The empty "suitcase" is also anxious about interpersonal relationships, afraid of future life, and confused about existing life on the way to growth. Some uncomfortable emotions are filled bit by bit until one baggage after another is filled.
So, will you choose to escape? The answer is not multiple-choice questions. In the film, the city child will use simple food and unpretentious language in his own way. Tell you how to bring that little bit of comfort and comfort to the fragile and powerless mind, and convey a deep philosophy of life and a life aesthetics of returning to nature!
First, work at sunrise and rest at sunset.
1. Foreign version of Li Ziqi
Convenience store's triangular rice ball can satisfy people's hunger in three to five minutes. Compared with cooking a simple routine, it is often all kinds of fast food in takeaway software that you can't put it down. Busy working for a serious life, how long I haven't eaten well, seems to be a vague thing in my memory.
It is not necessary to observe the growth process of food materials. And the city is cooking, to fill those lonely days in the old house. "The fairyland is full of water, and the scenery of Taoyuan is intoxicating; "Under the east fence, where chrysanthemums are picked in the Ming Dynasty, the mountain villa is flat and easy to farm."
Komori, a village, is probably a paradise written by poets in the Tang Dynasty! The city's home is a clean and straight oil cypress road surrounded by rich forests, endless lush rice fields and simple and natural villagers … just like the beauty of the world is all gathered here.
Just like Li Ziqi, Shizi's ingredients are all from the fields or rice fields planted by themselves, and they also skillfully use the delicious food produced by natural gourmets. Besides, all kinds of delicious foods are made by ourselves and shared with others.
At the same time, their biggest similarity is that strong people are living seriously, adding quiet and leisurely fun to the boring life with food. Fatigue is common, people can't always output positive energy, and occasionally bring a little negative energy to themselves, so why not find your own hobby and try it as a kind of pleasure!
Second, what the heart wants, follow the past.
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Although there is no flowery rhetoric in the film, it simply states the trivialities in daily life. But you can still feel the stunning beauty of nature under the lens and the heart of a fragile girl with a tough appearance. The increase of white sugar can't change Elaeagnus angustifolia, just as city life can't change the market.
The fast pace of the city overwhelmed her with a series of blows, as if everything was out of place with her. This phenomenon has become a common thing in daily life, and there are not a few examples of young people who have worked hard in big cities returning to their hometown in loneliness.
What made them give up their original dreams? In fact, the answer can be imagined. Although college life is the beginning of contact with society, it is not the result of understanding society. The world is full of challenges and opportunities. Insufficient work and social experience make it impossible for us to adapt quickly, thus undermining confidence.
In addition, the protection from parents, schools and society is too great to bear the so-called pressure, and too much resistance to pressure will cause the psychology of wanting to escape. So she chose the same way as everyone else-escape, and chose to fill that lonely heart with food. She finally returned to her hometown-Komori.
Mom once said, "Cooking can reflect people's hearts, so pay attention, or you will hurt yourself." In fact, an ordinary dish can also read people's hearts, but these tiny observation points are hidden in the moment when people don't pay attention.
Usually, I always complain that my mother is lazy, and I also think that because of simplicity, I always fry vegetables. However, when she began to try to do it herself, what she did was always not the taste of her mother. It was not until the vegetables were finally tendon-removed that I realized that my mother had spent a lot of time in it. She neglected her mother's hobby of reading, which was her spirit.
In real life, why don't we spit in this way? We always think that one way or another is unsatisfactory, and in the end, it's always my mother's good that comes to mind. People always habitually accept kindness from their families, but they also forget that family members are the most vulnerable to subtle injuries, which of course includes words that they dislike again and again.
Time is passing, and the days are not always the same, just like spring, summer, autumn and winter. Every second the hour hand turns seems to be the same and different, and these repeated daily lives are dull and completely different. Treat every day with different moods, and you will find yourself completely new.
2. Calm down and find yourself.
Xiaoshi said, "It is disrespectful to stay in Komori because there is nowhere else to go." Sometimes life can only bring you four words, called "feel good." She is not so much fleeing from the city as from herself. A series of troubles of love, affection and friendship caught her off guard, and finally she slowly understood it in food.
Difficulties are always there. Not being afraid is the beginning of growth, and not escaping is the beginning of maturity. Perhaps, in the process of persuading herself, she has been gradually understanding life, and needs to calm down and sort out her thoughts, and need to find the truest self like Room 19.
In fact, everyone has a vulnerable side. Because they are afraid, they dare not face themselves directly, and often use tough masks to disguise themselves. Might as well give yourself some time, a room to settle your heart and recognize yourself. Real growth never depends on others to become strong.
People may look for excuses for their hypocrisy and deceive themselves by treating it as elegant and vulgar. Why not be real? Even though there are many difficulties, why not live a serious life. As Liu Tong, a young writer, once wrote, "If a man drinks water, he knows whether he is warm or cold. If there is no foundation in his heart, all the decorations on the surface will be fleeting. When everything dissipates, everything that doesn't belong to him will eventually be taken away and left behind."
And Liu Tong just concisely expounded that floating on the surface is all scenery, and sinking down comes from having an answer. Facing the true demands of the heart is the correct way to pursue the answer. There will be unfairness and discomfort in all parts of the world. Maybe you will be tired of the complexity of social interaction, maybe you will feel insincere please, maybe you have never felt the hope of the future in the crowded subway ...
But these only belong to the world. Please don't lose heart to the society and yourself. If you can't change the environment, you can only change yourself and live up to it sincerely. There is nothing perfect in the world. We should learn to face up to the shortcomings and shortcomings. Only when we really love, can our souls land.
Bravely pursue your heart, be your truest self, and make the world brighter! Sometimes the subtle touch is really healing, and the light life has his radiant light. I hope you have gone through hardships and dangers, feel that the world is worth it, see all the changes in temperature, and still love it.