We envy people who can go abroad and find a big single-family villa to settle down. They like the swimming pool at home. They have their own outdoor courtyard where they can have tea, rest and play.

We envy those who can live in seclusion occasionally, take care of flowers and plants, be wild cranes in the clouds, cook by themselves, feel the smoke curling up and slow down the pace of life;

We also envy those couples who travel in the circle of friends every day. They may not have the pressure of mortgage and childcare, and their lives are often full of laughter. ...

Most of the life we envy is made of money. How can I settle abroad without money? Without money, how can you plant beans in Nanshan and gather chrysanthemums in Dongli? How can I travel without money?

So, in the final analysis, I come to the conclusion that money is important! Money plays an unexpected role in the relationship between husband and wife. Sister Hong once told us how money changed a couple and their married life.

Sister Hong was wronged when she married Zhiyong. Zhiyong's family conditions are average. Sister Hong looked at her in-laws' future living environment and couldn't bear to ask for anything more. But how to treat my parents is a problem. After thinking about it in all aspects, Hong Jie and Zhi Yong took out their private money as a bride price.

There is nothing pleasing to the eye or embarrassing about the days without money. Since the second year of marriage, neither Sister Hong nor Zhigang has had a smooth job, especially after the birth of their children.

Both parents can't work hard and sometimes they are dragged down. Where are the two people tortured by rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea? Zhiyong and Hong Jie think about how to make money every day, but every year, Hongjie is very sad. After working hard for a year, I still have no money!

They are not lazy either. On such an anxious day, Sister Hong really goes from day to day, and quarreling is naturally a common thing for couples!

Later, the children grew up gradually, although life was still tight, but the state of Sister Hong and Zhiyong had undergone earth-shaking changes. Hong Jie said that this change is the husband and wife's life policy from "making money" to "saving money".

A few years ago, they worked hard to make money. They are busy making money every day, ignoring each other's feelings. There is no time to communicate with each other. Most of the time they are quarrelling. Where did all the money you earned go? What do you do outside every day?

Do you have this home in your eyes? Until one day, the children asked them how long it had been since the family came in and strolled across the street together. They realized that in order to make money over the years, they lost several opportunities to hug each other and gave several children negative emotions. Life should not be like this.

Later, Sister Hong and Zhiyong decided to change their purpose, from making money to saving money. The end of each month is the day when two people sort out their deposits. How much they earned this month, how much they spent, and where all the money went.

The purpose of saving money next month is to reach a few dollars, and gradually change from once a month to once a quarter. By the end of that year, the two had settled accounts, and in fact they paid tens of thousands more than last year. Sister Hong felt the benefits of saving money for the first time!

What makes Hong Jie and Zhiyong even more happy is that during this year's mutual understanding and communication, the relationship between husband and wife has rapidly warmed up, and they are full of hope for their future life. They decided to bring their children to enjoy life every year.

As usual, their lives are on the right track, and they don't have to quarrel over money anymore, and they don't have to worry about getting angry over money anymore!

To this end, Hong Jie took herself as an example to tell her relatives and friends: Don't worry about making money, save money together, feel the happiness after working together, and feel the joy of working hard to bear "fruitful results".

In fact, not only Hong Jie, but also friends have had deep feelings. My friend Xiao Ming has money at home, and since he was a child, he has developed the habit of spending money lavishly. Before getting married, Xiao Ming lived at home. Although she only earned two or three thousand yuan a month, she lived five or six thousand yuan.

At that time, Xiao Ming didn't want to get married. When she really came to live independently, Xiao Ming felt the sinister intention of life!

My husband doesn't make much money. After paying the rent every month, he has 5,000 yuan left. Xiao Ming still maintains the status quo. I earn my own money, but two people live alone, the expenses double, and life begins to be stretched.

Days without money are hotbeds for couples to quarrel. Because there is no money, many things are out of order. Small to buy fruit, big to buy home appliances, two people can quarrel! Xiao Ming began to feel that when did life become so difficult?

After careful thinking, Xiao Ming began to realize the problem. In the past, she relied on her parents to maintain a good life even if her salary was not high. But since she got married, she has spent more and more money, but what she can earn can never catch up with what she spends!

Another big problem is that Xiaoming thinks that the influence of money after marriage is too great, which leads to both of them leaving their feelings behind. Xiao Ming thought of a good way to kill two birds with one stone, that is, start sorting out each other's expenses, make a small vault together, and then save money together!

Less than half a year after this, Xiao Ming felt that marriage had changed.

The first obvious change is that Xiaoming has money in his hand. With money, he gained confidence. With confidence, he doesn't care so much, and the number of quarrels is much less. The relationship between husband and wife has soared.

In fact, this is the situation between husband and wife, but it is not as those who are poor together know. Although money is not everything, it can handle most things in this world. When things are less, the number of quarrels between husband and wife will decrease, and feelings will naturally heat up.

Saving money is the only "good medicine" to enhance the feelings of middle-aged couples! May those couples who take quarreling as their daily life try to save money, and maybe the world will be wonderful if they save it!