On 20 121/month 1 1 day, Wang Wenjin, a boy from Wenhua College of Huazhong University of Science and Technology, sent a love letter of160,000 words that he wrote in 2 12 days to his favorite girl. The content of this love letter includes prose, poetry and other styles. The main content is to recall what they did together or to express their feelings through the scenery. He bound it into a book and named it "I don't want to leave you alone". The girl was very moved and then turned him down.

In this incident, the phrase "the girl was very moved and then rejected him" was abbreviated by netizens as the new word "ten moves but refused". Then, netizens began to make sentences of "ten moves and refusal". "Ten-action refusal" quickly became popular on the Internet.

At the same time, the domain name related to "Ten Moves and Rejects" was squatted.