As we all know, of the two solar terms, Dragon Boat Festival is a traditional festival in China. It is also the time for daughters and sons-in-law to be filial to their mother-in-law, and it is also the time for parents to look forward to it. It is also an expectation and a concern.
China people pay attention to filial piety, which is the first of all virtues, while the Dragon Boat Festival in rural areas is more grand. Daughter-in-law must buy some gifts or drinks that parents like. "When the son-in-law comes to the door, the chicken will die." This is the mother-in-law's enthusiasm for the son-in-law.
Wheat is slightly yellow, women look after their mothers, and women don't look at yellow wheat. This is a wait-and-see and an expectation. Older people should have a deep feeling that there is a custom of making green balls when green flowers and yellow flowers are not connected. Green wheat grains are cut back and rubbed, and processed with Dendrobium, which can be said to be delicious on earth. In the past, my living conditions were not rich. I hope my daughter and son-in-law will come back to share the delicious "Youth League". The poor inherit the wind, and whose parents don't leave the best food for their children to share at home. They usually scrimp and save, just for the children.
A kind of inheritance, a kind of custom, overcomes the pain of the old people in the world. "The wheat is a little yellow, and the woman looks at her mother." That's memory, that's gratitude. I hope that the children in the world will not live up to their parents' painstaking efforts, and often go home to see, parents are here, home is here, and hope is here. Don't let your parents yearn for it, just chill. Accompanying is also a dream that parents care about.
Women don't care whether their mother is yellow or not, that's the past saying. Nothing goes to Sanbaotang. Usually busy filial piety in-laws, and her husband hand in hand to create their own future, parents all over the world know, all know, don't work hard, the wheat is a little yellow, come back and try my mother's green meatballs and eat zongzi. Young friends, do you understand the good intentions of your parents? The wheat is a little yellow, and the woman looks after her mother. Parents have entered the old age. Just like wheat, they are old and faded. Children should know how to be grateful and wait for their parents to die before going home. I'll really regret it then.
My friends, you should understand the meaning of "wheat is a little yellow, women look after their mothers, and women don't look at their mothers". If you wait and see, you will miss the opportunity. There is a proverb in the countryside: "wheat should be robbed and rice should be raised." Why don't you hurry up while your parents are alive, so that parents can stop mourning and often go home to see, so that the elderly can have a happy old age.
There is an old saying in the countryside, "the wheat is yellowish, and women look at their mothers, but women don't look at their mothers' wheat." Will it really be yellow?
In the summer harvest season, sweat soaked the petticoats, and a knife and a sickle rushed to harvest.
The cock crows five drums and stands up, and the western hills are hungry and sunset.
Poor parents live by drinking morning dew and supporting the wall at dusk.
Heaven and geographical people are one, why not go home and have a look!
When the wheat is yellowish, it means that the wheat is going yellow and the harvest season is coming. In the past, sowing and harvesting were done by manpower. When harvesting wheat, the temperature is high and it is impossible to delay the sunny day. For farmers, they are both tired and nervous. As daughters, they must go home and see the situation at home when they are busy. By the way, when they are busy, they will use some delicious food to honor their parents and improve their lives. It is a filial piety to my daughter.
Women don't care whether their mothers are yellow or not, which means education and advice. It means that children should honor their parents. When the harvest season comes, you must go home to see your parents. Things that need to be arranged at home can be arranged in advance to make you feel at ease. The wheat won't turn yellow until you go home and look at the sky. "Wheat is a little yellow for women, but not yellow for women" is a folk custom in a certain place. This sentence is also an expression of filial piety to children. It is widely circulated because it is reasonable, humane and has the function of educating children to inherit traditional virtues.
In fact, Mai is a little yellow. Women look at their mothers, but Mai is still yellow without looking at her. It just shows that farmers were miserable in the past and their lives were not easy. Daughters should really go home to see their mother when they are busy, try their best to help their elderly parents solve their difficulties and prepare for the upcoming looting and harvesting.
