Therefore, I have the following suggestions to share with you:
First, spend more time with your husband's family. In our daily life, besides work, we also need to spend a lot of time with our husband's family, because there are great problems in the thoughts and concepts of the older generation. If you don't keep dealing with them, the relationship will become more and more alienated after a long time, so communication is the key to solving the problem. Only by communicating like friends can we really adapt to the pace of life of our husband's family.
Second, do more things that you can. Now that we have become a family, we should do more things for our family to enhance our sense of distance and think more about each other, so as to establish our feelings for each other. Because my relationship with my mother-in-law was not particularly good before, but through my continuous efforts, I finally got the good impression of my mother-in-law and got along well.
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very different from that between parents, but they all belong to the same big family. No matter which environment you live in, you should handle it rationally, otherwise it will be difficult to handle the relationship well. At the same time, when we have a bad relationship with our in-laws, it will also make our husbands feel distressed, because one is a mother and the other is a daughter-in-law, both of which are the most important women in life. Giving up on either side is a loss, so all women must not ignore the feelings of the other half and think more about each other. I hope everyone can adopt this idea.