Falling in love with someone is a desirable thing, but if this love is just that one party loves the other party but doesn't love it, then this love is no longer beautiful, but the most painful thing for the deeply loved party. Because love is always a matter for two people, if it is only paid unilaterally, there will never be happiness. When you love someone humbly, it is actually the time to spoil yourself the most!

When Tommy married her husband, she knew in her heart that she was not the one he loved. Before she met her husband, he liked a girl for a long time. It was only because of the obstruction from different places and family that I finally regretted breaking up.

Tommy loves her husband very much. As long as she can be with her husband, she doesn't care whether the person she loves is herself or what she once liked, not to mention, because in the end, her husband chose to be a family with her, which shows that her husband still cares about himself. She thinks that as long as she loves her husband well, he will be moved by her love.

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After getting married, Tommy took care of the family's life carefully. She keeps the room spotless every day, irons every shirt for her husband, searches for recipe videos on her mobile phone, and learns to cook her husband's favorite meals. She thinks that if she loves someone, she should pay more, so that her husband's heart will come back to her sooner or later.

What Tommy has done seems to have little effect, because her husband's attitude towards her is always wavering, sometimes he is kind to her, and sometimes he is cold to her, which makes Tommy feel extremely depressed. Even so, Tommy still loves her husband as always and patiently does all this for him every day.

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Tommy has been waiting and waiting, expecting her husband to tell her how he feels when he is away, or to give himself a small gift, but he has never waited. My husband comes home every day, but he is still indifferent to Tommy. He sleeps with his back on his back and speaks with an expression of disgust. She finally realized that all her love and dedication were untouched in her husband's heart. She just married a nanny who foolishly took on all the housework.

Tommy decided to stop her efforts. She is no longer in a hurry to go home from work to cook, and she is no longer just cooking her husband's favorite dishes. She no longer expects her husband to give her love. Every weekend, she invites her best friend to eat and go shopping together. Facing her husband's cynicism, she said. Let's divorce! ? Husband asked why, and she said because she couldn't love anymore.

Uncle Qing wrote a love letter:

Don't humble yourself to please someone who doesn't love you. In the end, you wronged yourself and made others sick! True love is never when one side puts down its dignity to please the other. True love is always equal and complementary, that is, you love me, I love you, you don't love me, then I will turn around. Knowing that it is impossible, you have to love with humility, and finally you can only be sad.

We must know that one party loves the marriage that the other party doesn't love, and there is only one ending, and that is the dissolution of the marriage. So, don't be stupid enough to pay for someone who doesn't love you. You should have your own true love.