It's really time to go. Huang Boping's eyes are a little blurred. He stretched out his hand and wiped his eyes. 10 years ago, he welcomed Luo Zhenhuan here with flowers; 10 years later, only two lines of tears left Luo Zhenhuan and came to the same airport. The past more than 50 years ago came to my eyes. ...
Foreign lovers fall in love at first sight.
1In the summer of 936, 19-year-old Huang Boping came from his hometown after graduating from high school. He is noble and elegant, quiet and restrained, wearing a gray or white skirt, but Du Xiaobei is full of enthusiasm and likes the blooming flowers of love. His * * * needs a smart woman to light it, but Xia Zhi is obviously not. Although Xia Zhi puts down her figure, washes her hands and cooks soup, and studies recipes in the kitchen every day. Haimen came to Qingdao and worked as a clerk in a high-end women's clothing store, which was a decent job at that time. One day, two young girls in cheongsam came to the shop. Huang Boping greeted the guests with a smile and enthusiastically introduced the new goods to them.
Seeing that one of the girls was fair-skinned and petite, unlike the local people, Huang Boping recommended a silk horse to her: "Miss, do you like this yellow silk?" After that, he spread a yellow chiffon on this "girl from other provinces" with great vigour.
Unexpectedly, the girl looked at him blankly and couldn't understand what he said at all. It turns out that she is not from China, but a Japanese tourist from Qingdao. This time, Huang Boping was a little embarrassed. How to communicate? Suddenly, Huang Boping thought that there were many Chinese characters in Japanese. Why not write it and try it out? So he began to talk to the girl with handwritten Chinese characters and simple English dialogue.
This move by Huang Boping made the atmosphere cheerful at once. Through written conversation, Huang Boping knew that the girl's name was Jizi Saida, and she came to the store to make cheongsam. Luo Zhenhuan, on the other hand, noticed that Huang Boping was a tall man, dressed in a well-fitting dark black suit jacket and beige suit pants, looking gentle and handsome, and felt good in his heart. On Huang Boping's recommendation, the yellow chiffon was cut into cheongsam. In the next 50 years, Luo Zhenhuan will wear this beloved yellow cheongsam on every important occasion.
Since then, Huang Boping and Luo Zhenhuan have continued to deepen their feelings through writing. Huang Boping gradually learned that 18-year-old Yoshiko Nishida is the youngest and most beautiful daughter of Nishida, a famous family in Fukuoka, Japan, and her father is the deputy editor-in-chief of Nishida News Agency.
In the summer of this year, the first love gradually unfolded in their hearts unconsciously. First outing, first trip to the seaside, first hand. ...
However, the two confirmed the relationship because of a fight. That day, I saw Luo Zhenhuan in a small restaurant. The pure and lovely Luo Zhenhuan immediately caught Xiao Kai's attention, and he put down his things to strike up a conversation. See Luo Zhenhuan ignored, small open smiled and stretched out his hand to touch Luo Zhenhuan's face. Huang Boping was furious and rushed to apologize to Guo Hao, but there was still an incredible expression on his face: "How can you believe it? You can come up with a pretty good design, and your IQ is obviously not low! " It's a punch to go to a small incision and get punched in the chest. Luo Zhenhuan was moved to see the humble people of China desperately fighting for themselves and others. In this young Japanese woman's mind, she felt that she would do such a thing only when she was deeply in love. She said to herself, "Marry Huang Boping." This fight not only relieved Luo Zhenhuan, but also warmed up their feelings.
After the trip, Luo Zhenhuan will return to Japan. On the day of parting, Huang Boping gave Luo Zhenhuan a photo of himself. "Huang Boping!" I'm glad to be back from the hospital. The party has left. Dad said he left the day you left, saying the project was over. But you'd better live downstairs in the future. It's inconvenient to climb around upstairs. I said, I still want to live upstairs, but my dad can't beat me, so I still live in my room. I saw a row of wooden roses in the closet, and the paint was scraped off. I think it's for the best. No color, never fade. The witch called his name in blunt Chinese, and then revealed the secret of her heart to Huang Boping on paper, telling him to wait for her to come back. Huang Boping took Luo Zhenhuan's hand tightly after seeing it. His palms are full of sweat and cold, while Luo Zhenhuan's hands are hot. This strange feeling can still be clearly remembered by Huang Boping after many years.
