So after repeated practice, I finally came to a truth, that is, read more professional books when I am confused and idle. More books that interest you. Because you are confused, you just think more and do less. If you just pour some chicken soup blindly, you can only make yourself go further and further on the road of daydreaming and homesickness. There is no practical help. It is better to calm down and learn some skills and knowledge. Everyone knows the law of 50 thousand hours! Maybe, we can be everyone! Don't blindly feed yourself a lot of chicken soup.
If you like literature, you can read some Mo Yan's books. I think Mo Yan's books are more realistic, and the language is very simple and useful. Or read some books by Keigo Higashino. Strange brain circuit and the story of another village in You Jie grocery store, until you read the end, you suddenly realize that everything is a causal cycle. Much more interesting than bubble drama or something! Lu Yao's Ordinary World can also be read, which is more realistic. Although the characters in the book have suffered from the hardships of life, they still stubbornly resist the storm given by this life. It is also very enlightening to myself. People who are worse off than themselves are still trying. Who is qualified to talk about this kind of anodyne confusion! Of course, professionally speaking, because I am an e-commerce, I prefer to read some books on economics and computers. For example, The Economics of Milk Coke introduces some economic principles behind common phenomena in our lives, which is a basic introduction. Those who are interested in economics can also have a look! There is also a book related to your major, which you can use to read and study. This is the most effective way to deal with confusion. When you really master a technology and can do something by yourself, you won't be confused. Or look at new concept English, because English has passed CET-4, so it is better to use this confused time to shape yourself and achieve yourself. Or you can cultivate your hobbies, buy some books about making handicrafts and raising plants, exercise your finger flexibility and cultivate your sentiment. Of course, if I don't like what you say, then I'll do another big trick! You always like it! Buy a cookbook and learn to cook it yourself. Of course, it may be a dark dish at first, but don't lose heart and just do it slowly! Learning, there is always a gradual process! Have confidence in yourself! Confusion is a problem that everyone will have, including fear of the future and dissatisfaction with the status quo. But life always goes on! Every unsatisfactory situation is the result of frivolous years in the past! So instead of being confused, it is better to bury your head in reading more books and newspapers. Calm down to shape yourself and achieve yourself! Let's encourage!