Friends with a normal relationship should also wish each other a happy birthday, just congratulations, without giving red envelopes or gifts.

Anyone who gives gifts or red envelopes should be invited to attend the birthday party of the birthday person. There should always be some indication of attending the party and eating a meal. It is appropriate to give a red envelope or get some birthday gifts.

Our friendships are generally limited to weddings and funerals. That is, only those who are married and sending people will participate. I will not participate in other activities to avoid causing trouble to others.

I have only attended the birthdays of my relatives twice, and it was the same person. The first time was when he turned 85, he invited us to a birthday party, and I also gave him a red envelope to congratulate him. The second time was his 90th birthday, and he invited us to attend his birthday again. This time he stopped accepting red envelopes and made it more grand.

Our brothers also have a rule that only those over eighty years old are eligible to invite everyone to celebrate their birthdays.

She is still young and is not qualified to invite everyone to celebrate his birthday.