If what you say is not serious, ignore it; If you care, just tell them that you have something to say face to face, so analyze the specific situation. Sometimes we talk about others behind their backs, not to speak ill of others, but just pure gossip. Or sometimes something is not told to her face, and she chooses a third person to convey it. There are the following situations:

First, my husband and sister-in-law were chatting at home and just talked about you.

Don't worry about this situation at all. When brothers and sisters chat, sometimes they just talk about everything. Women like to talk about women. It's not surprising that you are her sister-in-law and will talk about you. I don't know if I didn't speak ill of you. There is no need to care. Don't you allow your husband to whisper to his sister? Maybe your sister-in-law is asking your husband what you like, so just treat it normally.

Second, my sister-in-law spoke ill of you to your husband behind your back.

At this time, if you hear me, you can stand up and say calmly, I listen to everything. Don't be embarrassed. We are all family. Don't hide things you are not satisfied with. It would be better to say it directly, and there would be no bad feelings in my heart. So, if they talk about you behind your back, you should accept it generously, but they will feel ashamed. I guess I won't dare to come again next time, for fear that the walls have ears, hehe. .

Third, my sister-in-law and her husband talk about you behind your back. Sometimes it's not convenient to tell you something before telling your husband.

After all, you are sisters-in-law, and your relationship with her is definitely not that close. It would be better to tell your husband something. For example, what behaviors does she dislike about you? Can you stand it if I tell you to your face? I must think she has been picking on you. It would be much better to tell your husband. Your husband may not tell you either, but will explain it directly to his sister for you. Isn't that great? So sometimes it's not a bad thing to say you. It depends on whether they unite to crowd you out. If not, forget it.

If you think your husband and sister-in-law are talking about you behind your back, you are very unhappy. You can do your husband's ideological work and ask him not to discuss you with his sister-in-law behind your back in the future, so you will be unhappy. You should tell him your unpleasant feelings and let your husband know, instead of sulking there. My husband is on your side, and I don't think he will talk about you in the future.