principle 1: be absolutely gentle. It is said that heroes are sad about beauty, but all over the world, God can't let every woman have the beauty of sinking fish and losing geese, so if you are not beautiful, you must be gentle first. As an extremely good wife, gentleness is of course a top priority. When he comes back from work, the gate hasn't entered. You have to take his bag, put his slippers at him by the way, then make him a cup of tea and peel an apple (preferably sliced). If he is in a good mood and wants to talk to you for a while, don't say, "Hey, honey, I have to do laundry and cook. I'll talk to you later." You have to sit down quickly, communicate with him in a soft voice, listen to his "heroic deeds" and make a statement of admiration at the same time; If he is in a bad mood and is furious with you, don't say, "Hey, why are you yelling? What can you do at home?"? Have the ability to make public outside! " If you want to be a good wife, at this time, the most important thing is to sit down with him and say piteously, "Honey, don't be angry. Look who has annoyed all our good-tempered husbands. There must be something wrong with this person!" I'm sure he can't get angry again. Who says heroes are sad about beauty? In fact, women's gentle men are the most afraid and favorite. He is tired, you beat him; He hurts, you rub it for him; He is hot, you fan him; He is thirsty, you give him a glass of water; He smiled, and you were happy in your heart; He's crying. You have to hold him in your arms like a child. In short, a gentle woman should think of her husband, regard his joys and sorrows as her own, and then put her own aside for the time being! Imagine, if you are really soft to the bone, then your husband will not stay by your side, and he can't get rid of it if he wants to!
Principle 2: Pay absolute attention to your image
God didn't give you a beautiful face and a devil-like figure, but he never let you spoil yourself at will. I often see some married women who are not particular about their clothes. I don't even wear a bra at work. When asked by a curious person, she looks surprised: "I'm married, and I don't want to find a husband anymore. What are you doing dressing it up? Besides, it's so convenient to go home and nurse my children!" There are by no means a few such women, thinking that once they get married, they don't need to paint makeup for anyone. In fact, it is still needed, and it is very necessary. Which husband would like a wife who beat the world with a set of pajamas? It is often seen that some women even wear pajamas when shopping and shopping, which is really great! Didn't you say? Women are born to dress up their own world, but they are also dressing up men's world. How can you fool this top priority just because you are married? A good wife should know how to wear light makeup and heavy makeup, and know what clothes to wear on any occasion. It doesn't matter if she is not beautiful, but she must be solemn and decent! Don't wear a pair of sneakers under a lady's skirt, a pair of high heels under sweatpants, stockings without silk, and pay attention to the "scenery" under your armpits under your halter top. If you often spoil your husband's fun, tear down his desk and brush his face, you will forget the reputation of this good wife, and even marriage will shine a red light on you.
Rule 3: Keep your husband's stomach well
I don't know who came up with it: to manage your husband, you must manage his stomach first. There are far more "big sisters" than "big uncles" who buy food in the vegetable market now. But let's not say whether this statement is a truth or a philosophy for the time being. In short, it is right to follow it. A good wife must not say coyly, "Husband, cook quickly, I'm starving!" " In fact, many men are thinking to themselves: Why do I marry a wife? Why didn't I cook and do laundry for me? Just afraid to say it. Therefore, don't make your husband mutter in his heart for a few meals, which is not worth it. You have to study the cookbook carefully and know the "3 Tips for the Kitchen" by heart. What soup, what materials, how to match what dishes, how much monosodium glutamate and how much salt to add, you have to ponder and temper again and again, until your cooking skills are almost ready for the "Man-Han Banquet" on CCTV. My husband naturally won't sneak into the restaurant and let you eat alone at home every day.
Principle 4: Never compare your husband with other people's husbands.
Men hate it when their wives always give them a K, and they don't forget to compare other people's husbands with themselves when K. I can't stand the wife saying, "Look at you, what virtue! I know that doing such a little housework, if someone's husband is tens of thousands a year, you are the most incompetent! " If her husband can earn tens of thousands of dollars, she will say, "Alas! You only know Qian Qian's money. Her husband always takes her to play and go for a walk. Have you ever been with me? " If it happens that her husband has been with her, she will say, "Oh, please help me with some housework. I'm exhausted. You just want to sit on the sofa and watch TV. Her husband is a model, not like you!" It seems that all the men in the world are good, but this one around you is the worst. A good wife will never do this. She will not compare her husband with others. Even if she does, she will say, "Whose husband is capable, but which one is as considerate as you, or you are the best, dear!" Such a ratio, the husband's heart can be comfortable!
Principle 5: Never be too smart in front of your husband. Sometimes he prefers you to be stupid.
