Although Mingming has parents at home, grandparents help to take care of them, but parents often because Mingming? Forgot? It collapsed. For example, Grandpa, who has an appointment to play bridge, has just arrived at the door of an old friend's house and has to rush back to open the door for Mingming who forgot his key. My mother, who was as tired as a dog after work, had no time to change her high heels, so she had to accompany Mingming to school to get the exercise book she left on the table. The textbook that the teacher urged you to bring is obviously forgotten.
Although the children are still young, the formation of these bad habits has indeed brought a lot of trouble to the families and teachers around Mingming. Child psychologists believe that it is normal for children aged six or seven to lose things. Because children of this age usually pay attention to many things, and they are basically self-centered. However, we will also find that some children just take care of things better than others.
And this is actually related to the education of parents! Parental education not only helps children master the skills of arrangement and planning, but also forms a virtuous circle. The more children practice, the better they master it. And those forgetful children are likely to get worse and worse.
What shall we do? Don't worry. Bian Xiao has compiled the following five tricks for parents to teach their children with these five tricks, so they don't have to worry about losing things anymore.
Trick 1. Once I can't remember clearly, twice I have an impression; If you can't remember it twice, remember it three times. As long as you take the trouble to help your child form a habit and strengthen his memory again and again, he will definitely remember it. For example, before going out, be sure to let your child check whether the key is around, so that the child can form a conditioned reflex of going out with the key, so that over time, the child will develop the habit of going out with the key.
Trick two. Punishing parents' doting on their children properly will usually do harm to children! Some parents are still unwilling to punish their children, even if they are in a bad mood because of their forgetfulness. Children, on the other hand, have never been punished for doing something wrong and have a short memory. Parents usually think like this:? The child is still young. If I am too strict with him, will he hate me? You will be sensible when you grow up, so bear it now. ? But this idea is actually wrong!
You think you spoil your child, but the child has no memory because he has not been punished. He will forget again and again and worry you again and again. To make matters worse, it becomes more and more difficult to get rid of habits as you get older. A colleague of Bian Xiao always remembers that she once told me with a key. When I was a child, I forgot my key once. My mother gave me a good beating, and I will remember it forever. ?
Trick 3: Give your child a fixed storage location. Not only children, but also ourselves are often troubled because we can't find mobile phones or glasses. And if you fix a storage location, such as a small basket or a small shelf, then you know where to look when looking for something and where to put it when you want something.
Amy's mother once shared with us that a child couldn't find the ipad and almost turned the house upside down, only to find that the ipad was covered with clothes. Since then, she has asked the children to put the ipad on the table when they are not playing. At this point, does the child feel that this has never happened? Looking for ipad? Events.
Tip 4: Help improve children's memory until they forget something. It is better to help children improve their memory first. When parents chat with their children on the sofa after school, they might as well ask them what they did today, so that the children will have memories while answering, so that they will be more impressed when she does similar things in the future.
In addition, parents can ask their children from time to time where to put some small personal items, such as keys and wallets. , are to help them remember for a long time.
Trick 5. Making brain soup for children is the capital of revolution. Making brain-nourishing soup for children can also help children improve their memory. The following two brain-nourishing soups are recommended to everyone.
Recipe 1: Dong 'e Ejiao Peach Sashimi Soup
Required materials: Dong 'e Ejiao 12g, Hetao 50g, raw fish 1, lean pork 50g, and 4 slices of ginger.
Specific practices:
Ejiao is broken;
Wash all the others, wash the raw fish, fry until slightly yellow, and splash a little water.
Put all the ingredients together in a casserole, add 2000 ml of water (about 8 bowls), simmer on low heat for about 1 hour after boiling with high fire, push the donkey-hide gelatin to dissolve, and add salt for a while.
Recipe 2: Braised Fish Head with Lycium barbarum and Yuzhu
Required materials: Lycium barbarum 15g, Polygonatum odoratum 30g, longan meat 5g (available in Chinese medicine shops), half a big fish head, lean pork 100g, and 4 slices of ginger.
Specific practices:
Soak the medicinal materials slightly and wash them;
Remove the gills from the big fish head, wash, cut into pieces, fry until slightly yellow, and splash a little water; Wash lean meat and cut into pieces.
Fish, pork and ginger are put into the clay pot together, and 2000 ml of clear water (about 8 bowls) is added. After the fire boils, simmer for about 1.5 hours, and then add salt.