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Campus love during college is very beautiful, so many students regard falling in love during college as a task.

After entering college, most of the students are already adults, so schools and teachers do not interfere too much in students’ lives, and parents are also more relaxed in their discipline of their children. a lot of.

Especially when it comes to falling in love, before going to college, many parents strictly prohibit their children from falling in love. However, after they go to college, they are eager for their children to take their partner home one day. The attitude is okay. It is said that a 180-degree change has occurred.

The seven-day National Day holiday has just ended. Many college students also took advantage of this opportunity to bring their loved ones home to formally introduce them to their parents, and at the same time, they can also let them know more about their family environment.

However, not all parents are very satisfied with the partners of their children, and some parents may even have conflicts with their children because of this matter. My son brought his girlfriend home during college vacation. The girl was obedient and sensible, but the mother said she couldn't accept it.

Xiao Wang is a sophomore at a university this year. He is usually excellent in both academic performance and academic performance. Parents rarely worry about other aspects, and they are very pleased to have a son like him.

On the eve of this year’s National Day holiday, Xiao Wang also told his parents that he would take his girlfriend home during the holiday and formally introduce her to his parents.

Xiao Wang’s parents were naturally very happy when they heard this. They started decorating their home and preparing recipes several days in advance in order to leave a good impression on the girl.

The holiday was here in a blink of an eye, and Xiao Wang also brought his girlfriend home as promised. The girl was very beautiful, and she was also well-educated in speaking and doing things. She talked very well with Xiao Wang's parents. After dinner, Finally, the girl took the initiative to help Xiao Wang's mother clear the dining table, which doubled Xiao Wang's mother's favor.

But seeing that the time was getting later and later and it was getting dark outside, the girl still had no intention of leaving. Xiao Wang’s mother couldn’t sit still and began to hint to Xiao Wang to send the girl home. .

Unexpectedly, the girl said that she would stay at Xiao Wang's house tonight instead of going home. After that, she asked Xiao Wang's mother for a set of bedding and moved into Xiao Wang's room.

That night, the more Xiao Wang’s mother thought about it, the more something was wrong. She was satisfied with everything about the girl, except that she did not go home at night and stayed in the same room with Xiao Wang. It made her feel bad at all.

After Xiao Wang sent his girlfriend away the next day, her mother told Xiao Wang to break up with the girl, saying that the girl would naturally have sex with Xiao Wang when she came home with him for the first time. One room.

This approach was too casual, and I even began to suspect that there was something wrong with the girl's style, thinking that an honest and responsible child like Xiao Wang had been deceived by the girl.

Xiao Wang naturally could not understand his mother's thoughts, and had a quarrel with his mother. He felt that his mother's thoughts were too conservative, and he also said that he would never break up with his girlfriend, which made his mother very depressed. The public also has different opinions on this matter

In fact, things like this are not uncommon. Netizens also have different opinions on this matter. One thinks that parents should respect the wishes of their children and how should the children choose. It's their business and parents shouldn't interfere too much.

Moreover, some netizens feel that the boy's parents are a little bit "getting a bargain but still being good", because no matter how you look at it, if a young couple is in the same room, the girl will suffer more, and since girls They didn’t say anything. What else did the man’s parents have to worry about.

But other netizens feel that this behavior of the young couple is indeed inappropriate. After all, they are still students, so as parents, they should have the right to supervise and educate.

Resolutely not letting them live together is also a responsibility to the girls, and the girls themselves should also have the awareness to protect themselves. Even lovers cannot live together easily.

At the same time, many netizens have the same idea as Xiao Wang’s mother. They think that girls who easily sleep in the same room with boys are too "frivolous" and have no self-respect. For the sake of the boy's future, they should be with her. Girls break up. Campus love must be measured and parents must respect their children.

In fact, college students do have the right to freedom in love. After all, love and marriage are free. If campus romance can be cultivated, it will also have a good ending.

However, before the future is uncertain, college students do need to remain rational and grasp the appropriateness of communication. After all, they are still students and they still have to focus on their studies. Love on campus is beautiful, but everything The premise is not to delay normal learning.

Parents should also give their children full respect and understanding, and do not be biased about things without understanding the situation. If the child expresses that he wants to take his partner home.

It is recommended that parents communicate with their children in advance to avoid unnecessary trouble caused by temporary situations, if the parents are really unacceptable to their children's target.

You should find the appropriate time to communicate positively and peacefully with your children, explain to them your thoughts as parents, and listen to your children's thoughts. Don't insist on making decisions for your children.

Today’s topic: Do you think it’s okay for college students to have sex in the same room at night when they bring their partner home for the first time?

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