# How to spend the lonely days of only one person #
At all stages of human growth, people will encounter "lonely" moments more or less, and sometimes loneliness may come from external factors, such as being separated from relatives and friends, such as being separated from their wives and children; There are also lonely moments that come from the stage of "autism", such as self-isolation when people are isolated, such as conceiving a grand idea or creating a "masterpiece" that has just taken shape. Including divorce. Regardless of internal and external factors, men born after 7, 8 and 9 will "enjoy" their lonely moments in different forms, and will also adjust and repair themselves in different ways. In the same way, men in these three ages also have a kind of sexual behavior between them to complete their self-resurrection.
Take betrayed and newly divorced men as the premise.
after men born in 197s, 198s and 199s are betrayed in marriage, if divorce is the only choice (in fact, only a few men choose to maintain the status quo, and at least not a few people choose to divorce), many people will unconsciously feel lonely for a while. This is not to say that people in these three eras are emotionally fragile and can't stand such a blow. For anyone in any era, this period of emotional fragility will exist for a long time, unless it is the kind of heartless advocate who "plays with you and I play with mine, and does not interfere with each other".
Under this kind of change, men in the post-7s, post-8s and post-9s will roughly form three stages to realize their self-recovery, namely, eliminating the gap-self-repair-resurrection. Mi-elimination is certain. People who share the same bed with themselves day and night will once become "grass growers", and that kind of betrayal is worse than death. If a man doesn't choose Wu Song's way to dispel his hatred, he will be depressed, which may be the last choice. There are many ways to eliminate chyme, such as drinking to drown your sorrows; Actively humiliate yourself, such as by hiking or working hard. The purpose is to paralyze yourself, because once you stop, the once beautiful things will erode your bones and sting you.
Mi Xiao is not unlimited, just like stinging pain, it will become insensitive after a long time. After the disappearance of mi, men will feel hungry as if they had just woken up from a long sleep and looked at the sunny world outside, and they will begin to question whether it is worthwhile for them to ruin themselves so much. This is the beginning of self-repair, starting with feeding yourself, of course, not only feeding yourself, but also having meals with children and the elderly. At this time, it is actually the time for men to correct themselves. Do you think men at this time will complain about their ex-wives to their children or the elderly? A narrow-minded man will hate his ex-wife in this way, but most men won't do it, because it is unnecessary. You can't "plant" hatred in your child's heart, and you can't cut the blood relationship between mother and child or mother and daughter. Therefore, I said that blurring the ex-wife's "no" in front of relatives is precisely because he is correcting himself, and self-correction is the beginning of repair.
will the repair take a long time? It depends on the individual's state of mind. Some people have a long time, others have a short time, but there is a * * * sex. Once this * * * sex is formed, it is a "self-resurrection", that is, no longer entangled in the resentment and hatred of his ex-wife. As the old saying goes, "Love begets hate". You still hate your ex-wife for "planting" grass on your head, which means that you haven't let go of your past love and hate. Why do you start a new life? For example, in the face of a woman who has a good impression on you, if you subconsciously compare her with your ex-wife, including the cup bow and snake shadow in your heart, you may not care, but for this woman, is it too unkind?
a * * sexual feature of a man's resurrection with blood is that the past is gone, and the new man is brand-new, while he always gives the "new man" 1% trust, including his own undivided acceptance and doting on the "new man".