literary world, Mr. Ji Xianlin has a busy work. Ji Cheng talked about meeting his father for the first time, but he said he was 1 1 years old. Father, a strange figure, is just a figure in a black-and-white photo to young Ji Cheng. After ten years of turmoil, Mr. Ji Xianlin was driven into the bullpen, and his father and son could not meet each other. After his mother died, the relationship deteriorated.
Growing up in such an environment lacking father's love, Ji Cheng also became a sensitive and extremely loveless person, which also laid the groundwork for him to fall in love with the nanny in the future.
Two. A failed first marriage
Before that, Ji Cheng had a marriage. 1959, aged 24, married his first wife. However, married life is not happy, and Ji Cheng soon found that there are huge differences in their living habits and three views, and their feelings cooled sharply.
Ji Cost didn't want to give up this unhappy marriage, but his first wife was even more heartless. She took the children to the United States, leaving Ji Cheng alone at home waiting for his wife to come back.
However, this long 30-year ordeal finally came with his wife's divorce agreement. Finally, in 2004, the two officially announced their divorce.
3. True love in old age
In these 30 years, she was accompanied by only the nanny who took care of her parents: Ma.
At first, the young and lively horse only expressed sympathy for the man with unhappy marriage and treated her as his own daughter.
However, with the continuous development of common life and the meticulous care of horses, I gradually found that my feelings broke out like seeds after the rain. Young, lively and efficient horses are the only bright colors in his gloomy life. Only in the process of getting along with horses can Ji Cheng smile happily and feel that he is back to his youth.
So, like a little boy who has never been in love, Ji Cheng, 70, began to pursue his beloved girl. In this process, despite many criticisms and the opposition of both parents, Ma was finally moved by him, and finally they got their wish and entered the marriage hall.
After marriage, their life has been loving and sweet. After Ma became pregnant, the overjoyed old lady attached great importance to the child. He has never been in the kitchen, and even looked at the menu and cooked for his wife. Soup can be said to be extremely touching. Ma was also deeply moved and successfully gave birth to a son for her lover.
In order to make up for the defects of his childhood, he gave all the warmth and companionship to this son and named him Ji Hongde, hoping that he would be generous and virtuous. With the birth of a newborn, Ji Cheng and Ji Xianlin, the father and son of the Cold War for many years, finally put aside their differences. Ji Lao also attaches great importance to this hard-won grandson.
Now, for Ji Cheng, who is nearly eighty years old, the happiest thing is to make a pot of tea, read a book and quietly watch his wife and children play on the sofa. The twists and turns, the hardships, the final happiness and sweetness, only he can know.
Ji Cheng's rough life can be said to have brought us many regrets.
First of all, affection plays an irreplaceable role in a person's growth. Throughout the article, Ji Cheng chose to marry the nanny who took care of herself, largely because of lack of love and insecurity. And his character is the result of lack of father's care. Therefore, family companionship in childhood plays an important role in a child's healthy growth.
Secondly, when true love comes, we must seize the opportunity and pursue it bravely. The 40-year-old age gap is not a small obstacle for this couple, which has brought many people's cold eyes and criticisms. However, even so, the inheritance of old age is still used to pursue love and dare to pursue their own happiness. This is not a revelation for us.
So, you know, there is no royal road to true love. In daily life, when true love comes again, even if it is full of ups and downs and hardships, don't give up. Don't let go of your favorite person easily because of other people's eyes and secular views. Just like that, he told us that even if "I'm 80, 18, green is a beauty and my hair is white", as long as I love each other, there are infinite possibilities.