From June 5438 to 10, 2009, Zhang Yining and Xu Wei, 20 years older than her, held a grand wedding in Beijing. Many people don't think highly of them because of the age gap. Now, Zhang Yining has been married for 10 years. What is her real life like in this 10 year?
20 10 in July, Zhang Yining had rested at home for half a year and began to think about the future. Thinking of my 6-year-old and poor cultural foundation, I discussed with my husband: I want to go to college for further study and improve my cultural quality. Xu Wei shook his head: "Why do you have to suffer this?" The biggest thing in our family now is to add a baby. "Zhang Qining don't know what to do. Zhang Yining, who was entangled in troubles, lost her former calmness. She is calm, and her sleep and appetite are disturbed. On September 6th, Zhang Yining received a phone call from his former teammate. The other party has been coaching the table tennis team and asked her when she would go out to work. Zhang Yining hung up the phone. This scene stung Wei Xu's heart: his wife is not an ordinary woman, her psychological quality and will quality are tenacious, and she also has excellent professional quality. If she is allowed to stay at home for a long time, her life pattern will become smaller and her mentality will change. Xu Wei said to Zhang Yining, "Now I've figured it out. Let's go for further study. I will be happy only if you are happy. Things have changed, Zhang Yining's heart suddenly enlightened.
2010 On June 5438+00, Zhang Yining entered the postgraduate class of Beijing Sport University for further study, and Wei Xu personally sent his wife to report to the school. Soon, the school arranged a group of world champions to go to the University of Wisconsin for further study, and Zhang Yining was one of them. /kloc-in mid-October, Xu Wei came to Beijing from Hongkong to visit his wife. Zhang Yining said, "I'm going to study in the United States, but it's hard to see him in the future. Xu Weishuang said with a quick laugh, "We will live all our lives, and there will be plenty of time for reunion in the future." Zhang Chaning smiled sweetly. 20 1 1, 16 Six world champions, including Zhang Yining and Liu Chunhong, went to the United States for further study. Xu Wei and his wife started a life of transnational separation. Whenever he has time, Wei Xu will visit his wife in America. 20 1 1 June, Zhang Yining was found to be pregnant. She was the first to report the good news to her husband on the phone, and Wei Xu was very excited. Why don't you drop out of school and go back to Hong Kong? Zhang Qining disagreed: "I am an athlete. Don't underestimate my endurance. Although his wife said so, Wei Xu still had Qian Qian's worries and concerns in his heart.
201265438+1October 9th, Zhang Qining took the school bus back to the apartment as usual after class. When she got off the bus, she accidentally stepped on the air and fell to the ground. At that moment, Zhang Qining instinctively covered his abdomen with his hand and the back of his hand was scratched. The students rushed her to the infirmary. After examination, the baby in Zhang Qining's belly was safe and sound. She couldn't help sighing that Xu Wei had learned. The due date is getting closer and closer, so it's time to have a rest. Soon, Zhang Yining went through the formalities of dropping out of school and returned to Hong Kong with her husband to raise the baby. On April 2, 20 12, Zhang Qining gave birth to her daughter "Jojo" in Hong Kong. Although he was hired with a gold medal at home, Xu Wei took 50 days off to stay at home with Zhang Ning. He personally made a nutrition menu for his wife, went to the supermarket to choose milk powder for his daughter, and Zhang Yining's friends or relatives came to visit Jojo.
