Even so, doing housework seems to have become a "tradition", even a bad tradition. Men don't have the habit of doing housework, and they always put it on women, who are actually not full-time. They are also making money to support their families. How can all the housework be piled on women?
Before Sara got married, she could have lived a very relaxed life by herself. She goes to work on time every day, comes home from work, orders takeout by herself, or comes back from eating out. Occasionally, when she is interested, she buys some side dishes, studies recipes by herself, earns enough money, lives in her own house, and doesn't have to worry about rent. This life is much better than she is now married.
Sara's husband has three sisters. He is the youngest, and his parents have so many daughters just to have a son. The youngest brother in the family has naturally been spoiled since he was a child. Before getting married, Sara didn't realize this problem. Only after he got married did he know that men who grew up in such a family had no consciousness of helping to share housework when they grew up.
Both of them have jobs. They go to work at 9: 00 and get off work at 6: 00 every day, but every time after work, the husband does nothing but pick up the children. I asked Sara to buy food, and Sara cooked for himself. Even after dinner, I realized that I was lying there brushing my mobile phone and didn't want to wash the dishes.
He has never mopped the floor at home. Even if Sara doesn't put his dirty clothes in the washing machine, he can go a week without washing them. Sara told him several times: "Can you take the initiative to share some housework? I am angry when I see you lazy! " But he is confident: "I earn more money than you, and you should do housework." What's more, when I was in my home, all the housework at home was done by women. When is our turn to do housework? "
Men plow and women weave, which is a kind of inheritance, but now that women have independent ability, why hasn't this tradition changed?
There are many men who have this idea. Men only need to earn money, and they don't need to care about anything at home, but they forget that women are actually trying to earn money to support their families. Although she may not earn as much as you, she is also very tired. If you don't care about everything at home, whose home is this?
What I want to criticize is the man who doesn't want to do any housework. Although it is difficult for you to earn money to support your family, you leave everything at home to her, and she has to bear much more than you. Is this what a man should do?
Doing housework doesn't mean you are weak, and loving your wife doesn't mean you are incompetent. On the contrary, a man who doesn't even want to touch the housework is shirking his responsibility. Home is not just for one person, you should also make a contribution. What's the point of your existence if you pin everything on her? Just messing with him.