Happy Vicky is the wife of actress Qu Zhongheng and the mother of four precious daughters. In the program, she often talks about her husband's indiscretion and all kinds of crazy behaviors in her pre-marital life. Under the appearance of talking and laughing, Vicky generously admitted that being an artist was her best way to vent. Taking care of children and family is really not as easy as I thought. It was not until four children were born one after another that she slowly found her own balance point.

After the child falls asleep, the husband and wife seize the time to play separately?

It is not easy to take care of one child, let alone four. Vicky said that she was unhappy for nearly five years before finding a balance, just like many stay-at-home mothers. Sometimes when emotions come, even children will fly into a rage!

Everyone needs to relax, and both husband and Vicky know this. After marriage, the couple slowly give each other space and freedom. Every day after the child falls asleep, watch his favorite DVD to relax, and don't deliberately interfere with what the other person wants to do. Vicky grasps this rare time every day and is obsessed with the progress of Korean dramas. She should be happy even at the expense of sleep. A girl's dream that is temporarily opened will free her from the pressure of taking care of her children during the day.

Vicky admits that of all the things that her mother is good at, housework is her worst. On the contrary, she is better at taking children to eat, drink, and have fun and talk. She often takes her daughter abroad alone, leaving her husband at home and having the warmest "Taomei" trip! As long as you find the balance between your heart and life, life will slowly recover.

Mom's hard work is often her own!

As an artist, wife and mother of four children, Vicky's favorite identity is still mother, and each child's different performance brings her different sense of accomplishment! Vicky takes an open attitude towards the cultivation of children. The two eldest daughters have never attended any parent classes since childhood, nor have they participated in winter and summer vacation counseling. The free education method makes there not much gap between mother and daughter even after the children enter adolescence.

The eldest daughter will take the initiative to talk to her mother about interpersonal relationships at school. Now that she is going to junior high school, she asks to live on campus. When she asked her daughter if she would be afraid without parental care, her daughter confidently replied, "I will!" " Let her be so gratified and moved. Vicky said that mothers are very worried about their children, and sometimes their children are poor and nervous. What should they do if they think their children are sticky to their mothers? It is often the mother who sticks to the child, so it is important to learn to relax. Mother's hard work is often her own.

Mother's heart should have the feeling of light!

Speaking of the fourth daughter who recently reported for duty, Vicky joked that she has a special constitution and seems to be responsive. She just thinks with her husband that her third daughter is eight years old, and if she wants to have another child, she will really get pregnant. Vicky cherished God and gave her another chance. "Maybe I am really easy to get pregnant!" In the face of another review of parenting classes for newborn babies aged 65,438+02, 65,438+00 and 8, Vicky thinks that the definition of a mother's heart should be like the sun, giving warm sunshine to the family and children, and wittily saying, "And it should be a shining feeling!" 」

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