Mainly because I can't stand the temptation of the outside world.

There is a woman named Qiu Hong in our village who is in her fifties. In the early 1980 s and early 1920 s, she looked like a star and a household name. Married to a carpenter in the village, my life is full of flavor. Qiu Hong is not only more beautiful, but also takes good care of the elderly like the neighbors. Everyone says that Qiu Hong is a good wife.

With the rising tide of migrant workers, Qiu Hong also wants to go out and see the world, leaving her husband to do carpentry at home and take care of her elderly in-laws. I went to Guangdong with several elders in the same village.

Qiu Hongjin entered a small electronics factory, and his monthly salary for more than eight years was only 600 yuan. She deposits 100 yuan in change every month and sends the rest home. After working for a month, she was attracted by her boss. The boss approached her with various excuses. At first, she tried her best to refuse, but she couldn't stand the boss's soft grinding and gave in.

In order to please Qiu Hong, the boss spent a lot of money on Qiu Hong, beautiful clothes and expensive jewelry, as long as Qiu Hong didn't say anything about it. In this way, Qiu Hong became the boss's woman.

There are two kinds of women, one is forgetting the benefits and not looking back, and the other is that the conscience is still in a hurry to look back. Qiu Hong belongs to the latter. Although she lives a pampered life in her boss's house, she wants to go home when she thinks of her husband and in-laws.

The boss tried everything to stop her, but Qiu Hong couldn't leave. She was ashamed of her family. Her conscience condemnation and inner anxiety finally drove her crazy. The boss found Qiu Hong's hometown again and asked him to take Qiu Hong back to his hometown.

It is said that cheating women are unforgivable, but Aunt Qiu is an exception. After returning to the village, the villagers kept their mouths shut about Aunt Qiu's scandal, as if it had never happened. After four years of treatment, Aunt Qiu regained her memory, and her life was the same as before, but she became silent.

I think Aunt Qiu is a good woman. Although she had a disgraceful life, she still deserves respect.

What a coincidence, there is such a real case around me.

My husband is from rural Anhui, and his father's youngest uncle is only a few years older than him. He is an honest man.

When he was going to get married, the local girls couldn't afford to talk about it, so they sold it (this was the case at that time, some remote places in Yunnan were poorer, and girls were sold as teenagers to subsidize their families).

So his mother bought a little girl with poor nutrition, poor development and dark skin (in fact, it is still black after raising, and skin color is a problem). A few years later, when she was older, she let them get married and gave birth to a daughter.

In fact, his wife lives a comfortable life. In my opinion, a man working on a construction site costs hundreds of thousands a year. She doesn't have to worry about money, she just needs to take care of her daughter at home.

Things broke out in the Spring Festival on 20 15. On New Year's Eve, this uncle came and said that he and his wife divorced during the day.

Father-in-law was very angry (father-in-law was the patriarch) and asked him why he didn't come to discuss with him, so he left.

The uncle said, I don't bother her, I have to go.

The reason is that his wife went to town to open a small restaurant, and we went to eat several times. For several nights, my husband and I walked together and met her, wearing heavy makeup and smelling cheap perfume for a long time, just like a worker in a special industry.

Sure enough, she was abducted by the chef in her own restaurant.

Later, I heard that I gave birth to a son for that cook. He is not as good as before (he wants to work) and wants to come back. But this hole has long been filled by others, and there is really no regret medicine to take.

Afterwards, we analyzed that she got married early and had no life experience. Her husband was a traditional man, who only knew how to earn money to support his family, did not talk sweetly, and was away from home all the year round, so he was easily deceived by men's sweet words.

So sometimes a good man can't meet a good woman, and a good woman can't meet a good man, so she divorced.

This woman is really stupid. My daughter is a teenager and will soon work as an adult. She needn't worry so much. Her husband supports his family and pursues so-called love.

Love comes to hand, only to find that I have lived in a paper house and marriage. In fact, life is daily necessities, and love is hidden in the triviality of life, which is not easy to be found and perceived.

But if you don't think this is love, it only means that you are wrong.

Vigorous is only the appearance of love, and the long flowing water is the essence of love.

My cousin's youngest son married a woman through a matchmaker and gave birth to two boys, 1 girl and three children. The relationship was okay. As he went out to work, his wife and son separated from each other.

My nephew is honest and diligent. To be honest, all our relatives like him, but he is a little Mu Na and doesn't like to talk much. He belongs to the introverted type.

Maybe he is not romantic enough! He only knows how to earn money to support his family, but he can't coax his wife with sweet words. After a long time, his wife may get tired of this dull life and often run away from home without warning, and he can't contact anyone. In fact, everyone knows what is going on.

