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What are the classical Chinese texts about "making friends"?
The classical Chinese about "making friends" is: the way to make friends.

1. Original

art of making friends

Every time I learn to shoot Yi, I try my best. I thought I was the only one in the world who could heal myself, so I killed Yi. Mencius said, "Yes, but also guilty." Gong said, "I should be innocent." He said, "As thin as a cloud, are you innocent? Zheng Ren asked an obedient son (zhúo) to invade Wei, and Wei asked him to chase him. Zizhuo said, "I'm sick today, so I can't hold a bow. "I am dead!" Ask his servant,' Who is chasing me?' His servant said, "So a good friend." Say,' I was born'. His servant said, "Yu Gong thinks Wei Zhi is good at shooting. Confucius said, "My life, what is it?" Yue: Learn from Yin Gong, and Yin Gong will learn from me. If you are a husband, Yin Hui will take care of others, and if you are a friend, you will take care of them. The foolish old man arrived and said,' Why didn't Master take the bow?' He said,' I'm sick today, so I can't hold a bow. Yue:' The villain learns from Yin Gong, and Yin Gong learns from the master. I can't bear to hurt him in the way of my master. Although, today's matter is also the matter of the monarch, I dare not waste it. "Pull out the arrow, buckle the wheel, take off the gold, take the arrow, and plead against it." ?

2. Notes?

Very thin. Cloud: Not much.

② Multiplication vector: four arrows. ?

3. Translation

Xiang Yi learned archery and mastered archery skills in an all-round way. He thought that only Yi was better than himself, so he killed Yi. Mencius said, "There is something wrong with this." Gong Yiming said, "(Hou Yi) seems to have done nothing wrong." Mencius said, "How can we say there is no fault if it is not big?" Zheng sent Shunza to attack Weiguo, and Weiguo sent Yu Gongsi to pursue it. Zizhuo said,' Today, my illness broke out. I can't draw a bow. I can't live! Ask the driver,' Who is chasing me?' The driver said, "This is Yugong's." (Zizhuo) said,' I can't die. The man who drove him said; Yu Gongzhi is an excellent shooter in defending the country, but you say you can't die. What did you say?/Sorry? (He replied):' Yu Gong learned from Yin Gong, and Yin Gong learned from me. Yin Gongzhi is a decent man, and the friends he chooses must be decent. A decent man won't kill his teacher. ) The foolish old man caught up with him and asked,' Why not take the bow?' (Zizhuo Luzi) said,' I had a seizure today, so I can't hold a bow. (Yu Gongzhi) said,' I learn archery from Yin Gongzhi, and Yin Gongzhi learns archery from you. I can't bear to use your skills to hurt you in turn. Nevertheless, today's event is a great event for you, and I dare not abandon it. "So he pulled out his arrow, knocked on the roulette wheel several times, took off his arrow, shot four arrows, and then went back." ?

4. Modern interpretation?

Don't be careless with people. Confucius said that "friends are not as good as themselves" and "kindness" both mean that when dealing with people, we should choose kindness and obedience, and not associate with people with bad conduct. This chapter is also based on Mencius' view that it is easy to be guilty. In a sense, being vulnerable is asking for trouble, and the fault lies in improper employment. Today, many leaders made mistakes in selecting and appointing cadres. They like people who walk around them all day, like to listen to flattery, like to look at their shoulders and smile, and like to turn their heads. Every time it's their fault, they have to pay for it.