First, from a psychological point of view, everyone has the psychology of liking the new and hating the old. Psychologists have done an experiment: put a male monkey and a female monkey in a big cage and observe their mating frequency. As a result, the mating frequency is the most on the first day, and gradually decreases. After observing for a week, the mating is less and less; At this point, the female monkey is taken out and put into a new female monkey, and the mating frequency increases as much as before. People, too, need new sexual partners. Therefore, women (men) cheating is not entirely out of moral decay. Throughout history, most of the derailed people are successful people, highly educated people and even cultivated people.

Second, from the current social atmosphere, it also provides people with a social basis for derailment. Nowadays, women (men) have lovers, confidants and sexual partners, which is no longer the object of people's spurning, or even an honor. Many people think that it is an indispensable way of life, and it is the embodiment of improving the quality of life. Modern people are no longer victims of feudal society. They are all very concerned about their physical and psychological needs, and they are all open-minded. The popular slogan is to do what they want.

Third, from people's ideas. Nowadays, people are becoming more and more indifferent to the concept of chastity. Young men and women born in the 1980s and 1990s no longer attach importance to the word chastity. Now unmarried women, from middle school students to college students, know a lot about sex, and they are also very casual. Some junior high school students and even primary school students have stolen the "forbidden fruit". It's nothing new for college students to look for a one-night stand, not to mention cohabitation. When the university is assigned, it's natural to say "bye-bye". Unmarried men and women can pursue sexual satisfaction. What do you mean by married people? Of course, the infidelity of married women does not rule out the following reasons:

1, lonely. Mainly due to work reasons, husband and wife often live apart from each other. In addition, the husband does not often communicate with his wife and cultivate feelings. After a long time, it will inevitably make them emotionally indifferent. It will make his wife feel lonely. At this time, if there is a suitable opposite sex, it will easily lead to the situation that his wife has an affair.

2. Revenge-taking type. Most of them are due to the husband's philandering outside. crazy in love, once discovered by his wife, was exposed. Husband and wife often have a stiff fight, and it is not surprising that his wife is angry and has revenge.

3, superior conditions. Most of them are because the wife is beautiful, the education and social status are superior to her husband, and there are many suitors around her. If her husband is not aggressive, it is easy for her to feel unworthy of herself. This will make her naturally cheat.

4. The husband and wife's life is not harmonious. Most of this type is because the husband has sexual dysfunction and can't have a normal husband and wife's life. However, sexual life is a very important part of husband and wife's life, or because the husband is busy with work, he can't give his wife warmth and consideration. Over time, it will lead to the disharmony of husband and wife's life, which will make his wife feel bored and seek new spiritual sustenance outside.

Fourth, I want to prove that my charm remains the same.

After women get married and have children, especially from the age of 27-28, women gradually move from teenage girls to young women, and they begin to doubt whether they are still young and attractive to men. During this period, women also begin to question life and resist aging. Especially those women who work hard or give up their careers for their husbands, they always feel that they have missed the best years of their lives. It seems that I have never enjoyed life. So, when they see men who like them, they want to learn the plot in books and movies to have an extramarital love affair.

Fifth, add a passion to love

In marriage, sexual life is often ignored by couples who are submerged in daily chores, but it is also an essential thing and should be placed in a less important position. However, women are always in a hurry, even though they are afraid of being treated as dissolute women by their husbands, or when women need more sex life and can't satisfy it at home, having an affair has become a new attempt to have fun.

Six, on a whim, catch up with fashion

Seven, just want to get rid of the boring life.

When men and women feel that life has become the same and unchanging, locked in boredom and loneliness, she will begin to yearn for change and be eager to seek adventure. These women are not looking for marriage outside, let alone trying to get rid of the existing marriage, but just to adjust their ordinary lives. Influenced by modern social atmosphere, let's experience the feeling of extramarital affairs. Life is like this. It gives making of a man opportunities and creates the same opportunities for women. When men choose women, men are also being chosen by women. Men cheat on women, and women cheat on men. Hehe/The world is so wonderful.