When do you send a red envelope to someone else's home? Red envelopes are something that every child likes. Many times, red envelopes are for celebration and a blessing to the younger generation. The Spring Festival has a long history. Let's share when to send a red envelope to someone else's home.
When do I give 1 a red envelope when I go to someone else's house? Generally speaking, it depends on how many children there are in the other family. How many red envelopes have you brought? If it's your planned number, you can give it as soon as you get home. If there are more people than you planned, go to the toilet and add a red envelope or two, or wait until you are about to leave. To tell the truth, there are no fixed patterns and requirements, so it is convenient to follow your heart.
1, the timing of red envelopes should be appropriate.
I remember when I was a child, when my relatives gave me lucky money, they often put it in your pocket quietly, and when I got home, I was often surprised. When sending red envelopes, first, it is best to send them out at the beginning; Second, don't be too direct. Putting a hand in someone else's hand is too straightforward. You can put it in the other person's hand when shaking hands. The third is to pay attention to the responsible elders to avoid embarrassment.
2. The quantity of bags is exquisite.
If you have deep feelings and good friendship, you should be realistic. We should not only express our own feelings, but also lose our identity and friendship, so we should grasp them according to ourselves when wrapping red envelopes.
In addition, the number of packages varies from place to place, and the north likes integers,100,200; In the south, people like to bring lucky numbers with 6 bands and 8 bands. For example, 68, 66, 88, 66, 6, 88 and 8 indicate wishes. Just like "benefiting the market", 10 yuan and 20 yuan in Guangdong and Fujian also convey a kind of blessing and gratitude.
3. How many red envelopes can you hold?
Everything is established in advance, and it is abolished if it is not foreseen. In order to avoid the situation that the delivery is not in place or sometimes you can't decide how much to deliver, you can adopt the multi-package method, which is divided into several grades and handled according to the specific situation.
Etiquette of receiving red envelopes
1, the elder gave us a red envelope, and we have to pick it up with both hands to express our thanks and blessings. You can't open red envelopes in front of your elders. You have to understand that no matter how much it is, it is also the mind of the elders.
2, don't take the initiative to ask for a red envelope, for example, we often say: "Congratulations on getting rich and getting a red envelope", which is also begging.
3. Red envelopes given by elders should be properly kept.
When do you visit someone's house and give them two red envelopes?
Point one: Thank you for receiving the red envelope.
The elders give red envelopes, and the baby should take them with both hands and say thank you to the elders. If the baby is too young to do it, mom and dad can hold the baby's hand, take the red envelope with both hands and say "thank you" with the baby.
The second point: don't open the red envelope face to face.
Children under 2 don't know what a red envelope is. Just tell him to say thank you when someone gives it to him, and then put it in his pocket or give it to his mother. When the baby is a little sensible, you should tell them in advance that you should take the red envelope and never open it in front of the guests. The best way is to put the red envelope in mom and dad's bag or the baby's own bag at once.
Table manners
The first point: don't enjoy the food alone.
Adults are generally used to children: children will like to eat more, but if there are guests present, they should be educated to be polite. Tell the children before eating: "Everyone likes good things, so there are good things on the table. Don't eat it all by yourself, leave some for others to eat. " Nobody likes children who are too selfish. "
Point 2: Pay attention to dining hygiene.
Some children like to be picky when eating. Parents should remember to say to their children, "When eating, you should hold the food in front of you, and pick up whatever you see, and don't toss and turn." That's very rude. Meat dishes with soup should be carefully clamped to avoid splashing on clothes. People will say that you are an unsanitary child. Put down the bowl after dinner and say politely, please enjoy your meal. "
Hospitality etiquette
The first point: be kind to guests.
When there are guests, parents should guide and encourage their children to greet them kindly and actively. After the guests enter the room, the older children can do some simple hospitality work, such as greeting the guests to sit down and pouring tea for them.
Point two: Don't interrupt when adults are talking.
