1. Gift

The first step of "Gift" is that the matchmaker sends the man's birthdates to the woman, and the woman's birthday is sent to the man. After receiving the red post, please ask the fortune teller to calculate to see if the "birthdates" of both sides is consistent, if not; Marriage will be reconsidered.

2. explore the family style.

If the two meet successfully, the average woman will go to the man's house to "explore the family". On that day, generally, more people will go to the man's house that day, so that they can have a detailed understanding of the man's family, and then listen to each other's opinions when they get home. If they are still worried, they can ask friends or relatives to learn about the background of the man's family and some things about the young people.

3. Talk about engagement money, shirt and trousers money and red envelopes.

If you feel that there is no problem with the man after "exploring the family", the matchmaker will play an important role again at this time, that is, talk about the engagement money and the money for shirts and trousers.

Generally, the engagement fee is about 3,888 yuan, while the money for shirts and pants is about 1, yuan. If, for example, the money for hiring money and shirts and trousers is almost the same, then the man will choose a day to give a red envelope to the woman's family. Generally, he will give some money to the woman's parents first, which is called "tying three belts" in the local dialect. Girls have to take out a small part of it to buy a new dress for their parents, brothers and sisters.

4. Find a date to send a day

After the "three belts", at this time, the man will prepare to find a wedding day according to the birthdates of both men and women, and then determine the date, and then send the "wedding day" red sticker and a small basket of candy cakes to the woman's house. This is called "sending the sun". When the woman knows the date, she will prepare a dowry, and the man will be busy inviting people and preparing banquets.

5. Take the plate and hold the wedding ceremony.

The bride will also give "black sugar tea" to her parents and immediate family members accompanied by the groom. Generally, the order of tea worship is carried out according to the age. Generally, when tea is served, the father-in-law and mother-in-law will prepare a gift.