Our generation has reached the time when there are old people to take care of in the world and children to raise in the next. They have passed the age of willfulness, and they have an unshirkable responsibility when they give birth to children. Real responsibilities and obligations are unavoidable.

anyone can be willful and slam the door when angry. Only the mother can't, even if she is exploded by anger, she can't leave her baby behind. The growth of children can't be separated from the hard work of her mother.

I'm a second-born treasure mother, and it's easy to have a husband to take care of Dabao when giving birth. When my son was 6 years old, Xiaobao came to our house. Because of work, my husband is in another city and can only go home once a month. The old people at home can't help me because of their poor health, so all the things that take care of the children fall on me.

Really, it's tears when I talk too much. I don't even know how I got through that time. When Xiaobao was very young for a few months, I couldn't live without taking care of her at home. At that time, my son happened to be in the first grade. The school asked for a shuttle bus, but I couldn't. It's very cold in winter here in Xinjiang. It's even more troublesome to take a child out for a few months and get sick. I'll tell my son that you go to school by yourself and hide when you meet the school teacher. You are going to school when the teacher leaves. Fortunately, the school is close to my home, only 1 minutes away, and there are policemen on duty on the road. This relieved me a lot, and his understanding made me feel distressed, and I felt that I still had to bear so much at the age when I could be spoiled. Seeing that others have parents to pick them up, he is envious, but he never complains.

Fortunately, God gave me Dabao. He can help me with many things. Look at my sister, play with my sister and let him take something. I also have moments when I can't bear despair, so my mother and I get sick together, and I insist on doing what I should do for the sake of the children, even though it's hard. No complaints. I brought the children into this world, so I have an obligation to take good care of them.

Bao Ma, who wants to have a second child without the help of the elderly, should be cautious. It will be very hard for you to raise a child without a hand. There is no easy word in the adult world, but some people bury it in their hearts and don't tell others, and some people like to express it.

Therefore, whether we are happy or unhappy, we have no right to be willful. There are many involuntary things that we have to stick to, and it will be fine to get through all the hardships.