On the third day of our marriage, the newlyweds will go back to their parents' home, which is also called three days. The newlyweds should prepare four gifts for their father-in-law, cigarettes and wine, all of which are indispensable. This is for their father-in-law and two kinds of snacks for their mother-in-law.
Gifts for returning to the bride's family are usually bought one day in advance and left the next day, because the first time the bride returns to her family after marriage, she usually arrives in the morning, no later than noon. She will also come back from her parents' home early and return to her husband's home before sunset. ?
When the newlyweds return to China three days later, the bride's family will hold a banquet and invite some relatives of the bride's family to congratulate them. Newlyweds will toast their relatives who come to congratulate them to show their gratitude. Banquets are usually held at noon, because newlyweds have to get back to their in-laws' house before sunset after dinner.
After the banquet, when the newlyweds leave, the mother-in-law will also give the newlyweds red envelopes, and how much it costs is her mother-in-law's business.
The etiquette of returning home in the past three days is still very strict, and you can't be sloppy at all. Whether it is the bride's family or the newly married couple, we should abide by the rules, otherwise we will be found fault and cause unhappiness.
With the progress of the times, the etiquette of three-day home visits has also improved, and it is no longer "according to the rules" as in the past. Some newlyweds go out for their honeymoon after marriage, and the rule of three-day home visit can be waived.
The gifts bought in three days have also been improved, no longer limited to alcohol and tobacco in the past, but various health care products and nutrients, and various gifts that are more beneficial to health.
With the progress of the times, people's ideas have also changed, and the marriage custom of returning to the door in three days has continued, but the content has changed greatly.
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