You are not from Guangdong, but are you going to a local wedding reception? Those who get married in that month generally don't attend each other's weddings, those who do white things don't attend other people's weddings for less than a month, and red invitations can't be sent to white people's homes to show respect. ,,,, If it's a wedding reception! Dress dignified, this is respect for the host family! The host family is also happy! It's okay to be dignified in black (such as a suit), but absolutely not in white. The time to give red envelopes is usually when you go or when you are ready to leave after dinner (most people do). If you set the table in a restaurant, the host and wife will surely meet the guests at the door. In this case, many people will say a few words of congratulations at the door (for example, Hong Kong restaurants are all given at the door, and the host will send several people to sit at the door with tables and chairs to register the guests' gifts, and the guests will also sign up). When it comes to giving gifts and things, such as furniture or household appliances, people close to the owner will give them, such as relatives and friends. Even if they have money, there is no need to compete with others! Besides, you can't just sit back and wait. In a restaurant, the host family will arrange the seats according to the order. If there is no arrangement, or the host family has no arrangement, you can't sit at a table with several elders (equal). This is impolite! If you want to propose a toast to the bride or groom, you should think carefully, unless they can drink well, because the groom may have drunk too much, or the bride is pregnant and can't drink. At this time, you can ask the couple to change the wine to tea or soda, which will make people feel that you are very compassionate and reasonable! ,,,,, Huizhou City, Guangdong Province