There is no delicious food, only one meat, one dish and one soup. The dishes placed on our table on holidays or weekends are often as simple as that. But on this simple table, I feel surrounded by happiness. Because at dinner, my two sons, who think they are very knowledgeable, always tell me interesting things in the world, such as astronomy, geography, current affairs, or interesting things in their studies. These interesting things sometimes surprise me, sometimes make me laugh, sometimes make me feel deeply, sometimes make me moved ... The food is simple and light, but with lovely children and such a rich life, I feel that I am the happiest.

A small dining table carries the years of a family. People who love each other take care of each other, and their feelings will be as hot as freshly baked meals. A happy family must have a harmonious dining table. I cook and you wash the dishes; I pick vegetables and you serve rice; I told an interesting story all day with great interest, and you listened meekly. The ordinary days of rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea can be talked about.

"Cooking" is of course happy for those who like cooking and enjoy life in the process; But "cooking" is of course a burden for people who don't like cooking or are too busy to eat. This kind of thing is purely a matter of personal preference and living conditions, and it is not necessarily static. Different people have different ideas at different stages of life. Those who don't like cooking now may like it in the future. Even people who like to cook don't have to go to great trouble for every meal. So, let life take its course and see your own situation. How can you be happy if you don't persist? If the young couple argue over this matter, they will be a little desperate and really can't do it.

So what determines happiness? I don't know, but it's definitely not a specific role ~ not even a deep feeling and a good temper. If I have to draw a conclusion, I think the happiness that can be decided is probably "whether the other person meets your most important expectations for the other half" and "whether the other person has shortcomings that you can't bear the most".