Pay attention to sweeping graves on the anniversary.
On the anniversary day, there will be more or less different practices because of the customs and cultural differences in different places. The usual practice is to offer a glass of wine, four dishes, a braised fish, braised pork, roasted tofu, fried vegetables and a bowl of rice in front of the grave. Burn paper, gold and silver ingots, mingbi and so on in front of the grave. Bow in mourning. The general time is 10 days before Tomb-Sweeping Day or 10 days after Tomb-Sweeping Day. There is also a more fashionable practice: bring a bunch of flowers and bow to the grave to mourn. This is a more common way.
Don't wear red and green.
On the anniversary day, we must pay attention to one thing, that is, we are not allowed to wear red and green clothes, and we must maintain an elegant style of dress. Don't talk loudly and quarrel, it will disturb the soul of the old man. Sacrifices on Memorial Day cannot be compiled, but should be bought, made and offered in good faith. If a mourning ceremony is held in the cemetery, all the incense on the table must be burned before you leave, and you are absolutely not allowed to leave early. This is the most important link, so this day must be carefully implemented.
9 o'clock ~ 12 o'clock is the best.
If you choose to visit the grave on the memorial day, then you need to pay attention to the best time, because this is the most important thing for yourself and your deceased relatives. It is often the most reasonable to choose the time when the yang is strong, that is, from 9: 00 am to 12 am, lasting for two hours. In these two hours, I can not only bring better worship to my relatives who have left, but also bring better shelter to my family.