In short, "Mai is a little yellow, and women don't look at their mothers. Although wheat is not yellow, it is one-sided and subjective, but it contains human virtues and has a philosophy of human morality, which is worth spreading. Children in life should always go home and have a look. Parents in the world don't want their children's money, they just want to be around.
There is an old saying in the countryside, "the wheat is a little yellow, and women don't look at their mothers." Is it really yellow?
This is the scene that the rural areas in wheat producing areas are about to enter the wheat harvest season, describing that rural women are about to enter the busy wheat harvest season. In the endless wheat producing area, there is golden everywhere and the wheat waves are rolling, which is a good season to harvest wheat. When wheat is harvested, we must seize the sunny day, seize the good weather, seize the time to grab the harvest and grab the sun. At this time, farmers are both happy and tired. At this time, the married girl and the mother who cares about her mother's family have reached the harvest season again, and the old and weak body has to go through a tense and busy labor, fearing that the mother will be tired again. She must go back to her parents' home to see Wang's mother once, comfort her mother's mood and honor her parents once. ~~
In the rural areas of wheat producing areas, it is necessary to marry girls, and it has long been a custom. Every year, when the wheat is slightly yellow and the harvest is about to begin, the married girl will always send her eggs of chickens, ducks and fish or some nutritious food such as pork back to her parents' home to honor her parents. When she needs to consume a lot of physical strength during the busy summer grain harvest, she will nourish nutrition and keep her weak body well before she goes to harvest wheat. Every year when the wheat is yellowish, it is the time when the married girl is most concerned about her parents. They are afraid that they are weak and can't bear the intense labor during the summer harvest. Therefore, they must return to their parents' home before the wheat harvest. In this way, the eternal custom of filial piety to parents is formed. ~~
"Women don't look at their mother's wheat, but it's not yellow either" is an emotional description of a girl who got married in a rural wheat-producing area and didn't go home to visit Huang's parents. In the countryside, when the wheat is yellowish, all the married girls go back to their parents' home to visit and honor their parents before the wheat harvest. There is too much farm work at home to leave. If you take time to go back to your parents' house, you will always feel guilty and uneasy. Therefore, you miss your parents all the time. During this time, I miss you every day, and I feel that time passes very slowly. When I see wheat every day, it won't turn yellow or mature. Girls who get married at this time want to go home to visit their parents, but they always suffer from too much farm work at home and can't spare time to visit their parents. They always feel that time is too slow, and wheat is not easy to wither and mature. This is the psychological feeling that married girls in rural areas in wheat producing areas have not returned to their parents' homes to visit their parents.
There is an old saying in the countryside, "the wheat is a little yellow, and women don't look at their mothers." Is wheat really yellow?
It is not the truth of Huang Zhi that wheat will turn yellow in season. Wheat germination, growth, evil, flowering, filling, waxing and harvesting are natural laws.
The rural old saying mentioned by the subject "The wheat is a little yellow, and women don't look at their mother's wheat." This sentence is widely spread in rural areas, which is also a unique human touch in rural busy seasons. The so-called relatives, a chicken in the left hand, a duck in the right hand, carrying a small doll behind him.
Married women didn't often go back to their parents' homes in the past, so they seldom went back once. Maybe they went home once during the celebration of three festivals and two lives. One of the reasons why I didn't go back often was that the traffic was inconvenient and I walked on my legs all the way. If I marry a girl far away, it is quite rare to go home once. The other husband's family also has a lot of farm work to do and no extra time. But now it is very casual for married women to go back to their parents' homes, because they have cars and may go back once a week. Going back to my parents' house now is a bit like having a farmhouse meal and leaving after eating.
The meaning of this sentence is that when the wheat is a little yellow, the married woman goes to her parents' home once. If the daughter doesn't go home to see her mother, the wheat won't be yellow. The first half of the sentence is very reasonable and true, and the second half only plays an important role, emphasizing that married women come back to see their mothers when the wheat is a little yellow. It's not true that my daughter doesn't look at the wheat at home.
Why do women have to look after their mothers when the wheat is a little yellow?