When a man feels that the woman around him is inferior to himself everywhere, he will have a great sense of accomplishment and feel that this woman is being conquered by his omniscience. Everyone knows that men like to conquer women. Therefore, when he says that there are only two kinds of people in the world, you must never say three kinds. When he says that the capital of Britain is new york, you must never say London. You must say with great admiration, "Oh, you know so much, this ... I don't know!" If the computer system is broken, you ask him to fix it, even if he can't, but you practice makes perfect, you don't have to fix it. You have to give him more things that you can easily do, and say, "Honey, you are really good, why can't I?" A really smart wife knows how to make herself a little stupid properly. It is your cleverest trick to train her husband to be smart!
Principle 6: Never let your husband dress appropriately, and learn to trim the hem of trousers and nail buttons.
If your husband dresses inappropriately and goes out, someone will definitely say, "Hey, this guy is miserable, and he has a lazy wife at home!" However, if the wife goes out dressed inappropriately, someone will definitely say, "Hey, this person is really lazy. Whoever marries her will be miserable!" " I can't help it. This world is just so unfair! Therefore, before your husband goes out, you must first match his clothes, what shirt with what tie, and what trousers with what coat. You must also iron his clothes one by one to ensure that they are sharp and angular, and the white shirt should be washed as clean as ever. Don't let the dirt on his collar destroy his graceful demeanor. Don't forget to check whether his trousers are off the thread and whether the buttons will fall off from time to time. You must do everything well before he puts them on. If you can't learn all this, learn quickly, there is no way, being a good wife is not that easy!
Principle 7: Never be lion roars, adhering to the mantle of "tigress"
A man's most unwanted wife is a shrew. A good wife should pay special attention to this, and never become a "tigress" carelessly. Husband moves slowly, so you have to say, "What's wrong today? Are you in poor health?"? It used to be very fast! " Never yell, "You are useful and useless, and you are still dragging your feet with something"; Husband is sitting still, so you have to say, "Are you tired? Have a good rest! " Never shout, "You lazy pig, am I your servant or a slave? Still not getting up to work? " More can't easily to her husband, a good man is not fighting with women, how can a good woman fight with men? Therefore, a good wife is absolutely not allowed to live in lion roars. Hey, it's better to be a human being. Lions and tigers are not allowed. Otherwise, marriage is in jeopardy. Think about it. Who wants to live with such a terrible animal, isn't it?
Principle 8: Never "live Lei Feng" to your parents and "skin-peeling" to your husband's parents.
A good wife should know that her husband's parents are no less than her own in her husband's heart. So be sure to treat his parents, that is, your in-laws. Don't always think of your father and mother, what's delicious at home, take some and send some to you, which is obviously right. People, who are not raised by their parents! The point is, did you also give these to your husband's parents? Even if your parents didn't say anything, you can always think about it everywhere, put yourself in their shoes with a kind of "Lei Feng" thought, and in the face of your in-laws, you think their hearts are too fierce; Eat a little and blame them for being too greedy; If you use a little, roll your eyes and say, "won't you buy it yourself?" Old and immortal! " If you are such a person, then you are far from a good wife. It is said that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are difficult to get along with. Even if there are some contradictions between the two, you should firmly remember that this man you love most is raised by them. Only for this reason, you should treat them like your own parents. You should also be extremely grateful to say, "Dad, mom, you have worked hard. Now it is time for us to raise you!" And if you really do this, you are a perfect good wife, a super-accurate "quasi-good wife"!
Principle 9: Never have a job of your own
A woman should be an independent tree, and her husband is the big tree beside you. If you don't have a job of your own, you will become a vine, tightly wrapped around him and attached to him for growth. Of course, he will like your attachment to him and your lingering, but over time, he will blame you for sucking his nutrients and holding him back, and he will wish to let you leave so that he can grow freely. So a good wife must know this. If you don't want your husband to get tired of you, you have to have a job of your own. You must be independent and interdependent, so that the marriage will last long.
Rule 1: Never go out of the wall with an almond
Even if you don't go out of the wall these days, there are people lying on the wall waiting for an almond. A good wife must be able to withstand such temptation. And the most intolerable thing for a man is that his wife gives him a cuckold. So this is the most important of the ten principles that must be adhered to. No matter how beautiful and charming the scenery outside the wall is, you still have to kiss the grass in the courtyard. They are not beautiful, but aren't they more beautiful against you? Besides, people who pick apricots only need to pick them, smell them and play with them a few times, and they will throw them away! Have you ever seen anyone pick wild flowers and raise them at home? Even if they are raised, they will be thrown away in a few days. At that time, he will put you on the road of rotten stone, but you will regret it too late. Therefore, a good wife should guard your grass, guard your yard, and just look around. If you go out of the wall, you can avoid it!