As time goes by, the high school entrance examination is gradually approaching. What should parents of high school entrance examination do during this period? How to help children build confidence to win the high school entrance examination?
Prepare a good amount of encouragement in advance
Parents should communicate frequently with teachers and pay close attention to their children’s movements. In the final sprint of the high school entrance examination, children tend to have some fluctuations in their thoughts. Some children will ask themselves: Can I do it? At this time, parents should tell their children that you can do it during normal conversations. After three years of hard work and time accumulation, you can definitely do it! Build confidence in your children. Comparing one's own children with other children can easily lead to children giving up on themselves and developing a mentality of breaking things.
When parents find that their children are showing signs of studying hard, they must talk to them promptly and communicate with the teacher to encourage their children. But give your children convincing and heartfelt encouragement, and don’t give unreasonable encouragement.
Parents can create conditions and prepare incentives in advance. For example, on the first day of the political test, urge the children to memorize the questions and tell them to memorize them well. This test is up to you. After the results come out and the child's performance has improved, he will be encouraged.
Don’t use grades as a guide
Faced with the huge psychological pressure of the high school entrance examination, parents should pay attention to their children’s mental health. Parents should always pay attention to their children’s inappropriate behavior and provide timely guidance. . Parents themselves must view the high school entrance examination correctly and have a calm mind. Only when parents have a peaceful mind can they influence their children well.
Parents should not use grades as a guide. They should never think that their children have good grades and think it is great. If their children have bad grades, they should just say that they are not good enough. Some parents entrust their unfulfilled wishes to their children, always saying to their children: We are counting on you. If you fail, our lives will be in vain. We have spent so much money on making up lessons for you, and you have to repay us! These words should not be said that increase responsibilities and burdens on children.
Sleeping is more important than eating.
Parents should ensure that their children have what they need for a normal life, and do not deliberately change their clothing, diet and other lifestyles for the sake of their children's high school entrance examination. Some parents buy abalone, sea cucumber and other food supplements for their children when they see that their children are about to take the high school entrance examination. Some parents buy brand-name clothes for their children to encourage them. These behaviors are not advisable. Let the children feel that life during the high school entrance examination is the same as usual, so as to eliminate tension.
In terms of diet, while parents pay attention to nutrition, it is not recommended to make too many changes to their children. Summer is relatively hot, so you can give your children some cool foods.
Sleeping is more important than eating. Make sure your child gets enough sleep. When children feel tired and irritable, parents can take their children for a walk outdoors, but it is not recommended to do strenuous exercise to avoid injuries such as fractures and affect the high school entrance examination. It is also not recommended to take children to the cinema to watch movies. Children will also feel very tired after watching the movie.