In this way, the foreign lovers who fell in love at first sight made an engagement and said goodbye with longing and hope for the future.
When the war broke out, Lao Yan parted ways.
After returning to Japan, the two men improved their mutual affection through letters. Luo Zhenhuan receives 5438+ 10 of June 2000 from China every week. Wang Jin found many wonderful "love conversations" between him and other girlfriends from Lan Feng's computer data. Wang Jin felt ashamed and resentful and broke up, but she couldn't stand the sweet words of Lan Feng. In June, 2000, Wang Jin was surprised to find that "Lanfeng" not only had many online lovers, but also had a laid-off wife. After Wang Jin and Lan Feng had a big fight, they broke up again. 200 1 year 1 month, in order to get rid of the "blue wind" completely, Wang Jin returned to his hometown of Pingdingshan, and quickly contacted another company with an annual salary of 6,543,800 yuan, intending to start a business again. But what Wang Jin didn't expect was that "Lan Feng" also came to Pingdingshan to continue pestering him. Wang Jin, who had already given up, was determined to spend money to teach him a lesson and end this doomed love. But I didn't expect that the "thugs" laid hands on him too hard, and "Lan Feng" died in the west. 200165438+1On October 28th, Wang Jin walked into the Xinhua Police Station of Pingdingshan Public Security Bureau and surrendered himself, thus his infinite bright future was ruined in vain. Love letter, passionate love across the ocean to the ancient courtyard of Qitian's home.
The Qitian family has a family style that loves China culture. Luo Zhenhuan's grandfather once founded a Chinese academy. For his daughter's "China love", the father was silent at first, and then acquiesced. 1937 in may, my father said to Luo Zhenhuan, "please come to fukuoka during the summer vacation." Luo Zhenhuan and Huang Boping are very happy to get their father's permission. Huang Boping said in his reply: "During this time, I quit my job and went back to my hometown to review my lessons. I'm going to Shanghai to go to college. I will definitely come to see you during the summer vacation. " The signature date of this letter is1May 93714th. I didn't expect this to be the last love letter sent by Huang Boping to Luo Zhenhuan.
On July 7, the Lugouqiao Incident. War of Resistance against Japanese Aggression broke out in an all-round way, so that lovers who love each other suddenly lost contact. The unsatisfied blank space-time also aggravated Luo Zhenhuan's yearning for Huang Boping. Driven by love, Luo Zhenhuan came to China to find the whereabouts of the girl of her dreams.
Luo Zhenhuan tried every means to find Huang Boping in Haimen, his hometown, but found nothing. Bo Huang is my business at this time! Junyi fist, if I see you near her again, you are dead! As mentioned in the letter, Ping has gone to Shanghai to make a living. When the war was chaotic, Luo Zhenhuan had no choice but to go home.
1942, their deeds were widely circulated in the shelter. After hearing this touching story, reporters came to cover it one after another. The reporter asked, "Uncle, how did you find the aunt's position accurately in just ten seconds and then grab her hand?" Hashimoto said quietly, "This is my telepathy. When qianzi was washed down by the tsunami, I suddenly felt far away, but my heart told me that she must be by my side. " After losing contact for five years, the war intensified. After repeated persuasion by her parents, Luo Zhenhuan, 24, finally agreed to marry a Singaporean overseas Chinese. About this time, at the beginning of 1943, Huang Boping married a rural girl from his hometown.
After marriage, Luo Zhenhuan was unfortunately infected with sexually transmitted diseases from her husband, who relentlessly did not defend her at all, and let her conservative father-in-law drive her back to the Japanese family. From then on, Luo Zhenhuan had to live alone with his only daughter. Huang Boping, who lives in Shanghai, has a relatively dull married life and has a son and a daughter after marriage. During the Cultural Revolution, his life was rather bleak. 198 1 year, his wife died.
