Most big cities give people a sense of drift and lack of human touch. The human feelings here not only refer to the worldly wisdom, such as the atmosphere of holidays, such as house prices, such as work pressure and life pressure. ...

I feel that I don't belong to this city, and I wander around the city every day without any sense of security. Many people have stable jobs in big cities, but their lives have never been stable. There is no sense of belonging to the city where you live, which is mainly caused by interpersonal relationships, thoughts and emotions, and indefinite residence. Some things can be changed, and some emotions cannot be changed. In fact, the so-called sense of wandering and belonging has a lot to do with whether you settle in a big city or not.

If you have a small family and a good job in a big city, you will take root in this city and naturally feel a sense of belonging.

If you are alone in a big city, you don't have a satisfactory salary at work, or you can't see room for improvement, then you have been drifting like duckweed. Many times, feeling lonely has nothing to do with being in a big city, but depends on the distance between you and your relatives and friends. Not everyone can stand the pressure of big cities and loneliness in a foreign land, but as long as they live their lives in a down-to-earth manner and grow a little every day, they will have no sense of wandering and belonging. In short, this peace of mind is my hometown.