After marriage, Ma Bao will be stingy again. Don't save money on a few things, otherwise it will be difficult for her husband to love her. Since having children, my mother has worked hard and devoted herself to her family. She buys things for her children and her husband without blinking an eye, but she is stingy with herself. For example, if she goes out to eat, she will give her children an expensive set meal and eat the cheapest one herself.

First, physical examination before recovery.

The child is a little sick. Parents need to sweat, and he goes to the hospital with a cough, but he doesn't even want to do a physical recovery check after giving birth to a child for 42 days. Then how do you know the recovery of postpartum uterus, intuitively? This time is a good opportunity for pelvic floor muscle repair. It's hard to get back if you miss it. Health comes first, especially for women, who are prone to many physical problems when they are old. Once they feel uncomfortable, don't hug them, check them as soon as possible and treat them as soon as possible. Money can't be saved in this respect.

Second, dress with money.

After giving birth to children, most women are out of shape and can't take care of their children day and night, leaving themselves with basically no time to dress up. I finally went out for a stroll, and all the clothes I bought were children's clothes, so I couldn't bear to spend money on my favorite clothes. Even with children, Ma Bao should pay attention to external beauty. A good-looking mother can not only make her children feel good and build self-confidence, but also make her husband learn to respect you and make their feelings more harmonious.

Third, learn new knowledge and money.

Some women will choose to be housewives after giving birth and have to wait at home for at least two or three years. In such a period of fierce market competition, being out of touch with society for three years means that they can only start from scratch or even do the lowest-level work in the future. If she can take care of the children at the same time, Ma Bao can find time to learn new knowledge and enrich herself, so that she can find the expected job soon after returning to society. Even if you are not ready to go out to work, it is convenient to fill in new knowledge at will, which is conducive to children's cultural education.