First of all, women take care of their mothers out of concern for their parents' health. A married daughter is like spilled water. It is rare to go back to several places a year. The health of her parents has always been a concern in her heart. Her parents are old and ill. When the busy farming season comes, go back to see her parents, buy some meat and other things that parents like to eat, and do a little filial piety for her daughter.
Secondly, when the wheat is a little yellow, I will go back to my parents' home, mainly to coordinate the harvest time of the two wheat families, so that I can go back to my parents' home to help harvest the wheat. The harvest of wheat is determined according to the maturity of one's own field. Harvest in a week, as long as the weather is good, the time can be coordinated. The daughter went back to her parents' house to check the time, and then went back to help her parents harvest wheat.
As for saying that "women don't look at their mothers, and wheat is not yellow", it is impossible. Mainly to highlight the first half of the sentence about the daughter going home to see her mother.
Now the wheat in many places is a little yellow. Did you go home to see your mother?
The first meaning: in the old society, according to the tradition handed down, all mothers wanted to marry their daughters, fearing that their daughters would be wronged in their husband's family. After all, in the old society, food and clothing was the problem of ordinary people. When the wheat is yellowish, it is around June 6 in our local area. At this time, the days of green and yellow have passed. People will call their daughters back when they see a bumper harvest. They can make food from the leftover food at home, which is a luxury, and of course, their daughters will share it. This is the reason for the formation of this old saying, handed down, mother and daughter meet, and the whole family shares the joy of harvest.
The second meaning: this meaning was very obvious when I was a child without a combine harvester. According to tradition, the daughter was called back for a reunion dinner. At the same time, I also tell you that the wheat harvest is just around the corner. Brothers and sisters should get to know each other and help each other after harvesting their own wheat. This is a mobilization meeting for the whole family to harvest wheat, which will link the feelings between brothers and sisters. Otherwise, there is an old saying: mom is here, home is here! The meaning is all in it.
Now life is booming, just like the rotation of combine harvesters. Everyone is busy making money, and our local traditions are gradually disappearing. Family gatherings all the year round, which are also on major festivals such as the Spring Festival, are another example: wheat is a little yellow, women don't look at their mothers, and wheat is not yellow! Many young people don't know this. Older married women will still go back to see their old mother when they know it and it is convenient. After all, harvesting wheat is an important agriculture that benefits the people.
There is an old saying in the countryside,' the wheat is a little yellow, and women don't look at their mother's wheat.' If a girl doesn't look at her, the wheat will be yellow. Without her, the cultivators will starve to death, so whether she looks at it or not, the wheat will naturally be yellow. But the real meaning of this old saying is that if the wheat is yellow, the married girl should go back to her family. When the wheat turns yellow, the girl will not go back to her mother's house, and her heart will be gone.
In the early years, when the wheat in the countryside was ripe, it was harvested by hand with scissors. This period was in midsummer, the sun was shining, and the temperature in the field reached a fever pitch. You can vaguely see the white gas along the wheat wave, but cutting wheat is to bow your back, holding wheat straw in one hand and sickle in the other. After a few minutes a day, my back aches and my palms blister, so Huang is also the busiest and most tired in a year.
After getting married in the countryside, my daughter seldom goes back to her mother's house. Mother misses her daughter very much and seldom meets her at ordinary times. Now is the busy farming season, and rural people need help most. At this time, the married daughter will come back with her son-in-law to help. This is also an unwritten rule in rural areas. Mother-in-law's family must have a job, even if she doesn't do farm work, because she married someone else's girl, she has to do something. Not only that, every holiday or temporary emergency, you should stay behind to help, and the son-in-law is also half. During the busy farming season, you should go back and help. The old saying that Mai Huang used his daughter to go back to her mother's house is just a vague statement, that is, he can see his daughter and ask his son-in-law to help him with his work.
To sum up, there is an old saying in the countryside,' the wheat is a little yellow, and women don't look at their mother's wheat.' It doesn't really mean that the wheat won't be yellow if the daughter doesn't come back to see her mother, but that the wheat will be yellow, and the daughter-in-law will come back to help, and mothers can also take a good look at their daughters.
