One is a traditional feudal woman, and the other is a famous scholar in the Republic of China.

They got together not because of two of a kind, but because of the traditional parents' orders and matchmakers' words.

They are not so well matched, and it is for this reason that Hu Shi fell in love with Cao during his illness in Hangzhou.

When Hu Shi and his wife confessed their feelings for Cao, he thought he could end this relationship peacefully.

But Jiang Dongxiu directly picked up a kitchen knife and said, if you choose that woman, I will kill both children, and I will die for you.

It is said that when Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman got married, Hu Shi was invited to witness the marriage.

Jiang Dongxiu denied this relationship, thinking that both of them were cheating in marriage, and this relationship should not be blessed.

So she locked Hu Shi at home and refused to let Hu Shi attend their wedding. Hu Shi had to smash the glass at home and secretly marry a friend. A generation of literati is so embarrassed.

At this point in the story, you may be surprised.

It is not too much for such a couple to grow old together.

In fact, such trivial things between husband and wife are not uncommon. Jiang Dongxiu may not know Hu Shi, or he may not be Hu Shi's best companion.

But she is really alive, and she will not be a wronged kannika nimtragol. Never lose a woman's self-esteem in marriage.

In the journey of life, the only thing we can't lose is dignity.

I admit that Jiang Dongxiu's behavior is really out of line, but we have to admit that this is a living, sincere woman who dares to love and hate.

Marriage is two people's practice: it is two people's love long-distance running.

Jiang Dongxiu is a traditional woman, but there is a tenacity in her bones. In this marriage, she is not stingy with her efforts.

Hu Shi recorded in Hu Shi's Study Abroad:

"Winter show more than a few months, and I have been engaged for nine years, the personnel have died, and the Xuan car period failed to practice. When I was in the winter show, I came to my house to do housework for my mother. My mother relies on her thoughts because she is comforted. "

Hu Shi went home and got married. He said this in "Newly Married Miscellaneous Poems":

"Acacia, thirteen years, today. Tell the sad old story in detail from the beginning. Don't say sorry to me, and I won't say sorry to you. And firmly remember1the transit moon on the evening of February 30. "

Jiang Dongxiu is patient. She is willing to resist the triviality of reality and run a good family for her husband.

These are just like trivial things in our daily life. Everyone's marriage life is not a fairy tale world, and everyone needs one party to pay and support their families.

Jiang Dongxiu won't complain that his efforts don't pay off, but does his work quietly.

In fact, the contribution of housewives in life is often not invisible to men, but women's complaints, which turn their contributions into demands.

Many people think that Jiang Dongxiu was lucky to marry Hu Shi, which gave her a chance to go down in history like her husband.

But I think Hu Shi is lucky to marry Jiang Dongxiu.

Jiang Dongxiu may not be the most sympathetic person to Hu Shi's soul, but he can work hard to support his family.

Jiang Dongxiu may not know Hu Shi, but she is willing to accompany Hu Shi through the difficulties.

She took care of her family when Hu Shi was away. Silently defend the rear base camp for Hu Shi.

Although Hu Shi may be attracted by the outside world, he is definitely not a heartless person and will not ignore your silent efforts.

In the face of Hu Shi's "small three, small four", Jiang Dongxiu told others through giving, what are you comparing with me?

But most importantly, Jiang Dongxiu loves Hu Shi.

She would advise Hu Shi not to be an official, not to be rich or expensive. She wants Hu Shi to keep his childlike innocence. Officialdom is a big dye vat. She doesn't want Hu Shi to be contaminated with bureaucracy.

Her love for Hu Shi is meticulous care for Hu Shi. More than ten years of hard work have been silently endured.

People can be ruthless, unless it is vegetation, no one can be indifferent to the hard work of more than ten years.

His love is reflected in his fear of his wife.

Hu Shi often takes fear of his wife as his mantra.

Once, a friend brought ten copper coins from Paris with the words "P.T.T" engraved on them. Hu Shi was suddenly inspired and said, isn't it a homonym for "being afraid of his wife"? He sent the copper coin to his friend, saying it was the badge of the wife-fearing association.

Moreover, he is not only afraid of his wife, but also let everyone know.

He joked that he would call on all men to pay tribute to the women's hospital in the old society and abide by the new "three obedience and four virtues"-wives should follow and obey orders when they go out, and blindly follow if they are wrong; The wife has to wait for makeup, remember her birthday, endure beatings and abuse, and be willing to spend money.

Hu Shi is worried that this may be because Jiang Dongxiu is fierce, but what keeps him going is love and patience.

I think this kind of three obedience and four virtues is what many modern women want to enjoy.