When adults are talking, let children know that it is a good boy to do their own thing quietly, and it is disrespectful to interrupt casually.
When do you send red envelopes to other people's homes during the Spring Festival?
First, shou sui etiquette
Shounian: On New Year's Eve, the whole family lights up and stays up late to bid farewell to the old and welcome the new, commonly known as Shounian. There are many activities, such as eating and playing games. On New Year's Eve, the descendants of China people still attach great importance to staying up late with their families, getting together for drinking and sharing family happiness, which is a custom. After the first cock crow, the new year began. Men, women and children wear holiday clothes. First, they celebrate the New Year's birthday for their elders. Then they visit their relatives and friends and congratulate each other.
Remember, when observing the Lunar New Year, entertainment should be moderate. On New Year's Eve, friends and relatives get together to celebrate the Lunar New Year, and playing cards and mahjong is enjoyable, which often breaks the established life rules of the elderly and is not good for their health. If all-night entertainment is more harmful, it will often make the cerebral cortex excessively excited, leading to insomnia, mental stress and high blood pressure.
Secondly, don't say unlucky things, especially for the elderly at home, which is very taboo.
Second, New Year greetings etiquette.
Pay attention to dressing neatly in New Year's greetings. Put on some good clothes properly, giving people a festive beauty. Pay attention to the standardization of address. The timing of New Year's greetings should be appropriate. If necessary, you can notify the host first to avoid running empty. If you don't plan to eat, the best time is 9 am to 1 1.
It is necessary to know the names of elders and peers you may meet in advance to avoid embarrassing scenes and making people feel impolite. Geely's words should be said appropriately. There should be different greetings to different people. When talking, choose a topic that is pleasant to both sides and don't get involved in sad things. Don't talk too much, talk nonsense, the argument is too fierce. You should express your true feelings and wishes in a relaxed, pleasant, cordial and natural atmosphere. Manners and gestures should be civilized.
Third, the Spring Festival dining etiquette
We often visit relatives and friends during the Spring Festival, so knowing proper table manners can make you leave a good impression on others. First of all, speaking humorously at the dinner table can show a person's talent, common sense, cultivation and communication etiquette. Sometimes a humorous language will leave a deep impression on others, especially the Spring Festival is a cheerful festival.
Secondly, some people always try their best to persuade others to drink more. "Talk about heroes with wine" is ok for people who drink a lot, but it is difficult for people who drink less. Sometimes, excessive persuasion will destroy the feelings of original friends. Also, when making a toast, you should prioritize. In general, toasts should be made according to age and position.
Fourth, hospitality etiquette
Hospitality is divided into basic links such as welcoming guests, offering cigarettes, offering tea and seeing off. Before the Spring Festival customers come, we should clean the door in advance to meet the guests and prepare tea sets, smoking utensils and drinks. They can also prepare fruits, sugar, coffee and so on. According to their family conditions. When the guests arrive at the appointed time, they should go out to meet them in advance.
Guests should be warmly received when they go home. First, ask the guests to sit down, and then offer tea, cigarettes and sweets. When serving tea and meals, you should use your hands to peel the sugar paper and skin the guests. Smoking is a custom of entertaining guests in modern families in China, and it is a etiquette that can't be ignored when entertaining guests. In addition, female guests are generally not given cigarettes. Serving tea is also one of the important etiquette for hospitality.
Wash the tea set before serving tea. When pouring tea, you should master the amount of tea. As the saying goes, hospitality should be "light tea and full wine". The so-called weak tea is to pour two-thirds of the tea leaves into a cup. When you serve tea, you usually hold the ear of the cup in one hand and the bottom of the cup in the other, and serve tea to the guests.
When guests leave, they should generally be polite. If the guest wants to leave, wait for the guest to get up and send him away. When a guest says he wants to leave, the host should not stand up at once. Some guests often bring gifts, so you should respond when you send them away, such as expressing gratitude, asking guests not to bring gifts in the future, or thanking some gifts accordingly. Don't be indifferent.