patient
Many people can't understand it.
"Some stages just can't be crossed"
This truth
Recently, I deeply feel that,
"
Please give yourself more patience,
Give yourself more time.
"
Growth does take time,
I don't know how much time there is.
I used to be myself
Due to the uncertainty of growth.
Anxious,
And eager to be enlightened at once.
Interpreting the "10,000-hour Law",
I've heard it a million times,
Only recently did I understand why it takes "10,000 hours" to grow.
The key to growth is not time,
But growth itself takes time.
Interestingly,
Actually, cooking and growth have something in common.
You can't make bricks without straw.
When cooking,
Cooking alone is useless,
You need raw materials to make it.
The same is true of growth,
need
While learning "cooking", while accumulating "raw materials",
In order to make delicious food slowly.
Moreover, the "raw materials" needed for a person's growth cannot be bought.
You need to collect and accumulate a little by yourself.
There is no way to cross the stage of raw material accumulation and growth by skill.
This stage is exactly what we need to spend time to accumulate slowly.
The more raw materials, the more time is needed.
This accumulation process is not just watering the time, and everything will be fine.
You need to take it step by step and try it bit by bit.
It is only in the process of crawling that the harvest slowly accumulates.
If you don't communicate with the world physically,
You can't grow up just by listening to a lot of philosophies.
No matter how true philosophy is, it is just "the skill of cooking";
What is lacking in the process of growing up is actually worldly practice.
That is, "raw materials."
In fact, I use philosophy to guide my practice in the world to grow.
and
Use recipes to guide yourself to cook with raw materials.
Is it not the unity of knowledge and action?
Growth is actually a process of information accumulation.
Perhaps there are skills that can help improve the efficiency of collecting information, thus improving the speed of growth;
But in the past, I often only focused on finding skills to improve the efficiency of collecting information.
Forgot to collect information.
How can you grow up with so many skills?
"
The only thing I know is that I know nothing.
"
-Socrates
At this stage, Socrates' sentence also began to be understood.
It is because I know my ignorance that I no longer fantasize about reaching heaven in one step.
I really want to settle down and grow up step by step.
Not afraid to be a slow-crawling turtle;
What I'm afraid of is that a turtle still dreams of growing wings tomorrow.
Waiting for wings to fly, so I don't want to climb forward.
Maybe one day we can evolve wings.
But before that,
Why not give yourself more patience and time to grow?