Because if you want to marry a Chaoshan woman, you must marry her because you love her, not because of her virtuousness.
In the Guangdong area, there is a saying that has been circulating: When marrying, you should marry a Chaoshan girl. Because Chaoshan women give everyone the impression that they are hard-working, patient, tolerant, and housekeepers. In short, they are model representatives of good wives and loving mothers.
However, everyone thinks that the first impression of Chaoshan women is: hardworking. You can get out of the hall and into the kitchen, so everyone wants to marry a Chaoshan girl. Chaoshan women are the most industrious in the world, and they provide all kinds of housework including laundry, cooking, cleaning and hygiene. Marrying someone back home can help you take care of the household chores, so you don’t have to worry about three meals a day.
But! Nowadays, the concept of raising daughters in many Chaoshan families has changed from "keeping the house in a good manner" to "daughters need to be rich". Cleaning, cooking and cooking are all shared by boys. If you are still pursuing an all-round Chaoshan girl who can do all the laundry, cooking and housework, please turn left when you go out and find a nanny agency!
It is said that after a Chaoshan woman gets married, her daily routine is to worship her master and ancestors. In fact, Chaoshan women now greatly downgrade the importance of worshiping gods. After all, compared to worshiping their masters, they have other important things to do such as dedicating themselves to the boss and going through fire and water for customers.
According to rumors, Chaoshan people favor sons over daughters and pursue having more children and more happiness. Chaoshan women must have at least four children after getting married, and they must be boys! If you give birth to a girl, you will be laughed at by others!
In fact, many Chaoshan families now only have one child.
It is rumored that Chaoshan women have a very low family status. They are often called around by the men in the family. They cannot even eat at the dinner table with their men and can only eat secretly in the kitchen. In fact, this old concept has been abandoned for a long time. Nowadays, Chaoshan women can not only eat at the same table as men, but also don’t have to cook by themselves. After all, the kitchen is now a men’s world.
In love and marriage, it is said that Chaoshan women do not marry outsiders, but only marry Chaoshan people. In fact, Chaoshan women in the new era are more ideologically aware and pursue free love. You don’t have to marry a local man, marrying a man from out of town is also a good idea.
Everyone says that Chaoshan women are virtuous and hard-working. If you get married, you can have children and take care of all the housework. But most of the Chaoshan women in the new era have their own opinions and are gradually tearing off the labels on them, letting everyone know more objectively that not all Chaoshan women are like the legend. Compared with the legendary hardworking and virtuous women, today's Chaoshan women are more independent and outstanding.