In April 2004, Jojo was 2 years old and Zhang Qining was ready to go out to work. Knowing her intention, many national table tennis associations and clubs invited her to coach. At this time, Shi Zhihao, the former head coach of the national table tennis women's team, became the dean of China Table Tennis Institute, and learned that Zhang Qining was taking care of her children at home. He urged her to be an assistant at the Table Tennis Academy, and Zhang Yining agreed. Later, Zhang Qining told her husband what she thought. Xu Wei was silent for a moment and said, Jojo is still young. Wait until she is 6 years old and goes to primary school. I am a mother, but I also have a social role. Jojo needs her mother, but I want to grow up. Zhang Yining argued that Xu Wei was the second best. "Even if you want to enter the workplace, you can find a job in Hong Kong. Why go to Shanghai? " But Zhang Yining didn't want to disappoint her teacher, so she got into a tug-of-war with her husband. On May 2nd, Zhang Ning got a call from Shi Zhihao again: "I just took office, and I have to find a capable assistant. You are the best for this role. Zhang Yining relayed the teacher's words word for word to her husband and promised to keep silent. Then, Zhang Yining talked about his performance in the national team and Shi Zhihao's psychological and technical help. She said: Xu Wei was moved by his wife's sincerity. He finally compromised and agreed that Zhang Qining would go to work in Shanghai. Jojo and her husband both need someone to take care of them. Zhang Yining took her mother Wang Fengying and her father Qiyuan Zhang to Hong Kong to help take care of her husband and daughter, so that she could work in Shanghai with peace of mind. From Monday to Friday, Zhang Qining works in Shanghai, helping Shi Zhihao deal with all kinds of things in the Table Tennis Academy. On weekends, she went back to Hong Kong to reunite with her husband and daughter. To show his support, Xu Wei drives Zhang Yining to Kai Tak Airport every Monday. On Saturday morning, he drove his daughter to the airport to meet his wife. Zhang Yining said to her husband with emotion: Working in the unit is very fulfilling, and you can also enjoy the warmth of your family when you return to Hong Kong. This life is wonderful, thank you for your fulfillment.
In the autumn of 20 15, China table tennis institute set up a training base in Europe, and Zhang Yining and former Olympic champion Chen Qi were sent to Zhang Yining to be athletes in Europe. She won more than 100 championships, was the most popular female table tennis player at that time, and also had a wide influence in Europe. In view of her position in international table tennis, Zhang Yining's work in Europe is also very smooth, and she and her colleagues have successively established in Britain, France and other countries. Because she couldn't go home for a long time, Xu Wei took her daughter to visit her wife in England. At that time, a table tennis club was holding an unveiling ceremony. Zhang Yining wore a professional suit and delivered a speech in fluent English. Many fans who sent her abroad surrounded her for autographs and photos. Zhang Yining enthusiastically met their demands, raised her hand and smiled, all of which showed the ability and calmness of women in the workplace! I didn't expect his wife to be so popular abroad, and Xu Wei was sincerely proud.
When Zhang Yining worked hard in the workplace, her daughter grew up under the care of her husband. She inherited the advantages of Zhang Yining and her husband. She is smart, lovely and lively. Jojo has a keen interest in piano and painting. She is slender and soft, and a pair of pianists are born. When Jojo was 4 years old, she couldn't stand getting up as soon as she sat in front of the piano. She can remember some difficult fingering of Xu Wei twice, and Jojo is also very talented in painting.
20 17 April, Jojo was five years old, and Xu Wei, who hoped his daughter would inherit his wife's mantle in the future, said to his wife, "Interest also needs to be cultivated. You started playing when you were 6 years old. Jojo is 5 years old this year. Should she pick up the racket? " Zhang Yining agreed. In the following days, once Zhang Yining was on vacation at home, she and her husband took Jojo to the club to play table tennis. At first, Jojo felt very fresh and took the children around to play with rackets. After more than 65,438+00 minutes, Jojo became impatient. She threw the racket on the table and sat down to eat snacks. Zhang Qining asked her daughter, "Why don't you practice?" ? Jojo said angrily, "I'm not interested, mom. I want to go home." On the way home, Xu Wei said to himself while driving: "The daughter of the table tennis queen doesn't play table tennis. As a father, it's hard for me to get over it." Zhang Yining showed a rare cold humor: "Is the world champion also hereditary?" Wei Xu was amused by his wife's talk about harmony. "Lao Xu, children should teach students in accordance with their aptitude. Jojo doesn't like table tennis, and forcing her to go this way is harmful to both generations. " These words came to Wei Xu's mind, and he was finally relieved. When Zhang Qining is at home on weekends, like many ordinary mothers, she sends her daughter to piano and painting training classes.
