The first baby was born at 2pm on September 20th, 20 19.

I still remember that it was September19,2065438. At two o'clock in the morning, I was lying in bed with a dull pain in my stomach. It hurts like menstruation. I touched it with my hand and made sure it was blood. Because I have done a lot of knowledge from pregnancy to delivery in advance, I am sure I am jealous.

I pushed my husband and said, "honey, I may have a baby." I have a stomachache. "

Husband, a carp sat up from the bed and said nervously, "What should I do?"

I said calmly, "What can I do? Take my bag. There are also suitcases packed in advance, as well as various documents, all of which have been taken. Then, take a taxi to the hospital. "

At this time, my mother-in-law also knocked at the door and came in. Clean with my husband.

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Then go to the hospital.

September 19, 20 19, I feel fine during the day, and the pain is within my tolerance. Then I video with my mother and my sister. (I got married far away)

In the video, I asked my sister, "What kind of pain can I have?"

My sister said, "I can't talk when the pain lasts, and I can't breathe when the pain lasts."

Because it's the first child, it won't be born so fast.

19 started labor pains at 5 pm, once every 20 minutes, then once every 15 minutes, once every 10 minutes, and then once every 5 minutes ... The interval of labor pains is getting shorter and shorter.

That is to say, I stayed up all night, suffered from pain all night, plus a morning. The whole person was exhausted, and it was not until the afternoon of the 20th 1:30 that all fingers were fully opened and the delivery room was promoted.

In the process of pain reaching my fingers, my aching hands were shaking, my hands and arms were purple, and my hair stood on end. My mother-in-law's hand was pinched by me. I finally understand what my sister said. Constant pain, even breathing, is painful.

I entered the delivery room under the guidance of the doctor and gave birth to the baby in 45 minutes.

At the moment I heard the baby crying, all my pain disappeared.

I lay on the delivery bed and looked at the ceiling, relieved. I just think I won the war of having children.

I don't know if the pain is numb or really painless. I didn't feel any pain during sewing.

I have been looking at the baby lying beside my bed. He really looks like an angel. Unconsciously, tears have flowed out.

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Generally speaking, giving birth is painless. It hurts to have a natural birth. Caesarean section is painful.

As long as the family understands and gives encouragement, it will calm the mood of pregnant women in time. All the pain will pass.

I remember reading a data before giving birth that giving birth is a high probability event. As long as you don't give up and bite your teeth, you can live.

So pregnant women should not put too much pressure on themselves. Whether it's a natural birth or a natural birth, the doctor will give practical advice and then let you have a baby smoothly.

I wish you a happy pregnancy

I am the mother of two children, the eldest is 6 years old and the second is 2 years old and 8 months old. Both children were born naturally. When the eldest brother was born, his due date was five days, and he had a slight stomachache at eight o'clock in the evening. Later, after 9: 10, I found that the pain was getting worse and worse. I knew it was going to start, and I was also having contractions, because I also asked my friends who had just given birth in advance, and the process of contractions would be very long, so don't worry about going to the hospital. So I went to the hospital around 12 that night, because I felt more and more pain around 1 1. Because I have already prepared the package that I haven't prepared in advance, and I have done enough psychological construction for myself, because when I have a baby for the first time, to be honest, I will inevitably have some fears, fears of the unknown. In the late pregnancy, in order to eliminate the fear, I specially found some videos of giving birth on the Internet to watch, in order to know fairly well. And silently cheer yourself up and convince yourself that this is a natural process. So many women in the world, especially our parents' generation, have relatively few caesarean sections. The vast majority of women have also done it, giving birth to children healthily. I can do it too. Besides, medicine is so developed now that there is no need to worry at all. With this attitude, I went to the hospital with my family around 12 that night. When I went to the hospital, the doctor said that I opened two fingers and sent them directly to the delivery room. At about 3: 30 in the morning, my daughter was born. To tell the truth, of course it hurts, but because I had expectations in my heart, I felt that the pain was within my imagination. I thought it would hurt badly. Looking at my daughter's lovely appearance, I feel that everything is worth it. From about 8 pm to about 3: 30 am, the whole journey takes seven and a half hours. The midwife said that this was my first child and it was born quickly. He also asked me to confirm my first child [covering my face].

