What taboos should not be touched in marriage that smart women must never touch?

01. Belittle him for no reason

What a man cares about most is his face. No matter what he is like, he will always hope that the person he loves most can stand beside him. There, it is enough to give him face, instead of belittling him for no reason when there is an urgent matter. In fact, when having sex with men, you need to pay attention to communication methods. Especially if it is your own man, you should understand what he cares about and not hurt their self-esteem. A man can point out his shortcomings and things he doesn't do well, but he needs to pay attention to the way he expresses them. No one can make a wife who demeans himself for no reason. Good men are all about boasting. What a man is like sometimes depends on how you train yourself. Most couples with harmonious marriages are good at communication and communication. They will know how to praise and confirm, and try to discover his strengths instead of eagerly denying them. Therefore, women should understand this taboo and not belittle him because of trivial matters. This will only lead to more gain than loss.

02. Talking about their parents

I think for a man, he will be very concerned about other people’s comments about their parents. Not only men, but almost all people. They will protect their family members and feel that their parents are better. In this way, when a woman is having sex with a man, she needs to know how to control what to say and what not to say, and be able to grasp it accurately. To say such things to his parents face to face is foolishness. Most men are relatively filial and will take care of their parents. Even if you tell them that their parents are not good, they will still involuntarily favor their parents.

Therefore, even if you are wronged, if you talk about his parents in front of them, he will want to blame you. After all, if you think about it seriously, you are the other person in that family. If you talk about his parents without mercy, they will probably feel uncomfortable. And a smart woman will know how to handle this kind of interpersonal communication. She will never talk about her parents-in-law in public, but will choose to use implicit methods to remind the other party and at the same time express her inner feelings. No matter how wrong they are, they are all old people and must be respected. Perhaps from your perspective, your views may still be the same. Therefore, at any time, women can ensure that they think from each other's point of view and express it in a comfortable way, which will get twice the result with half the effort.