But we should know that giving is mutual.

Marriage is like a seesaw. Both sides should constantly think of each other in order to reach a balance.

If only one party pays in one direction, it will only bring the fatigue of the other party and eventually lead to the abandonment and departure of the other party.

What is even more rare in marriage is being able to face the storms of life together.

Hu Shi once said something he shouldn't have said in diplomatic occasions, which only gave an excuse to people who were dissatisfied with Hu Shi at home. When Jiang Dongxiu, who lives in Shanghai, heard the news, he immediately invited Hu Shi's friends to come forward and advised Hu Shi to resign due to illness. And asked the government to allow Hu Shi to resign.

Jiang Dongxiu doesn't want Hu Shi to be rich and expensive, but only wants you to be healthy. I can have nothing. As long as you're okay.

I think this is a friend in need.

We have to admit that the marriage between Hu Shi and Jiang Dongxiu was originally a failed marriage without 60 points.

If Jiang Dongxiu hadn't threatened Hu Shi with a kitchen knife, the marriage might not last long.

So what is supporting this marriage?

I think it's because of love. I think they haven't forgotten love.

Although Jiang Dongxiu was fierce, he managed to give it to Hu Shi and wash my hands to make bride soup when he didn't know English abroad.

Hu Shi is also willing to tell everyone who is afraid of his wife, perhaps to give his wife enough sense of security.

We may have many contradictions and many corners.

But fortunately, I love you; Fortunately, you can see my love for you.

The most touching thing about marriage is not how much love you have when love is strong, but that you are still by my side after the big waves.

But I have seen the bustling world of mortals, only to find that those people are not as good as you, and you are unique.

They were not each other's passers-by at first, but fortunately we honed our true feelings in the long river of time.

The bright moonlight in front of the bed may one day turn into rice dregs at the corners of the mouth, and Zhu Shazhi in my heart may one day turn into mosquito blood on the wall.

But we have a supportive family, and we used to support each other a little.

I think that's why even if Hu Shi had an affair, Jiang Dongxiu wouldn't lose.

Although Hu Shi was once dissatisfied, he had the delusion of empathy. But in the end, it was even by time. In the end, I can't live without you, only I can really understand you.

This understanding is the best gift of time, so complaining has become a love story between boudoir.

Because we are too real, we don't have to hide our shortcomings. I think this is understanding.

Marriage is not the end of love, but the beginning of love.

The story ends here. Now let's take a look at what happened recently.

Cases of wife-killing in Hangzhou and domestic violence deaths of street women seem to emerge one after another. So that modern people have a fear of marriage, as if marriage is the grave of love.

Actually, it's not. Marriage is just the beginning of love.

Many people will carefully hide their shortcomings when they are in love. After getting married, they seem to have finished the disaster and started to be presumptuous.

In fact, marriage needs to be managed more than love, and it needs the joint efforts of both husband and wife.

We may be silly to think that after marriage, you will let me go and I will be a fine wife.

We forget that marriage depends on the efforts of both parties, rather than one party blindly obeying the other and the other relying on the other.

Although Jiang Dongxiu is a traditional woman, she also has a rigid principle.

Although Jiang Dongxiu is a fierce tigress, she also wants to protect Hu Shi's romance and innocence.

Marriage is the beginning of love hardships, in fact, the most important thing is that you look for this person.

Jiang Dongxiu didn't deceive himself. Although Hu Shi had the experience of cheating, he was not a heartless person.

Jiang Dongxiu will tolerate Hu Shi's humanity, but he will slowly restrain Hu Shi.

Hu Shi is also afraid of his wife voluntarily, because he knows that this constraint is because of love. Although they often quarrel, their feelings remain the same.

In fact, we read the news cases of social marriage, not because the husband himself is psychologically distorted and has a morbid side, nor because he has accumulated grievances for a long time. So he changed from holding your hand to hating each other, from saying that he would grow old together to never seeing each other again.

If this person has a problem, it's better to leave early. There is no need to wronged yourself, and "doing charity" attempts to transform a bad person into a good person.

If it is a contradiction in life, it is better to learn from Jiang Dongxiu, have a good talk with her husband, and slowly tolerate each other's shortcomings.

We may not be your passers-by, but we should all learn to keep running in and grow up in our marriage and strive to be your perfect partner.

Hu Shi once said emotionally that other people's wives don't want their husbands to be officials and become official wives themselves, but my wife encouraged me to go back to study and really admired her.

Although illiterate and uneducated, Hu Shi always held a respectful attitude towards his wife.

Maybe this is the tacit understanding between perfect couples.