For those old people who are cheerful, although they live alone, they have a wide range of interests and hobbies, and they usually like to communicate with others. They can go out more and make more friends, so that a person can have a wonderful life. However, some old people are withdrawn and usually like to be alone. Because of the lack of communication with others, you will feel lonely after a long time.
Old people who can't adapt to a person's life often choose to remarry. After all, it is a common phenomenon for the elderly to remarry now, and it is also a way to alleviate their loneliness in their later years. However, after remarriage, it will inevitably be influenced by many factors. Many things are not as easy as imagined, but no matter what life is like after remarriage, honesty is the most important thing.
I'm 62 years old. I married my wife and gave birth to only one child, but she died when the child was only a teenager. Before she left, she told me that I was still young, and there was a better life waiting for me in the future, so that I could find a good family to marry in the future, but he had a request that I must take good care of the children, which was his only wish.
I didn't disappoint my wife. After her death, I didn't rush to remarry, but I wanted to wait until my child finished college. During this period, many people pursued me, and my relatives and friends introduced me a lot, but I refused. I just wanted to wait until my child grew up healthily before thinking about my own affairs.
A person has been taking care of his children year after year, working hard to bring them up, watching him go to high school and college, and then watching him graduate smoothly and find a job. At that moment, I finally felt relieved. I have finished what my wife gave me, and I have to think about my future life.
However, I am also a person who depends on the weather for food. I have been used to living alone for so many years. Whether I can meet another person depends on fate. Time flies to my fifties, and my son is married and has children. But at that time, I was single. It doesn't matter to me. I still live alone anyway.
Once the lock on my door was broken, so I went to the grocery store and bought a lock. Walking into the store, I saw an old man in his fifties and sixties lying on the sofa. I said, do you sell locks in your shop? He said yes, and I went on to say, are you responsible for helping with the installation? Because I can't lock it alone.
He said with a smile: Usually we don't sell things to help customers install, but today the shop is not busy. If your home is not far from here, I can help you install it. I said that my home was not far from the front community, so he closed the shop and followed me.
We talked all the way, and I asked him his last name. He said his surname was Li. I said, I don't think I've seen you open a shop here after this road! If I remember correctly, the owner of this shop is a young man.
Lao Li said with a smile, that young man is my son. Because he and his daughter-in-law recently went on a trip, let me look after the shop. Young man! I just like to play. Anyway, I usually have nothing to do, so I just watch the shop for him for a few days.
Talking and laughing all the way to my house, Lao Li helped to change the lock, so I went to make lunch. Just as he was changing the lock, my meal was ready, and I stopped him when he was about to leave.
I said: it's time to eat, eat and go! I'm sorry to bother you today and delay your business. Consider it a meal to make up for it.
Lao Li refused at first, but he agreed at my insistence. He said that my cooking was too appetizing for him, and my cooking was so delicious that I was embarrassed.
I said: how can it be so delicious! It's all home-cooked food, maybe not as delicious as your wife's.
Lao Li choked and said, my wife's cooking is really delicious, but she has been gone for a long time, and now I have forgotten what her cooking tastes like.
I listened to his words and quickly said I was sorry and mentioned his sadness. Lao Li immediately came to his senses and said with a smile, He said nothing. It's all over. It's over.
Lao Li said, I envy your wife. Your wife has a wife who can cook like you, and she can eat delicious food every day. Is that happiness?
Lao Li's words instantly reminded me of some past events. I said, I am just like you. Actually, I live alone now. Lao Li seemed to understand, and he told me several times that he was sorry. The atmosphere at the dinner table suddenly seemed to solidify, and I immediately said, now we are even.
In an instant, we all laughed. After dinner, Lao Li told me before he left that I would call him if there was anything I could do in the future. He said he was free anyway, and I said yes.
I often pass by Lao Li's son's shop when I go home. Many times, when I walk past with my big bags and small bags, he will take the initiative to help me move home. I also often cook and eat with him. He likes to eat my cooking and always praises me for my good cooking. We will also chat and take a walk together when we are free on weekdays.
Maybe we all feel how warm it is to have someone around in our later years. Unconsciously, we all walked into each other's hearts, and over time, we formed a sense of dependence.
Later, at the initiative of Lao Li, we decided to be together, because after such a long time, we all knew each other's personality, felt that the other side was reliable, and the children of both sides also supported us to be together. Although there will be some friction in our remarriage, Lao Li will let me go.
At ordinary times, Lao Li is considerate and takes care of me, and the work at home is always rushed to do. His son said to me: Aunt Xu! My father has changed since he met you. He used to be lazy when he was alone at home. He only eats, sleeps and eats all day. Fortunately, he met you.
Although Lao Li was in his fifties at that time, he was still like a child at heart. He has become very responsible since I was with him. He not only rushed to do housework, but also rushed to pay all kinds of expenses. He always says that there is no reason to let his woman pay, but I can't always let him suffer, so I will insist on half of it.
Now we have been together for six years. We have had a good time these years. Meeting Lao Li is the greatest blessing in my life. I am very grateful to him. He came into my life and accompanied me in the vast sea of people.
Now that we are old and our health is not as good as before, I seem a little worried. The departure of my ex-husband left a deep shadow on me. I'm afraid that Lao Li will leave me one day. I don't know if I can still face a person's life firmly at that time.
Whenever I think of those unhappy things, Lao Li always comforts me and tells me not to think about it, saying that he will always accompany me. Even though he is white-haired, he will still make me happy like a child when I am unhappy, and I feel very happy with him.
Things change, and many things are unpredictable. No matter how hard life is, we still have to learn to face it bravely. Life is too short to meet the right person. People should be grateful, cherish what they have now, and don't regret after losing it.
We strive for a happy life by ourselves. Even if you remarry, as long as you can treat each other sincerely and be touched sincerely, you can still reap a happy love.