1. When someone asks your child for his beloved toy:
You are the elder brother, and you should know how to share and play with your sister.
Baby, talk to your aunt. Why don't you lend your toy to your sister?
If the child can't tell the reason at this time, try to guide further.
Tips:
Not everything can be shared. Of course, you can't force your children to share. You should respect his wishes.
It is necessary to correctly guide children and how to refuse others reasonably and politely, instead of refusing blindly.
2. When someone scolds your child.
Echoing the voice, "I'm sorry, this child is always making trouble." Stop immediately, "I'm sorry, you can tell me first, and I'll educate the children if they have problems."
Tips:
As parents, you must not let your child be scolded by others on the spot but disagree, or even scold your child with outsiders.
This will make children very disheartened, doubt themselves, seriously hurt the parent-child relationship and hurt their self-esteem.
3. When you chat with other parents,
When you see other people's children are excellent:
"Your children learn everything quickly, but my family can't learn bicycles.
"Next time let two children study together, how happy they will be as companions."
Tips:
Remember not to belittle your children too much and praise others' children too much.
When children are criticized by teachers at school.
"Teacher, you're right. My child is always dripping ... "
After hearing the cause of the incident, he leaned down and whispered to the child, "Son, I want to hear what you have to say."
Tips:
We should encourage children more and make them feel confident and safe.
Smart parents and good parents.
Have you ever been desperate for a child?