1, engagement fee
The engagement fee is generally determined according to the economic level and customs of each region. However, most parents will choose an auspicious number, and the two sides have agreed in advance to bring them when they are engaged.
2. jewelry
First of all, three gold, some areas will require hardware, depending on the man's economic situation. Secondly, the engagement ring is also indispensable, representing a commitment. However, if the man has proposed before and put a proposal ring on the woman, then the engagement ring can be bought without the same meaning.
3. Bride gift
Four-color gifts: cigarettes, wine, tea and sugar, all in double. There are also gift cakes, happy fruits, fish, meat and so on. All gifts should be wrapped in red thread or red paper, which is festive and auspicious.
4. Family and friends groups
When engaged, the man should bring six, eight or 10 relatives and friends to the woman's house, which shows that the man attaches importance to engagement.
Matters needing attention in holding an engagement party
1, book one day in advance.
When getting married, the couple will choose an auspicious day. Engagement is a prelude to marriage, and it is no exception. However, the auspicious day of the zodiac is limited every year, and the wedding banquet hotel with high cost performance on auspicious day is very popular, so it is best for prospective couples to book a good day in advance and then book a hotel in time to avoid missing the trip.
Step 2 estimate the number of guests
At the same time, it is necessary to estimate the number of guests in advance, so as to choose the size of the banquet hall and reserve the number of tables according to the number of people.
3. Hotel configuration and service
When visiting the wedding banquet hotel on the spot, we should pay attention to whether the hardware facilities of the hotel are perfect and can be used normally. Such as parking spaces, lovers' lounges, lights, stereos and so on. At the same time, understand the cost of using these configurations and reflect them in the contract.
4. Wedding menu
When booking a hotel, you must know the quantity and quality of the dishes, and it is best to arrange a tasting session, so as to ensure the quality of the dishes and give the guests a better feeling.
5. Engagement clothes
Although engagement is not as formal and grand as marriage, it should not be too casual. On the day of engagement, it is best to prepare a suit suitable for formal occasions. The bride can choose cheongsam, small dress, evening dress, etc. The groom usually chooses a suit.