The point I want to tell you is: don't force others with your love. No matter how much you like it, don't force others to like it or accept it.
Before supporting my point of view with facts, I want to say one thing, that is, I once heard a passage from a famous professor in Taiwan Province Province, Mr. Ceng Shiqiang, who said: In China, Chinese mainland has a very wrong word called "sharing" because everyone's environment, cognition, thoughts and preferences are different, and your so-called "sharing" is only your personal opinion.
Although Mr. Wang's words are absolute, they are true. I also agree with Mr. Wang.
I advise you not to treat others with your own love because I once had an embarrassing experience. Here's the thing:
Three years ago, a friend from Jiangxi knew that I was from Honghu, Hubei, and wanted to go to my hometown to see the clear water and intoxicating lotus flowers of Honghu Red Guards.
Although October has passed the best viewing period of lotus, my friends are enthusiastic and enthusiastic, which is also a kind of love for the next, so I gladly take them to Honghu Lake. Take the train from Ganzhou to Wuhan that night 1 October1day.
Before leaving, I informed my second sister that besides my mother, I was the best chef in the family.
It was already five o'clock in the afternoon when my friend's car arrived at my hometown-Xiaogang Farm in honghu city. After we settled them in the hotel, we took them to the second sister's house. Soon, a sumptuous dinner with hometown characteristics was served one after another: steamed silver carp with powder, steamed pork with powder, steamed water chestnut with powder, fried lotus seeds, fried water chestnut stalks with pepper and ribs lotus root soup. At the dinner table, I kept giving them this and that, so that they could have a good taste of the special dishes in my hometown. I think my second sister's cooking is completely comparable to the first-class chef in my hometown. They still keep saying it's delicious, and I'm glad!
The next morning, I took them to our hometown's special breakfast: Monopterus albus, pork liver, shredded pork noodles and Cai Yu, pork liver, shredded pork noodles and aunt, eggs and shredded pork noodles. A big bowl full of talents 15 yuan, and I ate them all.
After breakfast, I called a friend's car to take us to Qujiawan, the place where Marshal He Long once fought, and the location of the Revolutionary Martyrs Memorial Hall in western Hunan and Hubei. We took a yacht to the island in the middle of the lake and visited the scenic spots of Honghu Lake, which was acceptable. Among them, the Honghu Red Guards who are now performing on the lake are the most satisfying to them.
At noon, I took them to the best restaurant in Qujiawan. The restaurant business is very busy. We waited about ten minutes before finding a seat. I also ordered the specialties of our hometown, which was delicious. So, at the dinner table, I kept picking up dishes for them, feeling that it was my greatest glory that they were happy.
Dinner was in a restaurant that I think is the best in my hometown. I ordered some special dishes of our hometown according to their wishes, and basically finished them.
After the four-day trip to Honghu Lake, I brought each of them a box of preserved eggs and a box of new year's goods, which are the specialties of my hometown and exported to many countries, and they are also very happy. After returning to Wuhan, I took them to Hubu Lane, the most famous snack street in Wuhan, where almost all snacks in Hubei were concentrated. Due to the time, I briefly visited the Yellow Crane Tower in Wuchang and Jiangtan Park in Hankou. In the evening, I asked them if they were used to the food in my hometown. They told me: one side of the soil and water will support one side. This sentence is very meaningful, and I heard it.
After the train arrived in Jiangxi, they told me: We can't get used to the food in your hometown at all, and we don't feel as good as our food in Jiangxi.
At that moment, I was really embarrassed.
I think, I think the delicious food will be delicious for them, so every time I eat, I keep picking up food for them and they all eat it. It turns out that they are just taking care of my face.
Only then did I really realize that what I like may not be liked by others. Therefore, no matter how much you like it, don't force others to like or accept it, that is, don't force others to love you.