The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is always a difficult problem to solve. Women who enter marriage will inevitably face the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Although everyone says that after marriage, mother-in-law will love her daughter-in-law as her own daughter, in reality, such mother-in-law is still relatively rare. Before giving birth, she can maintain superficial harmony and calm. Many conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law occur after giving birth.

Of course, some mothers-in-law really regard their daughter-in-law as their own daughter, and sincerely contribute money to their daughter-in-law and the family. It is the easiest to understand whether their mother-in-law really regards her daughter-in-law as a daughter. By comparing her behavior during the second month, she may get an answer.

1. Cook according to daughter-in-law's taste

It is known that during confinement, women eat unique and picky meals. In order to provide nutrition for newborns, they will eat more foods that are beneficial to milk production, and the types of eating dishes are also picky, and there are many foods and tastes that are taboo. If at this stage, the mother-in-law takes the trouble to cook for her daughter-in-law in different ways and cater to their taste, this is undoubtedly true love. You know, it's not easy for a cook to keep cooking in a variety of ways every day. My mother-in-law can cook willingly, but she really regards her daughter-in-law as her own family, just because she is afraid that they won't have enough nutrition during the confinement period.

2. The most prominent contradiction between son and daughter-in-law is the son issue. Because both women love their sons, the starting point and the angle of consideration will naturally be different, which will easily lead to contradictions. However, a mother-in-law who loves her daughter-in-law can't bear to let them be wronged on such an issue. If the mother-in-law can put a low profile, respect her daughter-in-law's behavior, and will not excessively interfere with young people's lives, it shows that the mother-in-law is reasonable, can sympathize with her daughter-in-law, and when her son and daughter-in-law quarrel, she will wholeheartedly turn to her daughter-in-law. Congratulations, the mother-in-law you met really regards you as her own daughter. Only this kind of heartfelt love will make her mother-in-law unable to bear any injustice and injustice.

3. Take care of your daughter-in-law's daily life

When a daughter-in-law is in confinement, she will take care of her baby, and her body will be weak and her sleep will be unreliable. At this time, people are most needed to take care of her daily life. At this time, her mother-in-law takes care of her daughter-in-law's food, clothing, housing and transportation in an all-round way, and is willing to help you take care of her baby. I have to say that such a mother-in-law treats you as her own daughter. Isn For every girl, leaving the family that has lived for more than 2 years and marrying into a strange family for the sake of marriage is bound to be anxious and uneasy. So what should be done to avoid conflicts with her mother-in-law?

1. Make a good impression on your mother-in-law

The first impression is very important. When meeting strangers, many people believe the first impression. If you can leave a good impression in your mother-in-law's eyes, it will be of great help to live in harmony in the future. It is recommended that girls behave generously and dress appropriately when meeting their mother-in-law for the first time.

2. Treat each other sincerely

People's hearts are made of meat. If you treat your mother-in-law sincerely, the average mother-in-law will not take the initiative to embarrass her daughter-in-law. Be more sincere and less hypocritical.

3. No head-on conflict

When you get along with your mother-in-law, you can better understand the true meaning of the sentence "Be patient for a while and be calm". In many cases, no matter right or wrong, you can't lose your temper first, conflict first and then solve the problem. If you feel really wronged, or your mother-in-law has done something wrong, you can communicate with your mother-in-law to solve the problem.

However, if people want to have a good mother-in-law, the daughter-in-law should also pay accordingly. The pay is not unilateral. The daughter-in-law treats her mother-in-law like her own mother, and naturally her mother-in-law will love you more. Respect your mother-in-law, care about them, and thank your mother-in-law for treating you as your own daughter with the same warmth and actions.