War of Resistance against Japanese Aggression's pain made all the vows between Huang Boping and Yoshiko Nishida become dreams.
After 50 years, the frontier will continue.
After World War II, the forests and land of Qitianjia were distributed to farmers free of charge. Her father died of depression. As a married woman, Luo Zhenhuan got almost no inheritance.
In the hard years after the defeat, Luo Zhenhuan worked as a peddler and nurse, and even traded her ancestral kimono for canned food in the hands of American soldiers for a living. It was not until the 1970s that her life improved. She ran a bar in Fukuoka. Although I don't know where Huang Boping is, there is always a miss in her heart. She wrote "yellow" in English on the signboard of the bar. No one knows what this means, only she knows it is "yellow". In the harsh reality, Luo Zhenhuan used the warmth of the past to warm his tired body and mind again and again.
As time goes by, Sino-Japanese relations are improving day by day. After the signing of the Treaty of Peace and Friendship between Japan and China, the love flame buried in Luo Zhenhuan's heart rekindled. Looking forward to a miracle, she began to ask around about Huang Boping's whereabouts.
In Fukuoka, where she lives, the "China Products Exhibition" is held every year. 1985 In the spring, Luo Zhenhuan dressed up as usual to visit the opening ceremony of "China Exhibition". Over the years, Luo Zhenhuan has maintained a slim figure weighing 80 Jin. On this day, she put on a pale yellow China cheongsam, dipped her lips with Japanese red mud according to the makeup method of the gentry's family before the war, and then put on a necklace seriously. Suddenly, a shrill siren sounded, and the two suddenly stopped and looked around in horror. Qin Min took the opportunity to leave them and ran away. After a pause, they found that the siren came from the grass when they saw that there was no police car. They ran over and saw that it was Qin Min's mobile phone! When a man came down, the siren came to a screeching halt, and then Qin Min had run a distance. When two men chased him, Qin Min, panting and exhausted, was finally caught by them. A man scolded: "Shit, the mobile phone uses a siren, it's sick." Then I grabbed her hair. At the critical moment, the siren sounded again. A man scolded: "I hate it, I didn't step on the phone." Here we go again ... "I haven't finished yet, and the dazzling lights come on from the corner, and the police car rushes like a whirlwind. The police descended from the sky and took him back to his hometown. Although his parents were unhappy, they finally acquiesced in their communication. The red persimmon is covered with branches in autumn, and she becomes his beautiful bride. Two robbers caught him. The pendant is an ivory stamp engraved with the name of a China person-"Huang Boping". This stamp was specially carved in Luo Zhenhuan after the war.
At the Expo, Luo Zhenhuan met a Japanese overseas Chinese by chance. During the conversation, Luo Zhenhuan told each other about his troubles. The overseas Chinese was deeply moved to learn that Luo Zhenhuan still had such young feelings in his later years. He immediately called his brother in Shanghai and asked him to help find Huang Boping.
Half a month later, Luo Zhenhuan received a letter from Shanghai: "Huang Boping has been contacted. His wife died four years ago, leaving him a son and a daughter, all in other places. " Huang Boping's address was also attached to the letter.
