"Uncle" is a title between sister husband and peers. It's like "sister-in-law" is the address between brother and wife. In other words, a woman doesn't have an uncle, just as a man can't have a sister-in-law. I am a woman, how can I have an "uncle"? If I want to call my sister's husband, I can only call him "brother-in-law" or "brother-in-law", just as a man can only call his brother's wife "sister-in-law" or "sister-in-law". Of course, a woman can also call her brother's wife "sister-in-law" or "sister-in-law".
"Uncle" is only spoken, and the written language should be called "brother-in-law". It is precisely because of this written language that in many places, there is no such colloquial address as "uncle" as "brother-in-law", and "uncle" and "uncle" are widely used.