Song Siming's psychological orientation of himself.
In a conversation with seaweed while driving a Land Rover, he mentioned that a successful man must have three things, status, Land Rover and another one. At this time, he looked at seaweed without saying a word, of course, referring to a confidante. This bridge clearly shows the smart Song Siming's psychological orientation to himself. He has been waiting for the appearance of a lover, but the time has not yet arrived. A middle-aged man refuses to accept the old mentality.
At the beginning of seaweed and Song Siming, the ignorant seaweed laughed and called Song Siming his uncle. The speaker was unintentional and the listener was interested. "Am I really that old?" Song Siming plausibly asked seaweed. Of course, seaweed, which was not very sensitive at the beginning, was just perfunctory. In addition, in life, for example, my daughter teased her idol who didn't understand the times, saying that she couldn't keep up with the times, and there must be some such things. The outside world kept giving him information to make him realize that he was really no longer young. However, the unyielding character can easily inspire his fighting spirit, thus forming the mentality of middle-aged men who refuse to accept the old. Conquering a young girl is a challenge to his own male charm, and it is also a struggle for younger men than him. It is also an extension of the middle-aged man's attitude of refusing to accept the old. A Middle-aged Man's Compensation for Young Self
This was revealed through the private conversation between Song Siming's wife and her best friend. Although it seems a little narrow from a female perspective, it does make sense. Men, when they are young, in the most passionate age, are the poorest, and there is often a gap between what they think and what they get. Now, when you are successful, how can you make up for the loss in your heart? Song Siming's virgin plot
, can't avoid custom, Song Siming also has a more serious virgin complex, once to the effect that "you say you are not sensible, Beckham is so sensible, but also really have to thank him for being so sensible". The other time is "You are mine", he said to seaweed, "And it's only mine", and told seaweed openly that men want a woman to be completely their own in this life. Originally, seaweed wanted to tell the truth, but if it wasn't sensitive, it would realize Song Siming's story, so it had to be evasive and prevaricated. Seaweed also naively asked Song Siming, "What about your wife?" Song Siming was serious and said, "I can't chat". It seems that his wife has not satisfied his share of the plot. His double love for seaweed should also be a reason.
The expansion of self-consciousness
Although Song Siming is a very clever man, as long as he is a man, he will unconsciously expand himself. When he finds that he can save seaweed from danger with a little use of his rights, this satisfaction should be self-evident. When I first met Song Siming, seaweed was quite innocent. No matter in appearance or inside, Song Siming saw her deep affection for her sister and kindness to her loved ones. Even once turned down Song Siming with considerable integrity.
In the process of their communication, seaweed also devoted her heart and true feelings to Song Siming. Everyone has feelings. What's more, getting along with each other day and night, what's more, Song Siming is an affectionate person. Seaweed didn't spend money arrogantly, and said that it didn't hurt to buy clothes for Song Siming. At least in Song Siming's eyes, seaweed is more comforting to him. sexual passion
It is inevitable that this is the most primitive, instinctive and powerful inducer of all extramarital affairs.