Generally, people who love to belittle each other must have great imbalance and insecurity in their hearts, hoping to gain their sense of superiority by belittling others. In love, it is precisely because he is not confident in a certain aspect that his boyfriend will belittle you, thus narrowing the gap between you and allowing you to belong to him alone, which is also an extreme desire for control.

He will make you lose self-confidence, self-doubt, unhappiness, depression, and dare not be yourself. A person who can't find advantages in you and only knows how to attack you is actually PUA. Now you are just used to living with him. As long as you are separated for more than two months, you will become happy and find that he is actually a lump.

The boy didn't break up with you because there was no better choice, but he was a little unwilling, so he had to ride a donkey to find a horse and wait for a better one to appear. And you are just a spare tire. A girl will have a good time for several years, and once she misses it, it will be difficult to get married.

So this is a very serious problem, because you are not others, but his favorite person, and you must be beautiful in his eyes, not useless. Why is he with you? Is it because you are nothing? Such a man is either a fool or a psychopath!

Who has no reason to prevaricate! Nobody needs to spoil anyone. You are willing to put up with his accusations because you don't want to lose them. After a long time, the heart is cold, and it is doomed to be separated. At that time, I will definitely feel that life is not worth wasting my youth. Wasted time and lost myself. Why do you want to wronged yourself to find a man? Don't you smell good alone? Buy whatever you want to eat and go shopping if you want. Aren't you sad? No more anxiety, no one to blame, no one to criticize, does it feel bad to be free?

I have a problem, you can find it and point it out constructively, but I don't deal with you and make you disgusted. A person who is so precious to others should not have nothing in the hands of fools.

Every girl, whether influenced by others or self-abased, should find her own goodness instead of finding fault with herself. No one is perfect. Both fat and thin are beautiful, and both introverted and extroverted deserve to be loved. There is no need to waste time on a person who can't find his own advantages.

People who always hurt girls' self-confidence are either stupid or bad. Don't react, just stay away from them. Let the PUA tuition he paid be wasted, and the girls' own happiness is the most important thing!