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There is a topic on the internet to discuss what types of women who make friends can't marry. For example, people who always bask in food and play games in the circle of friends, people who show off their wealth and people who are cynical.

This topic is very hot, but many women are not happy and think this statement is too one-sided. Especially basking in delicious food, even if you always eat, drink and be merry, it doesn't mean you can't get married?

On the other hand, some married women live in poverty after marriage and share a room with several carefully selected men, which shows that these types of men cannot get married. It can't be said to be completely correct, but it can be used as a reference for mate selection.

First of all, a man who never helps with the children can't get married;

Indeed, children are the fruits of two people, and no one stipulates that children must be raised by their mothers. Men think that working to earn money to support their families is a great contribution, so they won't take care of their children when they go home. I think I should rest and relax after I go home. Everything at home is a woman's responsibility. However, men need a rest when they come home from work for eight hours, but women are also busy from morning till night. If they have to take care of the children at the same time, they have no rest time. When children fall asleep, they have to wash clothes and do housework. They can't stop. Therefore, it is considerate for men to take care of their children when they go home.

Moreover, a man who goes home and doesn't help with the children is naturally loveless. Shouldn't his children be eager to take him home with him? A person who has no love at all can imagine how indifferent his heart should be.

Second, a grumpy man can't get married;

At this point, we should distinguish between impatience and irritability. Impatience may be the influence of family background. As long as you are emotionally stable, even if you are impatient, you will not act impulsively, so there is no problem. But he has a bad temper, and sometimes he gets angry inexplicably, even uncontrollably. Such a man is probably a little bit, so be careful. If he loves you very much, he may gradually change his temper. If he is also a male chauvinist, he really dares not get married for fear of being beaten. ...

Third, a man who listens to his mother too much cannot get married;

Some men listen to their mothers, which may be irrelevant and unprincipled. They just happily coaxed their mother and followed her. It doesn't matter as long as it's not too much. But there is one kind, because it is indecisive and immature, like mambo, so you should think clearly. If he wants to ask his mother for instructions and listen to her arrangement, you have to see how his mother is, otherwise, I'm afraid he won't have a good life when he marries. Because with your life and behavior, you must obey his mother's arrangement.

These three points are only selected from many articles, because they are relatively large and not so biased. There are also some women who list one-sided or biased. For example, those who have no money, always play mobile phones, those who don't love their wives, those who are uneducated and too ugly can't marry. ...

In fact, to sum up, a man who has problems with his three views of personality really can't marry. If it is a personality problem, it can be corrected, changed and run-in. But only if there is true love between you, that is, this man really loves you, so he is willing to make changes for you. And as long as you really love each other, then no money is not a problem, just work together. Happiness is not all money.

Playing mobile phones all the time, both men and women can change, not the kind with strong principles. Just like a man who likes to play games, one day he is mature, sensible, finds something that can realize his self-worth, or works hard because he wants to give you a home, then he will naturally stop playing games.

As for whether you love your wife or not, it depends on whether you are likable or not. If he loves you, he will love you naturally. Being uneducated and too ugly can't be used as a reason not to get married. Culture can only say that women think they are very literate, so they can't marry people without culture, but this is not the standard of the public.

With regard to looks, we can refer to Pan An's psychology in the eyes of lovers. Besides, men's looks are mainly set off by temperament and ability. Besides, if they don't look good, they will take a lot of advantages. Naturally, some people struggle to get married, most of them are proud women. They think men are handsome and take them out with face, but life and long days are their own, and happiness comes from people themselves, not appearance.

In short, what kind of man can't marry? What kind of woman can't marry? It is impossible to have a specific standard. Everything is changing, and there are people. A man you think you can't marry may change for love and a woman in the future. A man who looks good in all aspects and can get married may get worse and worse because he marries the wrong woman.

Therefore, make yourself more complete, more perfect, more worthy of love, and more worthy of marriage. Naturally, you will meet many men who can marry and make this man better.