The miracle really came. Over the years, disappointment has hurt Luo Zhenhuan's heart again and again, and now I finally have news of my former lover. Luo Zhenhuan couldn't sleep that night. Can I really combine with China Youth to fulfill the agreement of 18 summer? Do you really want to adapt to a strange country in your old age? Do you really want to get along with that man named Huang Boping? He may already be a stranger. After confirming that his answer was yes, Luo Zhenhuan got up and wrote a long letter to Huang Boping, who was far away from Shanghai, stating his ups and downs after leaving and his ardent expectations for Huang Boping. At the end of the letter, he wrote down his long-cherished wish: "I learned that your wife has passed away." Since you and I are both single at present, can we have another wedding at the age of 70 near the end of the year to fulfill our previous agreement? "
After putting down the pen, Luo Zhenhuan seems to feel that a letter is not enough to express his attachment to Huang Boping. So, at that time, Li Bingzhen was afraid that she and Deng Chengde would break up, but Deng Cheng didn't compromise. Deng's father got on the train home without eating, which made libing feel guilty. Later, Li Bing took the initiative to go to Deng Cheng's hometown several times. As soon as he entered the door, he helped his mother cook, took his grandmother's pulse and took her blood pressure ... Deng Cheng's father slowly accepted her after seeing her sincere actions. Thanks to his father's careful care, Yang Jia's courses in graduate school are in full swing. Yang Jia's students are all doctoral students, because she is flexible in class and never follows the book. Her class is full, and a classroom of 40 people has 170 people vying to register. Once, in the evaluation of the teaching quality of the Foreign Languages Department of Chinese Academy of Sciences, the doctoral students gave her a high score of 98. The students wrote affectionately: "Teacher Yang, we can't use proper words to describe your elegance. Your connotation is so rich and your teaching is so vivid. Besides acquiring knowledge, we also gain fun and the truth of being a man ... ". He took out his tape recorder and recorded a song he composed. Sang Song: "The dream of youth/the silver beach that summer/will always light up love ..." The next morning, Luo Zhenhuan sent this song to Shanghai with a long letter and a photo of Huang Boping that he had treasured for 50 years.
When Huang Boping received a letter from Luo Zhenhuan, his inner excitement could not be subsided for a long time. In fact, before this, when he learned the news of Luo Zhenhuan, he thought for a long time and said to the messenger, "Forget it, what happened so many years ago is meaningless." But after reading the letter, he never expected this Japanese woman to be so infatuated. Listening to Luo Zhenhuan's affectionate singing, Huang Boping was moved to tears and wrote back immediately, hoping that Luo Zhenhuan could return to his side as soon as possible.
Six months later, on Christmas Eve, Luo Zhenhuan flew from Japan to China. Shanghai Hongqiao Airport, Bo Huang holding flowers, waiting early. Although separated for nearly half a century, they were lovers after all, and Huang Boping quickly recognized Luo Zhenhuan in the crowd. He stepped forward quickly and presented his beautiful and fragrant flowers to his fiancee who came from afar. At this moment, the two crossed the 50-year interval, embraced each other gently, and could not help but shed tears of joy.
Three days later, Huang Boping and Luo Zhenhuan came to Shanghai Civil Affairs Bureau to register their marriage. Half a century later, the Chinese and Japanese lovers finally got married, and their children expressed their blessings to them. This year, Huang Boping was 68 years old and Luo Zhenhuan was 67 years old.
10 year engagement
After 50 years of lovesickness, we can finally be together again. That time was as sweet as honey. Every morning, Huang Boping and Luo Zhenhuan began to talk to each other. As many years ago, they still communicate with English in simple Chinese characters.
Huang Boping told Luo Zhenhuan about his experience for the rest of his life: "I lived in a cowshed for eight years because I was searched by the Japanese. Later, with the help of friends, I found a job as a janitor at the party school and now I have retired. " Although Luo Zhenhuan didn't understand why the white man lived in the bullpen, she knew that what she had done in those years had brought great trouble to her lover, and her heart was full of tenderness for her lover.
Luo Zhenhuan's account of the past also saved Huang Boping from crying. He took Luo Zhenhuan's hand and said regretfully, "If there were no war, we wouldn't be separated and everything wouldn't be so bad!"
Before going to bed every night, I always reluctantly say, "Ping, I'm going to sleep, and we'll meet again in many hours." At this time, Huang Boping will gently hug her in her arms until they fall asleep.
Romance 50 years ago, reunion 50 years later, old age should be accompanied, so happy. However, life is not as perfect as fairy tales after all. The cultural differences between the two people make them often bump into each other in their lives, and gradually, Big S's eyes get wet. Yes, love is beautiful, but to reach the end of a happy marriage, both sides need understanding and tolerance. Fortunately, they are working hard in this direction! Suddenly. According to Luo Zhenhuan's standard of living, things must be perfect. Liu Yu reached out and held his wife tightly in his arms. Beauty, and Huang Boping has developed the habit of not living well and making do with it for many years.