We have known this situation for a long time. My cousin's brother-in-law has been trying to persuade his son not to divorce for the sake of his three grandchildren. Last Spring Festival, he went to his mother-in-law's house to pay a New Year call, but his father-in-law refused to let him go, saying that his daughter could not afford to lose that person.

At first, my nephew begged her to change her mind and come back to live a good life, but she just didn't come and insisted on divorce. Now the situation is reversed. She wants to come back, but my nephew has given her up. After a long time, I must have found that the men outside are not as good as my own family, and I regret it. If I know today, why should I know?

Now the situation is: my nephew has found another one and resolutely doesn't want her. It is estimated that he will get a divorce soon.

I really answered that sentence: "if you don't die, you won't die."

Speaking of this topic, I feel very heavy. A friend of mine is getting married in a few days. Why is marriage so heavy? Because he was married for the second time, his predecessor ran away with others while working outside.

Then my friend wanted a divorce, and then he found a new wife through a friend's introduction.

I have met my friend's daughter-in-law several times. She is very beautiful and has a good figure. After working outside for several years, I heard from my friends that their life was ok. Just some time ago, my friend suddenly called me and said that he was divorced because he caught her daughter-in-law with another netizen in the hotel.

In fact, many rural women who go out to work divorce their husbands for simple reasons. After all, the conditions in rural areas are very limited. How many women are running around in big cities and looking at the dazzling big cities will not be moved?

In particular, the woman's going to work in a big city alone, coupled with long-term separation, is under great economic pressure. Therefore, some things naturally follow.

I have a friend who grew up together. I remember his mother left home to work when we were in primary school. His father drives a big truck and is often away from home. Later, his mother opened a restaurant outside, because the hotel business was good, and she only went home once a year. His mother is a strong woman. After struggling for several years, she began to invest in buying a house and finally saved some money. But his father doesn't care about the appearance of his family, no matter how much money he earns or spends, and so far he hasn't left any property to my friends.

I once heard from my next-door neighbor that my friend's mother has a man outside and his father has another woman outside. In fact, when a woman has the ability, she will contact a wide range of people and careers, and meet some successful men, which will inevitably lead to admiration. If her man is not around, something will happen once they meet. For another example, a man's wife is stronger than herself, and if she doesn't put herself in her eyes, she will naturally seek comfort from other women.

Not long after their friends got married, they divorced. Now, after a friend's parents divorce, the woman lives in a high-end residential area and the man lives in a rural house. Personally, I think that women should not be too strong, and men should pay more attention to women, all in order to earn money to support their families. Divorce can be avoided. After all, when they said they didn't feel anything, there was something deep inside.

The above is a personal answer.

Why do some rural women who go out to work get divorced?

This problem was the biggest among those who went to work in Guangdong in the 1990s. In the mid-1990s, many rural young men and women went to Shenzhen and Guangdong to work in factories, garment factories, electronics factories and toy factories. Young rural women come to these places, all of them are very fresh, and all the bosses they know are rich. Therefore, after staying in the factory for a long time, I feel that my husband is incompetent, and these bosses are very enthusiastic and have a good impression on the working girls, so these young women have the idea of divorce. There is a case: in the mid-1990s, a relative and friend of mine just got married. After the Spring Festival, two young people went to Dongguan, Guangdong Province to work, and one came back after the Spring Festival one year later. I asked your wife? He said that he ran away with a boss and wanted to divorce himself.

If they stay at home all their lives and have little contact with the outside world, maybe they will never get divorced.

However, environment determines people's thinking. When they go out to work, they are exposed to the outside world. When the environment changes, the thinking will also change.

There are also such examples around. A young rural couple has a beautiful wife. In the first few years after marriage, the couple farmed and raised pigs at home. Although they are poor, their lives are quite harmonious. Later, my wife went out to work. It's a world of flowers outside, and everyone has it. I fell in love with a rich man who was widowed, and his wife was well-fed and didn't have to work hard. So she resolutely abandoned her children and divorced her husband.

Why is this happening? This is because:

There are too many temptations outside. Having a car, a building, food and clothes is much better than the original family.

When you leave home after work, your feelings for your old husband will gradually fade away.

Being in youth, we urgently need emotional replacement and filling. Being alone outside, I am also very lonely and need a backer.

It turns out that most husbands in rural areas are rustic and uneducated. Not as good as the man I met outside.

In this case, it is very likely to divorce the original husband.

Of course, not all women are like this.

What would you do if you were from the countryside and your wife wanted to go out to work?