In life, some people will cheat when they get cheap, and they have to take advantage of their mouths. As everyone knows, disaster comes from the mouth, which is a big trouble. The original reason may be that one sentence is enough to kill a person.

Therefore, everyone should keep their mouths shut and don't talk casually, which will eventually bring unnecessary trouble to themselves. When falling in love, many people will pay attention to their own words, and all they say are love words, which will touch each other's hearts.

However, after marriage, many people don't pay attention to these things and become outspoken, which hurts the feelings of husband and wife. When a woman meets love, she often throws herself into it like a moth, thinking that it can last forever.

When a woman loves a man, she wants nothing and doesn't care about anything. But when you get married, you may get yourself into trouble because you want nothing. If a woman loves a man, she must love a worthy person. This is meaningful and valuable, and she will be happy.

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According to the old rules, the man takes care of the housework and the woman takes care of the dowry, requiring both men and women to get married. Now that the new society has come, the old rules are no longer popular, but marriage still needs a certain material foundation, and married life will be smoother.

Miss Ge in our community got divorced some time ago. When she fell in love with her boyfriend a few years ago, they were both good enough to change their heads, and now they are divorced. After I met her in the community that day, we chatted and she told me the whole story.

When Miss Ge was very young, her mother fell ill and died. Later, when her father remarried, her stepmother treated her badly. When her father ignored her, she lived with her grandparents. Now the house where she lives belongs to her grandparents. When Miss Ge was 22, she met her boyfriend who was three years older than her. They fell in love at first sight.

When it comes to marriage, Miss Ge doesn't understand the old rules of marriage at all, and besides, she doesn't care at all. She believes that people have to rely on themselves anyway. After marriage, she and her husband will work hard and life will get better and better.

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Boyfriend's family conditions are average. Seeing Miss Ge like this, her mother-in-law pretended to be deaf and dumb with many old rules. Miss Ge and her boyfriend went to take wedding photos, and the money for taking wedding photos was still paid by Miss Ge! Because my boyfriend's money has been given to his parents, who will help him with the wedding?

At that time, Miss Ge's grandmother was 80 years old. She said that the bride price should be according to the old rules, but Miss Ge thought her grandmother was old-fashioned. Who will do it according to the old rules now? So Miss Ge didn't ask for a penny for the bride price when she got married. The wedding was held according to local general standards, and the two newcomers were very happy.

However, after marriage, the mother-in-law dragged on day by day, always boasting that her son was capable and took his wife home without spending a penny. Miss Ge had a savings of 80,000 yuan before marriage, and her grandparents gave her another 20,000 yuan when she got married, so she married her husband's family with 654.38 million yuan and part of her dowry.

Mother-in-law said that Miss Ge was upside down, and because her son was excellent, Miss Ge married into their house upside down. Every time her mother-in-law says such things, Miss Ge feels very comfortable. Because she loves her husband, she wants nothing, and now she seems very cheap in her mother-in-law's mouth.

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Because her mother-in-law always said those words, her husband gradually became pretentious and began to take Miss Ge seriously. My husband is above Miss Ge and speaks condescendingly, as if he had suffered from marrying Miss Ge.

In such a family atmosphere, Miss Ge is naturally unhappy. Later, she had a conflict with her mother-in-law, and the war between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law started. To make matters worse, every time there is a war between her mother-in-law and her daughter-in-law, her husband always takes the side of her mother-in-law and thinks that Miss Ge has climbed into their house.

After two years of marriage, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law had another fight, which later triggered a war between husband and wife. After the quarrel, Miss Ge filed for divorce, when she was pregnant for more than a month. But she didn't say, insisted on divorce, but her husband's family didn't want to divorce, and finally divorced.

After the divorce, Miss Ge had an abortion, and she decided to start over. My husband's family didn't want to divorce at first, but later they agreed to divorce because they thought Miss Ge would definitely come to ask for remarriage. After the divorce, they were really heartbroken when they learned that Miss Ge had a miscarriage.

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A good marriage, because of the mother-in-law's intervention, finally became such a result. When Miss Ge told me this, she had a lot of helplessness and grievances. She said she didn't ask for anything because she loved her husband, but she was looked down upon and looked down upon because she didn't want anything.

Now men and women have long been equal, both husband and wife are equal in marriage, and no one has the right to override them. A husband doesn't know how to respect his wife, and he doesn't know what she doesn't care about because she loves you. Such a marriage will not be happy.

Today's young people are all people of the new era and can no longer be bound by those feudal old ideas. When a man gets married, he should stick together with his wife, not listen to his mother. Ma Bao-Nan's marriage will not be happy, and many will eventually end in divorce.

Miss Ge's former mother-in-law is very feudal. When her son got married, she didn't mention the bride price because it was good for her. When her son got married, she took advantage of it, because she didn't want to hold her daughter-in-law down with a bride price. As a result, her son's marriage was shattered.

Therefore, if the mother-in-law really wants her son to be happy, she should not interfere in her son's marriage and respect her daughter-in-law. The young couple are happy, the in-laws are happy in their later years, and the family is harmonious and happy.