When the second child was born, it was six days after the expected date of delivery, and there was no movement at all. I went to the hospital for examination and said I was hospitalized directly. I don't have enough production factors secreted in my body (I don't understand the specific terms, so I don't mislead you). I need an injection of oxytocin. The next morning, I gave a shot of oxytocin to puncture the sheep and let it flow, about seven or eight o'clock in the morning. I forgot the details. It seems that I took an oxytocin injection for about an hour, and it began to hurt slowly, and then it became more and more painful. The nurse told us that several people were injected with oxytocin. When they feel unbearable pain, they ring the bell. I don't know how long it hurts. Ouch, ouch, I called the nurse. She pushed me into the delivery room. I remember I was very impressed. When I walked to the door of the delivery room, the pain suddenly increased. At that time, it was almost. The whole time is about more than five hours. To be honest, I feel that the second child is more painful than the first child. I thought I should be more confident after having a second child. As a result, I cried at the door of the delivery room for a few minutes. Later, I heard from Aunt Yue in the same ward that you entered the delivery room with a few fingers. I said I heard from the nurse that there were more than three fingers. As a result, it was born soon after entering the delivery room. The third finger should be 10 finger. This process is too fast, no one. Everyone's situation should be different.

To sum up, I want to tell you that being a mother is one of the happiest things in life. Although the mother is very hard, it is worthwhile to see the child born safely and healthily! Really, it's really no big deal to do psychological construction for yourself. Finally, I wish the baby healthy and beautiful! Experience for your reference, come on, Ma Bao!

I have given birth to two babies, one delivered naturally and the other by caesarean section. I am still qualified to answer this question.

Lao da shun chan

At night, I began to have a sore chirp, about once every 20 minutes. I went to the hospital to check my contractions and was hospitalized. There was no movement. At 9: 30, I stuffed a medicine to promote uterine contraction, which hurts once every minute or two. The density is ok. I can bear pain, and I can only hum twice at most. However, the cervix is not open, and the uterine contraction needle is hung at 10. 1, and it still hurts once every one or two minutes, and the pain intensity is tolerable. The pain reached 7 o'clock 10. 1, and it began to hurt badly. Shout it out if necessary, but at this time I had a painless injection, and I couldn't help it for several times, so I increased the painless dose. Dabao was born at night 10: 50. Although it hurts for a few days, its strength is acceptable, so don't worry.

It's just that I'm a special case, and I was born suffering. Placenta implantation, abnormal delivery, doctor tearing placenta, bleeding, taking uterine gauze, clearing uterus, puerperal infection, fever for half a month, pubic bone separation, unable to walk. ...

The uterine gauze is more than two meters long to stop bleeding. After the blood coagulates, it adheres to the uterine wall and then pulls out. You can experience it. Qing palace can't be painless, saying that we should control the depth of the doctor's scalpel according to my pain, and then experience it. The pubic separation is even more painful. The legs can't control walking, and they can't be separated at a certain scale, which is even greater than great pain. It's a bit like a sprained back or a stiff neck. Many movements can't be done, but the pain is several degrees stronger.

Second-child laparotomy

Because of habitual placenta implantation, placenta previa, my second child, the doctor suggested caesarean section, did enough work in advance, did MRI, prepared blood, and had caesarean section two weeks in advance. Caesarean section itself is ok. At most, there is no pain-relieving plaster the next day, and a uterine contraction needle will be hung, which will hurt for a long time. I muttered for a long time.

Because I am a special case, that is, I still have massive bleeding and my uterus is stuffed with gauze. For me, the most painful thing is to hold gauze in my hand. More than two meters of gauze was pulled out of the uterus. This kind of crime is beyond description. It hurts so much that I don't know how to cry. Only my throat is dry and astringent Tears are not crying, but I can't stop flowing. And this kind of crime, the boss and the second child have experienced. There is another crime after the second caesarean section, that is, no ventilation. I drank radish soup again, and my stomach was bulging, like an inflatable big basketball. My stomach is bigger than before, and it will explode in minutes if I feel stuffy. After drinking a lot of Chinese medicine, my mother kept rubbing it for me, and it took three or four days to get well.

In short, the normal part of having a baby is fine. I am a special case and cannot be used as a reference. It's not painful for friends around to have children, but they will be alive and kicking in three or two days, don't worry.

Hello, I'm Hua Lin's mother.