There is an old saying in the countryside: "The wheat is yellowish, and women look at their mothers, but women don't look at their wheat." Will wheat really be yellow?
Many people will be puzzled when they see this proverb. Is there a direct relationship between seeing mom and slightly yellow? Let's talk about the meaning of this sentence
Mai Shao Huang Hou Kan Niang
In the past, wheat harvest used manpower and animals, so the wheat harvest season lasted for one month. Autumn grain is sown after wheat harvest, so this month or two is very busy. During the busy farming season, my daughter has no time to go home to visit her parents. So before harvesting wheat, when she is not busy, her daughter will buy two Jin of pork and take a chicken and a duck home to visit her parents. One is to ease her thoughts, and the other is to visit her parents. Third, in order to send some nutrients to parents to nourish their bodies, they will have the strength to harvest wheat when their bodies are repaired! Women don't look at yellow wheat, just to emphasize the importance of watching their mothers in response to the previous sentence. Women don't look at yellow wheat
In our southern Henan area, the wheat is ripe and will be harvested in a few days. Now wheat is harvested by combine harvesters, and it will be harvested in a day or two. Therefore, no matter whether the wheat is harvested before or after harvest, the daughter can always bring gifts back to visit her parents. However, this old saying is still meaningful. Children should honor their parents and always go home to see them.
In fact, it should be "the wheat is yellow, the woman looks after the mother, and the sister-in-law competes for sugar", which is a folk song circulating in Guanzhong. In Xiaoman season, the vast Guanzhong Plain is full of wheat waves. In the bright sunshine, the ears of wheat swayed with the wind, emitting bursts of wheat fragrance. At this time, it is the filling period of wheat, and the married daughter is eager to visit her parents in the slack season before the wheat harvest, which is also called "watching the fun".
The married daughter always thinks about the situation at home, and whether her daughter is well is a matter worthy of concern. The daughter goes back to her family. First, before the new wheat comes down, see if there is enough food in her family. Second, she will see how the wheat in her parents' house is growing, whether it is a bumper harvest or a poor harvest; Third, she will see how farmers prepare for the wheat harvest; Fourth, she will see if her mother's body is strong, because her daughter is her little cotton-padded jacket; Fifth, when she harvests, she will ask people if they are enough, and she will come over. Because my daughter is cautious, everything at home is her concern. Of course, you can't go back to your mother's house empty-handed. Be sure to bring gifts to honor your parents, such as steamed bread, pancakes, pickles, Chili beans and other household foods. If the son-in-law accompanies her to her parents' home, the gift should be heavier, with cigarettes, wine, tea, sugar and summer fruits. As soon as the daughter enters the door, the mother will blame her son-in-law: "You are a dead girl. You are not at home to serve your parents' parents. Why did you come to your parents' house? "Come and bring food." Actually, my mother said so, so I'm so happy.
As a daughter who has gone out, she doesn't miss her mother. After seeing her, she felt very kind and it was reasonable to cry. On the contrary, it is more to say hello to her and be caring and attentive. When you meet her, you will have endless words. The son-in-law should be diligent and help the father-in-law do some farm work, especially some heavy and hard work. Mother-in-law turned to praise her son-in-law from time to time. At noon, the bride's family will fry a few dishes, put a catty of wine and leave her daughter and son-in-law for dinner. When I left, my daughter was even more tearful and reluctant to part. The bride's family will also give back some boiled eggs, oil cakes, sweets and so on. A mother holding her daughter's hand is also a thousand exhortations. In her husband's family, she should honor her in-laws, do more housework such as washing and cooking, and then her brother will take the gift back and send it on a journey.