20 18 On Children's Day, Zhang Yining took her daughter to a parent-child club to participate in activities. Among the hundreds of babies at the scene, some are brothers and sisters, and some are brothers and sisters, playing together in full swing. Jojo doesn't know anyone else, sitting alone beside her mother, holding a fitness ball. Zhang Qining let her daughter integrate with other children and play games with them. Jojo pouted and said, "Mom, I don't know them. I am so lonely. " "Daughter childish words let Zhang Qining heart tremble. After returning home, Zhang Qining relayed her daughter's words to her husband. Xu Wei sighed: "We should have had a second child a few years ago, and the two babies will be raised together, and Jojo will not be lonely ... It's a little late now. Zhang Yining said, "Actually, it's not too late to have a second child. Several sisters who played ball with me in those years all gave birth to two babies. We can also consider it. Xu Wei was silent. Unexpectedly, half a month passed, and my husband no longer mentioned this topic. Zhang Yining discussed with him again: "Lao Xu, tell me what you think about having a second child." Xu Wei said seriously, "It's not that I don't want to have a second child, but that I have concerns. I looked up a lot of information on the internet. At my age, my physiological function has declined, and I am worried that my baby will have defects. Individuals are different and cannot be generalized. Do a check first. " Zhang Yining suggested that Xu Wei agreed.
Needless to say, Zhang Qining, an athlete, has no "three highs" common to middle-aged people in Xu Wei's annual physical examination. All the indicators are normal, but in order to be prudent, Zhang Yining accompanied her husband to a well-known hospital in Hong Kong for a special reproductive examination. The results show that the physiological indexes above 10 are completely normal, doctor. Xu Wei's worries completely vanished. In order to give birth to a healthy and high-quality baby, Xu Wei, who has always lived a regular life, is more self-disciplined: don't touch sweets, don't eat spicy food, and stay away from alcohol and tobacco; Exercise for an hour every day, no matter how busy you are at work. He also deliberately eats zinc-rich foods such as oysters and steaks. Zhang Yining doesn't wear makeup or perfume, works normally every day and adjusts her body to the best condition. 2065438+March 2009, Zhang Yining was found to be pregnant for more than two months, immersed in the joy of expectant mothers again, and Xu Wei also gave birth to a beautiful imagination in his heart ... Worried that his wife could not stand the bumps flying around, Xu Wei said to Zhang Yining: "Why don't you go back to Hong Kong every month and I will go to Shanghai to accompany you on weekends?" Zhang Yining shook his head: "Your work pressure is greater than mine, so don't bother. Teacher Shi Zhihao is very considerate of Zhang Yining. After she was pregnant for four months, she didn't need to go to Shanghai every week. She was granted a license to do some work at home. Only when there are major events or emergencies in the Table Tennis Academy will Zhang Yining fly over, saving a lot of bumps. Because of her age, Wei Xu is very cautious about having another child. Pregnant women have a prenatal check-up once a month, but Xu Wei accompanies Zhang Yining twice. Pregnant women must keep proper exercise. Xu Wei often picks up a ping-pong bat and greets Zhang Yining: "Come on, I'll play ball with you for half an hour. "Zhang Yining is a bit lazy and doesn't want to go. Wei Xu said, "Playing ball can not only exercise, but also give prenatal education to the baby. Maybe the child will inherit your mantle in the future. When the couple came to the table tennis club, Zhang Qining stood in front of the table and could beat Xu Wei with his feet. It was not until she sweated slightly that Xu Cai accompanied her home.
On October 30th, 2065438+091kloc-0/0, Zhang Yining successfully gave birth to a healthy baby boy weighing 3.23kg Seeing that the baby was all healthy, Xu Wei shed tears. Having two children makes Zhang Ning braver and more responsible than before. She said to her husband, "When you are old, I will take good care of my son and let him grow up healthily and happily. Xu Wei smiled at the baby.
Now Zhang Yining has been married for 10 years, and a pair of children is the best crystallization of love. She has a career, a happy family and a passionate husband, which makes her a happy woman. She and Xu Wei used 10 years of sweetness and 10 years of love to completely smash the outside speculation.