On the first night of reunion, Luo Zhenhuan asked Huang Boping to sit by the bed and squatted down to help him wash his feet with soap. "No, I'll wash it myself." Huang Boping thinks that his feet should be washed by himself, as if he didn't need soap, but he can't refuse too much. Cauchy witch didn't accept his "resistance" at all. She silently took a pot of hot water with small steps, put it at Huang Boping's feet, put a piece of soap on it, then took off her socks and squatted and knelt ... Since then, it has become the habit of Japanese woman Luo Zhenhuan to wash her husband's feet every day.
Gradually, Luo Zhenhuan's perfection made this family look brand-new, and at the same time, it made Huang Boping feel that life was getting harder and harder. Luo Zhenhuan used to keep everything in order at home. Even Huang Boping's handkerchiefs and socks should be ironed very sharply.
One day, when Luo Zhenhuan was washing dishes, he said to Huang Boping, "The cement pool is too unsanitary. If it is dirty, you can't see it. White tiles must be pasted. " Huang Boping's heart was empty: the inspector of Japan's "Love for the People Committee" came again. "No, the pool is clean." In Shanghai in the 1980s, few people stuck tiles at home. Huang Boping tried to keep his original lifestyle. "Be sure to post it!" Luo Zhenhuan is a little anxious. He doesn't know how to express his insistence. He motioned to Huang Boping for a long time, but he still disagreed. Simply push him out of the door and close the door, which means let him buy it. Huang Boping, who was pushed outside, gave a wry smile and shook his head helplessly.
In Huang Boping's view, Luo Zhenhuan did nothing wrong. His first love was frustrated and everything was constructive, but the atmosphere at home became more and more tense. Even Luo Zhenhuan himself realized that he just wanted to make their lives more comfortable and hygienic.
As time goes on, there are fewer and fewer topics to talk about between two people. They often look at each other, but they can't see each other's hearts. Huang Boping began to choose to escape. He goes to Fuxing Park once every morning and afternoon, ostensibly telling Luo Zhenhuan that he is going to exercise, but he knows in his heart that he is actually avoiding her. He was afraid of Luo Zhenhuan's perfection and had nothing to say to her.
As you can imagine, their 50-year-old lives are the same, but they are two completely different experiences. When 18' s memories of this year are chewed repeatedly, how should these two elderly people, who are already in their twilight years, feel sorry for each other?
This warm and contradictory life, if not changed, may continue like this. However, at the beginning of 1995, Luo Zhenhuan unfortunately got a serious illness. Because she is a foreigner, she can't enjoy free labor insurance medical care in Shanghai, and Japanese insurance can't be used in China. She frequently goes in and out of the hospital, which makes the two elderly people who are not well-off spend almost all their savings, and they feel heavy economic pressure.
One afternoon, Huang Boping and Luo Zhenhuan returned home from follow-up. Luo Zhenhuan pulled him to the front and bowed to him. This bow is so deep, just this bow makes two people have a strange feeling of expanding. Luo Zhenhuan said in Chinese, "What if I get sick again?" As soon as this word came out, although a layer of paper didn't pierce, both of them understood what it meant.
In June of that year, Huang Boping, a 78-year-old Shanghainese man, and Yoshiko Sata, a 77-year-old Japanese wife, filed for divorce with the court on the grounds that their feelings broke down because of their language barrier, incompatible personality and poor health. This was the oldest divorce case in China in that year, because there was a beautiful and peaceful smile on this face. Keith.
After returning to Japan, Luo Zhenhuan was admitted to a well-equipped welfare hospital because of medical insurance. When Huang Boping learned about this, he said with emotion, "Luo Zhenhuan, what a loving woman she is!" Missing for 50 years, the old couple have been married 10 years. Anyway, after all, two people have been together in this life, and they have no regrets in each other's hearts.
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