Great changes have taken place in my world during the postpartum period. I thought this is a process that every woman will go through, and I should be able to adapt. Only later found out that I overestimated myself.
Since my mother took care of me for more than ten days, after I went back, I did everything myself, taking a bath and washing my baby's ass every day regardless of the pain of the wound. When the baby cries, I have to coax it myself. That sense of isolation turned me into blx. Sometimes I hear my family say that I didn't bring my children well, and my heart is very wronged, and my tears are pattering.
Old people have a set of parenting theories for old people and young people have a set of parenting theories for young people. When the baby cries, the mother-in-law feels that there is not enough milk. When the baby sneezes, the mother-in-law feels that I have less clothes for the baby. Even when the baby is crying, there are different views on whether it should be picked up immediately.
Because my mother-in-law doesn't live together, she only visits occasionally. As for not taking a shower, washing her hair, brushing her teeth and playing with her mobile phone, she has to lie in bed all day ... these mother-in-law don't care about me.
In fact, the most difficult thing for me is the traditional monthly meal. Every meal must be soup, and I will drink all the soup all my life. When I don't want to drink my mother-in-law, I will nag and say that there is no milk to feed my baby. They are thinking about children, not your appetite. All day is eggs, egg soup, chicken soup, trotters soup, and so on for more than a month.
Sisters, let's leave a message together What is the most unbearable thing for you after giving birth?
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(This article comes from: Baidu Baby knows Xiao Xiaoyi Mommy)
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