After the wheat harvest, the bride's family will go to see her daughter and visit her mother-in-law with steamed bread and pancakes made of new wheat flour. The so-called "reciprocity". The bride's family is her daughter's backer, and the mother loves her daughter more. The purpose of seeing a daughter is to see whether her daughter is poor or not, whether her daughter is suffering in her husband's family or not, and whether her mother is alive or not. In-laws should also prepare rich banquets for their parents, during which parents will have a short talk and exchange some farm work. Of course, if the bride's family is very satisfied with her in-laws' family life, she will be very grateful. If she is not satisfied, she will talk nonsense and persuade her to let her in-laws understand the meaning without hurting her face.
It's time to harvest the wheat. For example, harvesting wheat in the countryside used to require the mobilization of the whole family. At that time, there was no harvester to harvest wheat, so the family had to grind the sickle in advance and go to the wheat field to harvest wheat. I still remember harvesting wheat with my family when I was a child, so adults would harvest wheat in the fields, and children would play under the trees and dry it after harvesting it. However, in recent years, life has been good. Harvesters are generally used to harvest wheat, which is also convenient. In the past, if there was a lot of land at home, you might need to find someone to help. Some daughters at home also came to help when they got married. There is a saying in the countryside that "wheat burns yellow, women look after their mothers, and women don't look at their mothers' wheat." "Do you know what this means?
There is a saying in the countryside called "Marry a daughter and distribute water", which means that once a daughter is married, she becomes a family member, and there may be less time to return to her family after marriage. Then, in the countryside, some girls visit their parents at some time after marriage. After all, parents have been supporting their daughters for so many years and are also cultivating their daughters. Of course, these reasons for being a child are also very clear. It is very hard to do farm work, especially in the countryside. As a girl, she knows that it is not easy for her parents. In some rural areas, when the wheat is about to be harvested, girls should take some food back to their parents' home. After all, it's tiring to do farm work, so bring something to eat for your parents.
In addition to visiting parents during the busy farming season, people who want to be grateful to their parents during the Spring Festival also bring some gifts and so on to go home to honor their parents. My parents are also very happy after reading it, so I always go home to have a look. So when the wheat tip is yellow, it will be cut, and parents are tired of cutting wheat, so at this time they will go home to visit their parents, do their best to be filial, buy some delicious food for their parents, and their parents will be healthy. So sometimes my daughter doesn't look at her mother's wheat, because it used to be that her daughter would go home to visit when the wheat was yellow, but if some parents don't look at their daughters for a long time, they will miss them and think that the wheat is yellow.
This is a remark made by a countryman poking fun at his neighbor's daughter-in-law, which embodies the intimate and harmonious relationship between neighbors. In other words. I also hope that my daughters will go home often. In fact, the daughter can't see her mother. Wheat is yellow in this season.
Today, Xiaoman, ordinary wheat is beginning to mature. Only when the wheat is yellowish. The wheat harvest will begin in about ten days. We have an agricultural proverb here, "Twelve flail rings grow in summer, and twelve wheat cakes are fragrant". That's what it means. In rural areas, the real busy farming usually begins with the long summer festivals. Planting mid-season rice, harvesting rape and raising spring silkworms, summer sowing. Farmers get up early and get greedy for the dark, plus the hot weather. Poor health is really unbearable. In this season, married daughters usually go back to their parents' home to see them. Buy something to eat, cut some meat, and help my parents pump their stomachs. By the way, see if there is a shortage of hands at home. If you need help, please give me a hand Therefore, in some places, there is a saying that "on April 18th, the girl went back to her parents' home". No matter how busy you are at home, you should take a rest and go back to your parents' house.
If the neighbors in the same village and other people's daughters go back to their parents' home at this time. Parents whose daughter didn't go back to her parents' home must feel very lost. Wheat is not yellow also represents a lost mood.
To sum up, the villagers say that as long as they are not far from home, they always go home to see their parents during the busy farming season and see what they need to help. Even if you don't take anything, your parents will be happy if you go home for dinner empty-handed. Most parents care not about whether you take things or not, but whether you have the heart. Now the young people in the village are basically working outside the home, and the elderly parents are the ones who farm and collect wheat at home. Maybe you can't leave work and go home to help grab the harvest and seeds, but call to say hello. Maybe help me contact mechanical harvesting and transportation. It is always possible.